backbiting!

December 13, 2011 10:24am CST
When you hear people like co-workers or even friends or relatives who always talk about you or say something about you with others, what will you do? will you confront them or just be calm ,let them and ignore the issue?
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24 Dec 11
just ignore them i know your smart enough to figure it out what's the main reason.. Many times, you are the single most significant and glorious thing that has ever happened in the lives of some people and also to me, some are insecure and they just sit around and talk about you over and over again throughout the days,weeks,months or even years while you are out there living your life, always remember every step that you take and every kiss that you make having absolutely nothing to do with them, at all!
25 Dec 11
Thank you for the reply. you are right. they just make an issue because of their self insecurities. the world is round. they just think they're superior now but later on it will be different. we'll never know. it just okay as long as we know that we are not hurting anyone that's why they make issues and bad comments to ruin us. instead of taking it as negative because they will try to discouraged us and put us down, we should take it as a challenge to be persistent in life to attain success. and let's see in the future.
26 Dec 11
As what Selena Gomez sang in her song entitled "who says", it says "Who are you to judge when you're a diamond in a rough. i'm sure you've got some things you'd like yo change about yourself. But when it comes to me, I wouldn't wanna be anybody else."
25 Dec 11
NO one has the right to judge us because NO one really knows what we have been through. They may have heard about our stories, but they never did once felt what we felt in our hearts. Just be strong and have faith.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
13 Dec 11
it depends who it was but I believe in giving a person a chance to explain as if someone else told you that this happened I would like to know if it was true first, but most likely if it was true I would then walk away from theat person, out of my life...
13 Dec 11
You have a point..We have to clarify first the issue before we react on it. But what if that person is making gossips and issues on you to destroy your reputation. what will you do??