long distance love
By elvyra
@elvyra (35)
United States
7 responses
@campos22 (47)
• United States
15 Dec 11
Long distance relationships are a tricky thing. It is best when everything is done mutually. In my experience they really only work with minimal stress if both parties are open minded. We must choose to live free and not tie ourselves down to the idea of someone coming back for us. What if u wait for him or her and they meet someone else, then you are just waiting for your heart to be broken. I say get on with your life. If the love is true then it will be there when your significant other returns. If not then its simply not meant to be. One thing is for sure and that is we do not know what will happen in the future. Live for today and when tomorrow comes and he or she is back in our arms then we know the love is true and strong.
@jobfindonline (1744)
•
15 Dec 11
Long distance love is something that is really hard to maintain. Open and constant communication is necessary to make it work. And the most important things that should be there between you are love, trust and honesty.
It's very risky to be far from your loveone, infidelity and temptations are there. we have weak flesh and humans are inclined to do wrong. So why should we risk our relationship by working abroad and leaving our loveone? Only few succeed in this kind of relationship.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
14 Dec 11
it depends on you.
It depends on what your love is true love that.
if love is real it can last over time to withstand the distance.
because a true love there is no reason it will withstand all in one long distance and all obstacles.
interesting question.
nice day!
@bb_gabs (205)
• Philippines
14 Dec 11
Long distance relationship is very hard, but you can go through it if you will have Trust in your partner, Understanding, Patience and Positive Thinking. If you and your partner have all of these, you can survive a long distance relationship. Like in my situation, my husband and I have been into a long distance relationship for over three years now, he works abroad and I am left with our three kids, but as of now, we still have each other and I think those things that I have said earlier really helps a lot. It is not really hard nowadays to communicate with the power of technology, we can be with our loved ones even they are far from us.
@ayvanee (149)
• Philippines
14 Dec 11
Being in a long distance relationship is hard. I just get to think of it a couple of times in a day. I would suggest that to make a long distance relationship work, the couple should have with them love, trust, respect, cellphone and an internet connection. Of course, we all know the first three are vital in a relationship, all the more it needs to be treasured and held when couples are far from each other. Next, the cellphone. We all know the use of it, to text or call and update each other of what you both are up to. Lastly, an internet connection. We can all see the wonders the internet has made, thanks to Skype and other video calling sites, we can virtually be there for our loved ones!
This makes me wonder why a lot of long distance relationships long ago worked without cellphone, and an internet connection. Hehehe.