Relationship without Trust
@jhessykhatyhan (1)
28 responses
@Triple0 (1904)
• Australia
24 Dec 11
I always thought relationships were built upon trust, without trust ho can a relationship be functional? It's always about trust, even in friendships, it's always about trust. If you didn't trust your partner, you wouldn't last very long because you will always be suspicious of your partner and you may not let them go out on their own. No one wants a controlling partner who is always suspicious of them and never trusting them. That's who relationships fail and why people cheat on each other, it's not a lovely idea. In order to a functional relationship, partners really need a sense of trust which in turns develops a sense of love for one another. It's very hard to always accuse your partner of this and that, there will be conflicts and there will be tears. There are some people who rely on their partner so much that they have to stay with them even if you know that you're partner is cheating. I reckon all relationships need trust. Without it, relationships would be pretty depressing.
@a11ycat (35)
• Canada
24 Dec 11
I don't think so --- but if it's a new relationship, yes! It takes time to build trust. But if you can't trust them with your heart, it's a no-go for me!!
@min8esign (167)
• Indonesia
24 Dec 11
I don't think it'll works fine, no one can built relationship without trust - it's a difficult one. How can we built a relationship without trust?
No relationship of any kind can exist without trust.
@darkaxis05 (2)
• Philippines
24 Dec 11
I would definitely say "NO IT WONT WORK ANYMORE" unless your a type of a person close to God and can forgive anything to the reach of your patience. Trust is like a puzzle once it lost a piece its so hard to get back that piece cause all puzzle cannot be created similar
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
15 Dec 11
i think relationships without trust can only last for so long. it can really be bothersome for the involved persons. The one who can't give trust will suffer more because she or he will always worry and will think of things that might not be true. it can be paranoia... and that is really unhealthy. somehow the other person will eventually feel tired of explaining things to the other person.
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
15 Dec 11
I think that it would be very, very, very hard for a relationship to work once trust has been breached. If nothing else, you are not going to be looking at the other person in the same exact way ever again. There is going to be some mistrust, as you keep looking at them, wondering if the same action that had shattered the trust would ever happen again. There will always be that lingering doubt right in your mind.
So in the end, it is an awkward situation. It might even be awkward to even be in the same room with the other person, depending how bad the trust was broken. It is one of the more horrifying things to do, as trust is not something that is easily repaired. It is something that takes years to gain and only mere moments to lose. Relationships like that won't work at all.
@Olleenz (3398)
• Indonesia
14 Dec 11
Hi jhessykhatyhan, welcome to MyLot
In my opinion that still possible but not going to easy. Actually that depend on several factor (at least for me):
1. If this person to person relationship only, it hard to build same relationship like before.
2. In business relationship, trust is number one. Loose the thrust, it mean loosing money.
3. In politic, No one can be trust but you still make relationship.
@libertysweet (112)
• Philippines
22 Dec 11
i dont think it will work out just fine but anyway merry christmas to you.
@olivialam55 (20)
• China
14 Dec 11
Hi friend, I think can. actually no need to cut the relationship with the person that you will not trust anymore. even he or she can't be trusted, you can still be friend.Only don't be so close. That's it! :)
@LifeOngoing (129)
• United States
16 Dec 11
I don't think you can have a relationship without trust. I do think that there needs to be understanding about what actually happened though. Sometimes it isn't what it seems on the surface. A lot of times actually. An argument or problem normally has its roots in something that happened in the past. Sometimes something happened because of a misunderstanding. We usually feel that what we think or feel is easy to see. Why not? I know how I feel, it's obvious isn't it? No, it's not. I don't think you can have a relationship (well a good constructive one) without good communication. I also feel that you should really know the person you're in a relationship with. The things a person does says something about their character. Can you say that you honestly know that person and that you are compatible enough together to have a constructive relationship? Do both of you know that you're actually in a relationship? Do both of you know what the standards of that relationship are? This might sound a little crazy, but the two of you may not even be in the same relationship. Find out what the other person thinks that you two are doing together first. Your relationship without trust question may not be the most important one.
@katipunero5 (277)
• Philippines
20 Dec 11
impossible. that is not love. love is composed of trust and faithfulness. you cant love with out that two things. you know what.. the simple way to build up strong relationship is when you surrender your life to Jesus let him be the center of your life. he can fix, restore everything that has been gone or damaged. he can do it for u. coz he loves you.
@tessa9 (1085)
• Philippines
14 Dec 11
In a real relationship, I don't think that it will work without it. The couple will just be kidding themselves into thinking that they are in love or something. I guess it can work in a non-romantic relationship but I personally will feel very weird about it. Trust is very important for me and I don't think I will go into a relationship without it.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
14 Dec 11
For a relationship to work, there has to be trust for each other. Without trust, the relationship will die, because there's always a doubt as to each other's love.
@luckygrey67 (765)
• Indonesia
14 Dec 11
Trust is the foundation on which relationship is built. If you don't trust a person, your relationship will not survive, because you have no trust. A relationship without a trust is like two people trying to trick the other one into believing something is there that is not really there.
No relationship of any kind can exist without a trust.
@Woody7189 (247)
• United States
14 Dec 11
I don't think that a relationship will work without trust, because everything will always result in doubts and suspicions. Trust is one of the most important qualities needed for a good relationship. Once trust is lost, the relationship is doomed. Trust is also very difficult to earn once it is lost.
@kmeeks (49)
• United States
14 Dec 11
Well I think its possible, but its never good to keep negative thoughts about someone locked away. Mainly because if you talk in your sleep, you might wake up with a unhappy partner. But there is more to a relationship than trust. I believe that if the relationship as a whole is strong it will still work out.
@early3 (60)
• Philippines
14 Dec 11
I don't think so. Trust and Respect are two of the most important factors in any relationship be it with our parents, friends or partner. Have a heart to heart talk, it will resolve any current problem.