Those who Served.
By Viniox
@Viniox (7)
United States
2 responses
@courtknee525 (3742)
• United States
15 Dec 11
Glad to know that you're finally back safe and sound. I've never been in the military but my boyfriend just swore in yesterday into the US Army. I don't remember exactly what his job is called, but it has something to do with reading radar and artillery locations. He's leaving either in May or June and I'm heartbroken.
When you left, did you leave anybody behind like that? Because I'm having a hard time dealing with it.
1 person likes this
@Viniox (7)
• United States
15 Dec 11
My wife and I have been together since we were 16. I swore into the service when i turned 17 and i shipped to basic when i turned 18. We loved each other very much and couldn't imagine how life would be separated for so long. I went to basic and advance individual training for a total of 7 months. A military separation can do one of two things to a relationship... it can end it or it can strengthen it more than you can ever imagine. Ultimately it is one of the biggest test that you can have on a relationships true love. Being away from my wife for that long was one of the hardest things that i have ever done. And when i left for Iraq i was gone for a year and not only did i have to leave my wife i also had to leave my 6 month old daughter. If you truly love each other and can make it last through the hardships of separation then you have nothing to worry about. you know why? Its because what you share between each other is something that we all seek... but few of us ever find.
1 person likes this
@courtknee525 (3742)
• United States
15 Dec 11
Thank you, that really makes me feel a lot better hearing it from someone who has actually gone through it. We've been together 2 years and always talked about getting married. The fact that he's leaving doesn't change his mind about being together and I really do think he's in this relationship for good. I think we have what it takes to stick it out and give us something to look forward to once he's out. I'm sure having your wife and daughter definitely gave you something to look forward to for when you were able to come back home. If we can survive being separated, then we really could take on anything.
Thanks again! Hearing what you had to say definitely makes me feel a lot better about the whole situation
1 person likes this
@JoyfulOne (6232)
• United States
15 Dec 11
I haven't served, but my nephew was in Iraq when he was an Army Ranger. I just wanted to say I'm glad you're home safe with your family again. And also to say thank you for serving our country, as well as to benefit other countries. When my nephew was in, I worried a lot about him, and the fact that some missions he had to do alone for days. His was one where we were not allowed to know exactly where, or what, he was doing there, so that also added to the worry (and you know what I mean!:-) I'm glad you're home and able to be with your wife and your little daughter! I know it's kinda early, but I'm also wishing you three a very Merry Christmas season.
@Viniox (7)
• United States
15 Dec 11
Thank you for the support. Its support that makes what we do easier. I really do enjoy my job as I'm sure your nephew does the same. I really do know what you mean when it comes to confidentiality and operation security.. I logged just over 130 missions in downtown Baghdad. Thanks again for the support and you too have a wonderful holiday season.
