why don't they comment back?

every mylotter is your friend. i crossed check your profile. you got good enough responses for your most of the discussions. fake discussion is not good practice.

Hi sijabatnaburjut Sorry that you had got to those discussions from the people who dont respond. I too feel that not responding back is unhealthy. But again, it is their wish. And remember they are the losers not us. Wait. When I say they are the losers, I am not meaning anything from the income aspects... this one they lose too, but I see that in case they dont respond back, they lose something that money can never get them - Friends. I accept there are times when even I do not respond back to all on my discussion but I do take care to make up with those whom I could not respond. After all we are all here for interactions and discussions... Some people have the habit of responding only to people who are in their friends list - they are justified too as we are here for a small part of our day and within that most of the time is already reserved for friends. A majority of the Lotters here are really great and they DO take a lot of pleasure in responding to all who comment on theirs. I try to follow the same but there are times when the lazy me takes over.

This happens mainly with the new and inexperienced.I find some replies which i have given after careful consideration and deliberation aren't replied.Some give a best response within hours of the discussion being started and only a few responses being given.I feel they haven't read the guidelines well or even realized that only receiving a reply is not enough.One has to revert back to the person sending the reply as it not only clarifies the point but the chances of earning more are greater.

I personally don't comment often to the answers in the discussion that I created. It is not because I did not read it but I will only comment if I feel like I have something to say. It is not a mean of disrespect or anything but I guess a lot of people are different. Some comment to all the post while others do not.

Hi Sijabatnaburjut, I think these people don't comment back because they assume they won't get paid for their efforts, but they are soooo wrong if they think this. Some of these folks believe they get paid for what you type. What kind of job will pay folks for the work other people do? Not any that I know of... so these people need to smarten up and begin commenting if they want to make money. Mylot is such a great place for people to get to know each other through their chatting back and forth on discussions... and get paid for it too! Great! Welcome to Mylot. I've not seen you here.. so this is PQ Saying Welcome!

There are busy with there own work and have no time to read the responses to write them back. People just want to take the goods they want and leave others.

Some people still don't understand that MyLot only pays them for what THEY type. It does NOT pay people for the number of responses they get to a discussion. Others, apparently, think that it is easier to earn here by just posting huge quantities of discussions (usually they are very low quality and many will be deleted). If someone does this excessively, they are very likely to just have their accounts deleted. Some people are selective about who they reply to. This may be for a number of reasons. If your response simply says what has already been said elsewhere, the D.O. may think it appropriate or necessary only to reply to the previous, possibly better, response. There is NO advantage or value in simply saying 'Thanks for responding' and you shouldn't ever expect that. When responding to a discussion, you should always read what has already been said. If you feel that you can add something of value to the discussion, then respond with something original, descriptive and of value and you should, sooner or later, get a reply from the Discussion Owner. Not everyone is here all the time and MyLot's notifications sometimes take a little while, so it may be a day or more before your response is acknowledged. If you find that a particular person NEVER replies to responses, the best thing to do is to ignore that person's discussions in future. If someone doesn't know how discussions work and don't seem to be prepared to learn, then that's their problem. Just shrug your shoulders and find discussions which ARE going to be discussions in the proper sense of the word.

I see to it to comment back to every respondent to my started topic.For me it is not fair not to let the respondent how I feel for his/her reply.Here is a give and take.If someone respond to your discussion that person contributed to your topic in any way.It is a fair action to comment them back.The more the merrier.

Hi there, i understand how you feel. I will feel sad when my comment not getting any respond from the discussion creator. But when its happen too frequent, i just ignore it and skip to other. It is not polite for those who not respond to their commentator but they are not against the rule. Just my opinion.Happy mylotting.

hello, I have noticed this too, infact a lot. This sort of a thing usually happen with the new comers to the mylot. They are carried away by the false impression that by creating the posts they will be paid and things like that. That is why they kep posting topics and leave it there thinking that will serve their purpose. Little they do not realize that they will get the full benefit of it only if they get back to responding for the people who reply. Once they start getting to know this, they will come back to their posts and reply. Sometimes it also happens that, when someone ask for some information, people keep repeating the same response, so there's no point in responding everyone with the same response. That way you won't get the reply to your response. That is why, before responding to any post you need to read the previous contents and responses already posted by the members. But, the experienced people here on mylot, sometimes they won't be able to turn up because of their everyday busy schedule. In that case, you need to have patience and wait for some time. Surely they will respond back once they are back to Mylot. Cheers! Happy mylotting!

Hi, sijabatnaburjut, I think this is one of problem that won’t be solve to be discuss in mylot. Everyone have different oriented here. Some people come to discuss and find out new thing and other want to earn as much as they can. Sorry I don’t judge anyone, but same with you I experience the same thing when I discuss/ response/ comment a discussion, I just though that interesting discussion can go a long and long but then there’s no response anymore. At first feel disappointed, but then it’s come to be more usual because it’s frequently happen here. one day, two days, a weeks, three weeks, months.. there's no response, just let it go

Hello there! I try to answer or comment back to all who responded to my discussions. I think that is being polite and a way of thanking them. Well, not all people are the same anyway

Well, all i can tell you is dont worry be happy. Even if those whom you commented on their discussions do not comment on your discussion, there will always be new people like me who might like your discussion and comment on it.

Well, all i can tell you is dont worry be happy. Even if those whom you commented on their discussions do not comment on your discussion, there will always be new people like me who might like your discussion and comment on it.

hi sijabatnaburjut thats a good discussion point why do they do this? some are still so sure they will just get paid for our responses that we typed in and they will wait til hell freezes over as we typed those responses so if they want to make earnings they must comment back on all our responses. I feel really angry any more if I spend my valuable time to respond and I get no comment at all. now I have started to not respond to these same people as they never comment back or they comment to maybe five friends and tell the rest of us by neglecting us that we can go straight h, and stay put. if they find suddenly their discussions are not getting responses maybe they will start doing the right thing and commenting back on all their responses.they are not being sociable at all , so you are right that they should show their best to us people.

i try to respond as soon as possible to everything had responded my discussion.. because i always want to interact with my friends here.. but i believe everyone here had a different purpose why they come here.. and of course it can make some difference too.. some of peope here is dilligent to respond back.. but few of them did not respond back, maybe because some of the factors.. 1. they had no time anymore for respond back and back.. 2. they don`t think the respond back is still important 3. maybe the hot issues is not longer and the respond back is not urgent anymore for that time

Its their responsiblity to reply for those comments they received in their own discussions. I always love to start discussions new and i wil check back then and then comment back to all my responders sometimes i wil be unable to reply to all comments when receive more responses because i wil start new discussions often so that i can care first for new discussions.

Hi sijabat, I have the same questions too, but I usually think that maybe some of them are still busy with their offline job and don't have the time yet to reply on our comments. Sometimes it takes a while for me, a week or more. But there are some who just don't care and that's a little offending.

Good question. We should promote a link: Select discussions --- Responded. I do that everyday when i log in mylot. I think it is a kind of respect for people share their idea with me :)