what's your feeling after you quarrel with your boyfriend

China
December 16, 2011 3:00am CST
hi mylotters ,i was quarrel with my boyfriends yesterday ,i was badly hurt by his voice,in fact it's a minor matter.i have a feeling to break up after quarrel with him.what's your feeling after you quarrel with your boyfriend.
11 responses
@yahnee (1243)
• Philippines
28 Dec 11
I feel bad quarreling with the boyfriend and I am afraid he was really turned off. Actually it was my fault and myself to blame for being too emotional. I feel bad till now since he has not even tried to communicate with me. If I don't receive any message today, then he was probably so mad and thinking that it's time to end the relationship which has gone on smoothly for the last 4 years. I am still hoping though that he will make the first move, if not, then it would be something that would really cause a deep heartache, one that I know I won't get over in a very long time.
• United States
1 May 12
I hope that things have worked out ok for you and your boyfriend. After all the two of you have been together for four years. That's a really long time . And hopefully a little disagreement or something of the sort hasn't destroyed what you have together.
@yahnee (1243)
• Philippines
2 May 12
Dominique25, thanks you. No everything is back in their proper perspective but we are trying to make compromises in order that we can work out all the problems. Hopefully everything may just work fine once we are able to solve the problems. Just have to exert a lot of patience and understanding but hopefully our love will win out in the end.
@rafiholmes (2896)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 11
na..me no boyfriend...hahaha ima guy.. i dont have girlfrind either..whatta loser..lolz.. u quarrel with your boyfriend yesterday? badly hurt?? come go withme then..dont chat waste another minute with that no good sonavagun.. ;)
• Malaysia
17 Dec 11
hahah okay...
• China
17 Dec 11
hi rafiholme,thanks a lot,happy everyday ,my friend.
@soulist (2985)
• United States
4 Jan 12
After my boyfriend and I get into an argument I do feel upset, but I don't necessarily want to break up with him. After a little while I will feel guilty and want to apologize to him and make up. I love him and sometimes our fights make me realize how much I love him.
• United States
1 May 12
Usually when most couples have an argument we tend to feel upset as our emotions come to the surface. Yeah we shouldn't break up because of arguments. We should strive to work with them. Because no matter what relationship we are in we are bound to have arguments at some time or another. I hope that you relationship is now going well.
@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
16 Dec 11
I think Love quarrel is a normal with two lovers, thats part of a challenge how you both love each other.
• India
16 Dec 11
Hey svjomboy, Do you used to have quarrels between you and your girl friend? Do you have a girl friend ?
• China
16 Dec 11
hi mylotter,thank your response,i agree you idea,maybe love quarrel is a normal,hope you can find your ture love,thank you again,my friend.
• India
16 Dec 11
I always used to have some quarrels with my sister but never not with my girl friends. We have a very good mutual understanding between us and there is no hidden secrets between us. We know each other in close. So there is no need of quarrels and other things between us. Quarrels appear when we have hidden secrets and when there is no understanding. We have it in our life. So there comes no quarrels.
• China
16 Dec 11
hi thewonderboy,thank your response,i think you have a very good mutual understanding between you with your girlfriend,i think it’s perfect.wish you have a sweet affection.
@min8esign (167)
• Indonesia
3 Jan 12
In my relationship, quarrels occurred several times and feelings of sadness mingled with exasperation surely appeared, I often wonder why this always happened, why I let my emotions and selfish overflow. And moments later after all my emotions and selfish had subsided - I apologize to my spouse for what I have done, and it makes our relationship more and more tenderly.
• United States
1 May 12
I understand what you are saying. When there is quarreling in a relationship it definitely does put a lot of stress on a relationship. I'm glad that you apologize when you know you should. It's good for us to be humble and it makes our relationship with our partner/spouse better.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
26 Apr 12
Usually after quarreling we often feel mad and upset about what has happened. But hopefully both individuals can have time to calm down and get their emotions together. It's not good to discuss problems when we have just had a big argument.
• Philippines
16 Dec 11
Well, i thought you plan to marry with but i dont know,not feeling good after the quarrel but if it is fixed it right, it is fine.just relax but hurts..
• China
16 Dec 11
thank you,i am very happy you can concern my discussion agian,i was badly hurt until now,i am being love for the first time,in fact, i am a very sensitve person ,i was never fallen in love during my study life.i was gratuated last year,i never think i should make such big an choice after gratuation in a short time.things have gone beyond our control.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
16 Dec 11
Hi kicysmile, It's better to sit with him and talk about this matter. If that is just a minor thing, I don't think breaking up would be a solution. It's normal for couples to have an argument. In fact, I had so many arguments with my BF. But maybe we just love each other so much that we eventually fix things up. Anyway, the decision will be yours. If he sounds so rude to you and his words have badly offended you then think about it and weigh things up... if it;s better to just end up the relationship or not.
@shellster (176)
• Philippines
16 Dec 11
Minor fights are usually there specially if you are in a relationship. its normal. But when if its another reason-like cheating oh no, that another topic!
• China
16 Dec 11
hi shallster,thank your response,it's no cheating,i will think carefully about it before i make decision,look forward to your early arrival.
• Philippines
16 Dec 11
if it's a minor matter,maybe you can still fix it.but if he cheated on you,that's the time you broke up with him cause it's a different matter.=)
• China
16 Dec 11
hi mysticeyes,i am happy you can give me some advice,it's no cheating.thank you ,my friend.