How many hours/day do you spend for yourself?
By lekhya
@lekhya (819)
India
December 16, 2011 4:22am CST
Nowadays people are sooo busy that they have no time for themselves.Try to find some time daily to know about urself.If u are not clear about urself none of the others can be.Know about ur abilities,disabilities,ambitions,likes,dislikes,wishes,thoughts,plans etc by discussing with urself first.U can never be decisive unless u know about urself.Spend some time daily and plan accordingly... u will definitely be successful.Nobody in this world knows u better than 'U'.
Do u know everything about u?
Think about it once...
9 responses
@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
17 Dec 11
I used to, but other things are going downhill and I need to get back on so I usually don't have time. If only there is no need to fix other things, I could have had more time for myself.
@diablo_black11 (21)
• United States
16 Dec 11
I have tons of time to spend on myself since im unemployed. I've had time to refocus on my goals and I've gotten to know me a little better as well. Also, I have a lot more time to exercise, so I'm physically in good shape :)
But im about ready to get back to work now.
@thaMARKER (2503)
• Philippines
16 Dec 11
i work 9hrs a day minus an hour lunch, so 24hrs minus 8working hours is 16 hours.. More or less 16hrs as well hahaha.. Most of the time. I dont really go out that much. Im an indoor type of person. Plus i dont mingle or hang out with friends. I prefer being alone most of the time. I dont even talk that much in the office.
Im just comfortable being alone. I go out though if theres a need but on rare occassions and depends on who am goin to be with.
@lekhya (819)
• India
20 Dec 11
"Im just comfortable being alone"
Ok..this sounds good for me bcoz many dont like being alone...i dnt know y? But i love doing so...I am not asking anyone to be alone...but want to say that only then u can understand urself better.Love urself more than anyone...This definitely doesnt lead to selfishness...U will able to curb it moreover.In my opinion everyone should TRY to be happy with themselves first.
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
16 Dec 11
hello,
thanks! why? because you really want me to know myself better than before. So, since I am planning to do this tomorrow. Maybe I will be more confident to myself by knowing it what are those things. Though I am really having a hard time to think what are those things. But I will try my best of course. 
@rbjat4589 (104)
• Philippines
16 Dec 11
Yes as of now I am unemployed and have enough time to spend for myself. I know what i like and what i don't like. It is easier to love oneself first before giving out your love to someone else cause in the point that you loose that someone you still have that love of yourself that remains.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
16 Dec 11
Well, i always have time for me ,and enjoy going out and also exercising,resting etc..although i am busy here but yes i am happy and thankful..
@davaome (1826)
• Philippines
16 Dec 11
I know alot about myself already, I know may capabilities my weakness my strengths, I know what I want to do with my life already, and I know what I want to become. I have prepared everything and all I need to do now is, to execute my plan, and monitor my plan if it is according to plan, and record everything with my diary :)
It is an advantage for every person to know yourself so that you can have make acertain goal which is within you capabilities :)
happy mylotting
@lekhya (819)
• India
20 Dec 11
Ok..thats sounds good...im glad that u responded positively...Now that u know about ur weaknesses wat have u planned for them, how would u curb them.have u take any steps in preventing them or have u kept them aside after knowing them.Simply knowing them if of no use. u need to exercise a lot to prevent them.Otherwise they might become an obstacle to u in proceeding further....
@mel0482 (283)
• Philippines
16 Dec 11
It would be so strange if one individual is hard finding his/her own self. I couldn't imagine myself trying to find my identity and my wants in life, above all my purpose of living my life. I am just so grateful that God has been so good to me and guiding me in life, that no matter what I do...He's always there directing my every step. :=)
@lekhya (819)
• India
20 Dec 11
Its definitely sounds strange...but im happy that i can induce this thought into a few people atleast...but its(thinking about oneself) extremely very important for one's development.No one should definitely build up his/her own identity to survive in this competitive world.
