Are you communicative? Can you make new friends easily?

@menzis00 (273)
December 16, 2011 10:38am CST
Hello MyLotters! Are you an outgoing person, always happy and you shine with positive energy, or are you a person that is closed to yourself and you avoid talking with strangers, sometimes even people who you know? I know a friend who is just madly outgoing and communicative, whenever she goes out she makes at least a few friends, total strangers, she just has that catch for starting a conversation with someone and people really like her personality, so she doesn't have problems blending in with the crowd. Are you the same kind of person? Is it for you a problem to go out and to meet new people, to actually start a conversation with someone? How do you do it? What is your funniest/most exciting/most valuable story? Share with us and tell your stories. Happy MyLotting! :)
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ardoy0731
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
18 Dec 11
As much as possible,I make myself more sociable and communicative with other people.I easy to approach and friendly.I like to gain new friends.I always make an effort to make a good conversation to show who I am and be a friend with them.
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menzis00
@menzis00 (273)
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18 Dec 11
I'm really glad for you, not a lot of people have this type of "courage" to approach other people first and start a conversation. It's nice to see there are sociable people in the world and I hope one day I will be much more sociable than I am today.
rusale
@rusale (647)
• Philippines
17 Dec 11
For me, it's hard to become an outgoing person. I am a shy type of person before, that was when I was still in high school. Now, I'm trying to change these things. I'm trying to be friendly. I really like make friends with others and I think I'm sort of outgoing person a little bit. But I don't know. Maybe I'm the only one who can say that I'm a friendly person. Have a nice day mylotting.
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menzis00
@menzis00 (273)
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17 Dec 11
It's nice seeing that people here really are trying to change. It's important that you want to change, then you automatically become a better person. I wish you all the luck and to become more friendly and more outgoing :)
Maida
@thaMARKER (2503)
• Philippines
17 Dec 11
im not a very talkative person. I dont approach whoever i like and get to know them. I rarely say hi or hello to anybody before them. im more like laid-back and reserved kind. I smile and i say hi when they do it first and i answer questions that i feel like answering. I respond nicely. Im just not the miss congeniality type..
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menzis00
@menzis00 (273)
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17 Dec 11
It's ok, you don't have to run around greeting everybody, sometimes I don't say hello to my neighbours too, I'm just not in the mood everytime. I usually say hi first, but if they don't answer to me or something, I just don't say hi to them anymore.
mrsgoodygoody00
@mrsgoodygoody00 (895)
• United States
26 Dec 11
It is easy for me to make friends, but not easy to maintain friendships b/c I spend all of my time being a momma, and other time working. I have been letting my friends know tht I care and will be spending more time with them. They are very understanding. :)
bjc66bjc
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
16 Dec 11
Hi menzis, I do consider my self to be a very outgoind person and able to meet people very easily..I have been told that I have an Ora tha surrounds me and people that I don't even know have been attracted to me and Have told me things that they say they have never told their family... Once at a house party I was sitting on the sofa for well over 2 hours listening to this lady who was telling me a story that was bothering her and she had never confided in her family... I am a very opinionated person but I am a better listners and thats not easy to find...I love meeting people and I don't judge people. Opinionated but not judgemental.....
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menzis00
@menzis00 (273)
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17 Dec 11
Hi! It's great when you just radiate with this kind of positive energy that makes people recognize that you're a good person. I'm also a kind of a good listener, I love when people come to me and tell me their problems, when they share their problems with me, especially when I can give them some advice and help them, make them feel better. A lot of people have problems they never shared with anyone, and if they share them with me, it really means a lot to me.
areskya
@areskya (398)
• Indonesia
23 Dec 11
I am a moody person, sometimes I could be so outgoing and communicative person but sometimes I am so closed and don't want to talked with those stranger. Whenever I am on new place and I think that those person are good person I'll talk to them and blend with them. But if I don;t have good mood, feel so tired or has so many things on my mind, I'll keep silent and don't want to talked with them, especially a guy. I dislike to know new guy, I tend to talk with girl, it makes me feel safer since I've broken up with my ex. Talking with a new person can be started by talking about common case such as weather, hobby or popular topic talked by people
elitess
@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
20 Dec 11
Hello menzis I think I am fairly communicative. I have worked on this skill on the last years and I think I am rather average at the speed of making new friends. While I don't have anything towards new friends, I think I should learn more before involving myself because I have learnt that it's not always good to throw your head in front before investigating a little :).