I want to fall in love.
By slstewart18
@slstewart18 (194)
United States
22 responses
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
17 Dec 11
so why do you just sit depressed at home? why don't you come out from your very comfort place t home and make as many as friendships? :)
I think falling in love couldn't be gained by only sitting all day long at home, we should try to make relation with others and as time goes by, there will be one or two of those guys who make you falling in love. so come out and meet many interesting guys out there! mm..may I know why are you just sitting at home? isn't it too boring to do? LOL.
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@slstewart18 (194)
• United States
17 Dec 11
Yes, it's very boring. I had a lot of friends in high school but as time passed I never wanted to go out. The only time I really do anything is when I go mystery shopping a couple days a week.
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
17 Dec 11
so you're right then that you only waste your youth times. I think you can do better than today. what happened with your high school friends? have they all got married? or they have gone away from your place, so it makes you impossible to meet them again? do you have a job? having job will possibly us to start new relation with others cos we have some office mates there..how about you? :)
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@slstewart18 (194)
• United States
17 Dec 11
I don't have a traditional job. I mainly work from home. My high school friends are still around but when they ask for me to go out,!I never want too. I feel to fat and unattractive to go out.
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@luckygrey67 (765)
• Indonesia
17 Dec 11
Maybe it's time to me to propose you to be my girl. Who want to be love by a man like me...we have similarity....sometime feel lonely being at home....never go out to looking new friend....
Would you like to be my girlfriend ?
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@slstewart18 (194)
• United States
17 Dec 11
I sure hope so ! Thanks for responding.
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@Xansus (946)
• Bulgaria
17 Dec 11
Well same here . But i cant do anything about it its just me , i dont like going out , but i'm a bit different from you . I never get out because i dont want to and i dont feel like i'm wasting my youth :) Because waste is when you do something you dont like and i just dont like all the noisy parties and all the people gathered at one place .
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@slstewart18 (194)
• United States
17 Dec 11
I'm not into the parties and drinking either!!
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@slstewart18 (194)
• United States
17 Dec 11
Been there done that. Sometimes I just latch on to a guy I don't even love because i already knew them. It's more comfortable then meeting someone new. I really need to get over that. Thanks for your reply.
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@slstewart18 (194)
• United States
17 Dec 11
Thanks. But sometimes it really hard for me to get out and do anything. I feel I'm in a rut.
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@webearn99 (1742)
• India
18 Dec 11
My dear, work on the "sit at home all the time depressed because I never get out and meet anyone" thing. Get out of the house, meet up with your friends, meet their friends too! You will eventually meet someone you belong to. Your present condition is making you desperate and will push you further down into depression. Not needed at all!
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@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
17 Dec 11
sitting home, feeling depressed is not exactly the way to be attractive.
Change you attitude, from now on you will do everything to make yourself happy. With a cup of tea, long shower, nice washed clothes, burn candles, essence etc all to change the negative atmosphere you are living in.
You can meet the love of your life everywhere. At your doorstep (mailman) by phone, internet, if you buy a bread. If you are really ready and able to shine, be happy with yourself you will fall in love but more important someone will love you and find you the greatest.
BTW consider a holiday for singles or ...
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@jkct02 (2874)
• Kota Kinabalu, Malaysia
17 Dec 11
You made me look old! I can't say like you that "I am wasting my youth" because I can't be considered young anymore :) Why do you feel depressed when staying at home is your choice? Is it because you feel you are unattractive and fat? In my opinion, everyone has his/her individual style. We have different good points and different ways. People who only look at outer appearance is indeed skin-deep, and is most likely not someone you can count on anyway, so you can disregard such persons.
Go out if you feel like to. Don't be tied down with the thoughts of your own imaginary obstacles. When I see anyone out in the street, I have never had such ideas that "wow, she is so ugly! How dare she go out in the open?" Be more confident. You must have something that you are good at. Think of your good points often if you need to. Be positive. Be good to yourself. Love will come when you least expected. Just make sure that you give yourself such a chance.
@bashabasha (400)
• Philippines
18 Dec 11
Helo there, Try new things in life but in a good ways and you should be careful. Its really weird when we always looking for love, I find it really hard to find someone but When we surrender looking for love then the time someone will come to us. Anyway, love always find a way. You will find the love in no time. Just patiently wait for it. God still writing in your love story :D
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@AshwinSajith (602)
• India
17 Dec 11
Hi Slstewart.. I respect your thought and it is necessary that you do go out and met people and not only sit at home. But do it so that you have a fun time and not solely for the purpose of finding your soulmate. But I am sure when you are having a good time meeting new people you will meet the person who is meant for you.
Love does not happen when you go looking for it, but you will it when you least expect it. So keep having fun without inhibitions and am sure you fill find your love automatically. :) Cheers
@LifeOngoing (129)
• United States
17 Dec 11
Think of the things you liked to do as a child. Then ask yourself what it was about them that you enjoyed. That is a good indicator of what you might enjoy today. Then get a hobby involving those things. When you are participating in that hobby you love, take a look at the other people that are doing it also. Someone else enjoying the same things that you do is a good place to start, isn't it?
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@AgentGulaman (3546)
• Philippines
17 Dec 11
If you really want to fall and find your love, then you better go out and start looking for it. I don't believe that love will just come at you. I believe that to have something, you must give the effort to have it. Same is true with the case of love. If you don't go out and mingle with other people, then how could you possibly find the one for you? It is like a mutual thing. If you go looking for love and another one is also looking for one, there is a big chance that both of you can be looking for each other. But if one is looking for the one and you are right there just doing nothing and not even looking, chances are nothing will happen. So go forth and start looking and mingling with other people. Eventually, your world will open up with other interesting people giving you a higher chance to fall in love rather than getting depressed in a corner of your room.
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@chum24 (569)
• Philippines
5 Feb 12
in that case don't be hurry or rush to fall in love wait for the right time to come and if you meet that man i'm sure you are lucky and special person.god is searching for your right man to come. cheer up. enjoy being single and enjoy life. have fun with your friends
@fantabulus (4000)
• India
24 Aug 12
Love is with thinking love may be happen any time with anyone. So you cant say now I want fall in love. Time and person is not fixed for fall in love.
@ivonne2011 (22)
• United States
8 Jan 12
I think love comes when u least expected so get up and dress up go out and enjoy life who knows who u will meet when u go out. But who will u meet sitting at home?
@512771751 (1096)
• China
15 Aug 12
Yes, maybe you should go out of home and meet your mr.right. Good luck.