I saw --- I added--- and went crazy about her
By rahularya
@rahularya (65)
India
December 17, 2011 12:02am CST
few days back I saw a girl in one Social networking site.She was so beautiful that i cannot stop myself from adding her and now she is everything to me...but dont know how to tell her
43 responses
@zaahro (748)
• Indonesia
17 Jan 12
Hi rahularya. :) I am happy for you.
But just want to warn you to be careful, you have to learn more about her and know her better before you decide to make her your everything. So you won't be sorry in the future :).
Just take it easy, tell her in any ways you want, it is better to be yourself :) Happy mylotting.
@rahularya (65)
• India
17 Dec 11
I have had chat with her many time ...she have send her photos also to me...but i cannt tell my feeling to her
@snowhite08 (8)
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17 Dec 11
yes friend just take your time and its only on a social networking site. You don't even know her. Nowadays they can fake everything how do you know she's really that girl which makes you crazy about her
@mselin (77)
• India
17 Jan 12
This is so true. how did you even know what the girl looked like? she might have simply put up any image as her own profile picture. there have been many cases of frauds also. always try to meet up with a person before falling in LOVE. true love does not happen so fast. This must be an attraction towards a dream.
@jkct02 (2874)
• Kota Kinabalu, Malaysia
17 Dec 11
Of course the easiest way is to email her to let her know how much she is to you. Like what others have pointed out, she is just a picture in Internet. I think she is more than that as she must have some postings or pictures of her activities so you more or less could know something about her. As you are to her is also a picture in internet, so it is just an internet crush for you. So just try to get to know her more by communicating, if it goes well, then even virtual can be a reality one day. Just make sure that you are well prepared to see someone with the possibility of being totally different from her picture in the net. Good luck!
@jkct02 (2874)
• Kota Kinabalu, Malaysia
18 Jan 12
He said it was just a picture that he saw, no activities yet. The picture didn't claim anything and it is also a doubt if it was a she or he. As for wanting to meet in person someone we know in internet, it is not as simple as just sending an invitation. We can be friends in myLot but in real life, it is a different story. So it may not be fake even if she doesn't agree to meet. Why must she meet him even if she is not fake?
I feel that love is a gradual process. Instant love will not be lasting without the genuine emotional attachments. He has to be friends with her first before the relationship can become a courtship. If anyone loves just because of a pretty face, then that person may have many more loves as there are many pretty faces.
@mselin (77)
• India
17 Jan 12
this is an easy way out. you are already used to communicating with her through chats. you could send an offline chat and say you want to meet her in person, if she is not fake, she will accept it. If she tries to ignore the message, that is the clear signal that something is amiss.
And through communication if you feel that her personality suits you, you should go for her even if she is not as beautiful as she claims.
@jeslin (147)
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13 Jan 12
Well to make sure she is real first and everything, try talking to her on skype or webcam or anything, just make sure you don't get fool. Don't make her your everything first, but just get to know her very well only then you can decide. Just make sure you don't get blinded too deep until the point where it hurts. =) good luck friend.
@LoonyLuke (1)
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17 Dec 11
No offense but you don't even know her. I'm not trying to sound rude but you sound a bit stalker-ish. How can someone you have never met be "Everything" to you?
Erin
@jesscatapano (14)
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17 Dec 11
THIS is what I don't understand. On one site I am on I get messages all the time from mostly foreigners telling me they "love" me and I "am to be their wife". Well really? lol Tell my husband that. I ignore them or simply reply I am married and they are like "so what. move here to my country" no thanks lol.
@mselin (77)
• India
17 Jan 12
@jesscatapano
may be they were just being funny. When you are happily married can u get married again if you move to another country. It just sounds weird. May be they were really wackos. Or it is always possible that they were trying to trick you to gain something, may be information on your credit card or something.
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
30 Jan 12
Here we have a saying that "beauty is only skin deep." I would counsel you to get to know her a lot better before you proclaim your undying affection. Otherwise the probability is that someone is going to get hurt. Besides, how do you know the picture is even her? She could have posted the photo of some movie star or model. She could look like anybody else.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
17 Jan 12
Ouch! Your in love, my friend.
Just a suggestion my friend don't believe everything you see in facebook because more of the profile photo's there is not real...
If you in love because you attract with photo's in her profile. Just knowing her first better because you don't if the person is female or male. Because there are also account in facebook that is female in nature but they are actually male...
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Dec 11
Try to get her on cam. I don't really trust some people I don't know based on their photos in Social Sites. It's easy to get photos of someone else and make it as your own. Better get to know her more before falling crazy with a stranger.
@mselin (77)
• India
17 Jan 12
she could put in a photo of a movie star you do not know and claim to be that person. Or she could just use photoshop or similar software to make a beautified picture of herself. You should really meet her in person before falling for her looks as you say. That is only attraction not love.
@davaome (1826)
• Philippines
17 Dec 11
be careful my friend, not all people on social networking sites are who they are. Make first a little background check on her if she is really that person, check comments and pictures. Also people connected to her.
It's normal to be astonished to someone who is very beautiful, just tell her how beautiful she look, and try to start a conversation
@Flashpointer (784)
• Philippines
17 Dec 11
Maybe those pictures that is sent to you were just modified pictures that are being created from the photo shop. Let's say, a good-looking guy which is his true identity and being modified, a little retouch from the image, and other photo image adjustments and just add some long hair and doing some justifications which turns into a girl. Something like that.
@uggonen (77)
• Finland
12 Feb 12
Do you live close by or far away from each other? If you live far away then its propably not gonna work, Im sorry mate.
She can still be a really good friend im not saying that. If you really want to be with her you have my blessing.
When telling her that you like her remember not to throw everything in at once. First tell her that you like her and would like to spend more time with her. That for the beginning.
@gilenie (190)
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14 Dec 12
its easy to say you are already liking the gal but i may say its not yet love...Maybe your getting used abt her like wanting to talk to her chatting her, better know her more before jumping into conclusion that your falling in love with her at an early stage. Many people can hide their true identity in the internet, they may looks great, nice anything good qualities but still you have to meet the person personally before saying he/she is nice and good.
@zurichann (235)
• Philippines
10 Dec 12
I'm sure that even you weren't been able to tell her how you feel yet, she would already have the idea that you're interested with her. If a girl entertains you understanding this then that means you have a good chance. Nothing will happen if you'll just keep that to yourself. Let it out friend. Good Luck.
@albto_568 (1268)
• Costa Rica
10 Jan 12
Well, the only way to know if she feels the same, is to tell her, just take all the courage you may have and do it. There is nothing to loose anyway, on the other hand, try not to crush so hard on people you meet on the web, specially if she lives far from you.
@MissPiggy (1748)
• Indonesia
10 Jan 12
Are u trying to say u're being blind now? Lol. Sorry. But I think before u meet her in flesh u can't make her ur everything. I mean is she really genuine to u? I've been in an internet relationship 2 years ago and everybody called me crazy. Well, I didn't regret it, cuz we did the web cam and everything, but still it's crazy. We never know the reality. Hope u know what u're doing. :)
@boyuancy (1708)
• India
14 Jan 12
Hi Rahul, and really sorry to burst your bubble. I have been there and done that. I added a girl too. Rather, I created an account on a networking site for that girl. But I son found out that she was just adding guys for the fun of it, and some girls do that to show off. I wasn't all over her, but she as good looking nevertheless.
What this means is, there is no transparency when it comes to the online world, so be really careful.
@arjunm (439)
• India
14 Jan 12
Love at First sight is a common matter.now a days it is going on more and more. so, don't afraid dear,your heart is totally to her. i know that.please go and tell her that you want to be her friends. and after that in right time basis you will tell her," I LOVE YOU "..
@Jollygoodwot (57)
• Canada
17 Jan 12
I would be very careful about that sort of thing, find out everything you can about her before you make any kind of decision on that. Although on rare occasion I have heard of people meeting on the internet, getting married, and are very happy it doesn't happen very often.
You are far better off meeting someone in real-life because then you are meeting the actual person. Using a web-cam is another option but I find its no match for actually meeting someone. Good luck!
