I'm gonna be a grandma!!!!!

Thank you, dragon. I'm not sure yet if they're planning a wedding but I totally agree that it would be so sweet to have her son hand over the ring... although he is quite the little hyperactive kid. Smart as a whip but lightyears ahead of his little feet. I'd have visions of the rings flying through the air halfway down the aisle. LOL Luckily, I raised my own hyperactive boy so I have tried-and-true ways of helping to steer that energy in productive ways. I'm going to have to ask my son if he's planning to get married and if there will be a wedding. It's times like this that I'm glad I had two sons and not daughters. Still, I'd help out as much as I can. But, even if they don't get legally married, I know they are married in their hearts, where it counts. They make such a sweet couple. Hmmm, I think I'll post a photo of the proud parents-to-be! I totally agree about shopping for children being a great joy. I haven't been out since I got the news but am going out later today and I know I'll be heading toward the baby section. I've already been through the toy section, buying Christmas gifts for the 4-year-old and that was great fun. I'd LOVE for this baby to be a girl, although I'll be just as happy with a grandson.

Thanks, dc. I'm beside myself with happiness over the news of my first grandchild. I've played with the tribble but haven't tried diapering it yet. LOL I think I'll wait on that for the baby's arrival. Normally, I'm a very patient person but this news has me wanting to hold the baby NOW! I know I'm going to be a nervous wreck when I find out she's in labor.

Haha! I was wondering why no one has invented these tribbles before now! They're motion- or sound-activated and they act like they've come close to a Klingon. I was kind of hoping they'd purr like when they were happy and content (like when they at all the grain from the storage bin) but they just do that squealing thing and vibrate. My husband said he wants about 10 of them to take to work with him. He designs computer programs to run the HVAC (heating, ventilating and air conditioning) units of huge (mostly government) buildings and has to go in to fix problems whenever they have any. He wants to put these tribbles around the units so he can say "THERE'S your problem!" I can see anyone who knows Star Trek to understand and find that funny. But, at a minimum of $15.00 each, that's a bit expensive for a joke. Still, they are awfully cute. My son told me they had known about the baby since the week after Thanksgiving. I couldn't believe he could hold on to a secret that big for so long. He's such a tattle-tale!

I've been all over this tribble but there's nothing to change it to purring mode. I even went to the Roddenberry.com website to see if they had any that did purr but, nope, they all squeal. I'm going to write to them and suggest that they put that switch on them to change them from squealing mode to purring mode. I can't see where that would be so hard! I think I know what to get my husband for his birthday, a tribble or two. I think you're right and just one would work for the joke but two would be even better. His birthday is in February so it's not too far off. He wants to "borrow" my tribble but I have a feeling I'd never see it again if he did, so it stays with me. I'll tell you what, if they listen to me and put the purring mode in these tribbles, I'll buy you one! After all, it was your idea that has me writing to them about it.

Are you sure there isn't some setting that would change them from Klingon warning mode to human mode? I would think that would be standard. Of course they would be good for an early warning system in Klingon mode but I think I would prefer the purring myself. After all we all want to be loved by our pets whether flesh and blood or mechanical. Maybe your son would know. As far as your husbands idea I think that would be hilarious! I would love to be a fly on the wall when he pulled that on someone. Maybe he would only need one to do it. That wouldn't be too expensive.

Thank you, cerebellum. I loved being a mother but think that being a grandmother is better for one reason: you can play with the children, spoil them rotten, then hand them back to their parents when you need a rest. So far, everything is going fine. I just saw my son today and told him that I'd be a babysitter whenever I could and he looked relieved. LOL I remember well when HE was a baby and I needed a babysitter. I had one quit on me the morning I was starting a new job! It's always a relief to know there's someone you can count on when it's necessary.

Thank you, bjc. Yep, we're Trekkies. I'm so looking forward to this baby. It will be my first grandchild so I can now understand how excited my mother was when I told her I was having my first baby. He was her first grandchild, too. I hope it's a girl but I'll be just as happy with a grandson (not to mention more experienced taking care of boys lol). I fully agree that babies bring such joy with them. I can't stop grinning already and the baby isn't due for another seven months!

Thank you, mel. The last time I took care of a baby was when my best friend had her second son. I babysat him when my own sons were about 5 and 8 years old so that was a long time ago. I really miss that and can't wait to hold the first child of my first son.

Awwwwwwwww Marti I bet you are I know I would be I hope you get to stay where you are just tell him to stay clear from you and to leave you alone I actually thought that you had told him where to go and got him out I hope it goes well for you all I really do you really deserve it Things are ok here so no worries I will keep you son's Girlfriend in my thoughts and hope all goes ok big hugs

Thanks so much, Gabs! I'm ecstatic! This has been very much needed good news, that's for sure. I hope everything goes smoothly for them and there aren't any problems with the pregnancy. My son's girlfriend has bipolar disorder and takes meds for it but can't take them while she's pregnant so it's going to be hard for her (and him!) until she can get back on the meds. We're all going to work together to see that she's as happy and comfortable as possible. She's been through this before and had a healthy baby so I don't anticipate any major problems. I've already started cleaning up my office to become the occasional bedroom for the grandchild for when I babysit overnight. Whether I live here when the baby is born or somewhere else I still don't know but I'm going to prepare as if it's going to be here. Maybe I'll just stay here after all. HE can't live forever, especially with his awful life habits and I sure would love to live near my first grandbaby! My 27 (almost 28) year old son is pouting now because he can't find a decent girlfriend, you know, he's jealous. I keep trying to tell him that his time just hasn't come yet but it will. I hope he'll soon realize that he's simply not in a position to have kids or a serious relationship just yet. How are things going with you?

I've often wondered why anyone would deny being pregnant when they are. I believe I'm the first to know outside of the two of them (and the doctor) because they told me they're keeping it a secret from her son because "he has a big mouth". Apparently, they don't want anyone else to know right now.

in my case they were both young 17 and 18 and felt I wouldn't approve

Ah! That might be why they don't want anyone else knowing right now. They aren't married and it may be a problem with her mother. My son knows how I feel about that, though, so they didn't have a problem telling me the great news. I feel that marriage is in the heart and mind, not on a piece of paper. My son and his girlfriend love each other and are very good for each other. If they choose never to get married, I won't mind, as long as they treat one another with love and respect.

lol

I never thought of naming my furball! Hmmm....

Foofur!!!

Thank you adjyz and congratulations to your becoming an uncle! I hope your sister and the baby are healthy and happy.

my niece is still taken care carefully..her weight is under normal the baby

Thank you, CTHanum! Yes, there is something very special about becoming a grandparent. It's almost as exciting as becoming a parent but we don't have all the responsibilities. We can play with our grandchildren, spoil them, then send them home when we need a rest. I've tried to read my new Chicken Soup book but my mind keeps moving back to the new baby's arrival. I know it won't be for awhile yet but I am so anxious to begin gathering the things needed for a new baby, for those times I'll be babysitting.

I adored my children when they were born but I think you're right about grandchildren. As grandparents, we get to play with the babies, spoil them rotten, then hand them back to their parents when we've had enough. I will be 60 years old in April so I think it's about time I became a grandmother.

Well my friend, the grandchild will surely make your retirement years an enjoyable one.

Hi Cricket. Congratulations on your own motherhood! I remember well the feelings I had when I found out I was pregnant. Finding out you're going to be a grandmother is even better because I don't have to go through the pregnancy myself. AND, when the baby is here, I can play with it, spoil it rotten, then hand it back to mommy and daddy when I need a rest. I'm a frequent shopper at Goodwill. Yep, there's one just a few miles from my house. They have a large selection of maternity clothes. I'm going to try to get my son's girlfriend to go with me to see if there's any clothes she'd like. I always thought it was a shame to spend so much on new maternity clothes that you're only going to wear for a short time and only one or a few times in your life so buying second-hand is smarter.

Hi! My apologies for not getting back to you sooner--just found a job and been a little crazy around here. Happily, the kind of crazy we all like! Hard to believe my little man is nearing 16 months old! You really do see things differently when you have a little one around. I do remember when I was pregnant and realizing I wasn't going to need maternity for long, I too went to Goodwill and found a weeks worth of clothes with a few to spare. Why? Somedays you just don't want to do laundry, or accidents do happen, and the afterwards. Have you found anything?? Does she have everything else? A good crib, diapers, shoes, stroller, etc? Also, perfume-free detergent and formula samples? Why? Allergies! Still, they are fun and THE most innocent being! Be well and keep me posted!

Thank you, queen. The last time I powdered a newborn bottom was over 20 years ago. That was a friend's son whom I babysitted for a few weeks. I really miss doing all the normal things we do with newborns, bathing, feeding, even burping. LOL I have the rocking chair ready!

Sounds like your grandchild will be lucky to have an awesome grandma!

Two Leos! G-d help her! Wish her all the best for me.

Haha! You know what's worse? Her 4-year-old is also a Leo! Yep, two little Leo's running around in one house. I can see I'll be called in to babysit probably more than I'm anticipating, just to give the parents a break from all the action and noise. LOL Luckily for them, I'm sooooo looking forward to that!

Thank you, aprilsong. I am very excited and have even begun making room in my house for the times when I will babysit overnight in my house.

Thanks, Gavin. Yep, I'm definitely excited. This is some much-needed good news. I'm already preparing for the baby's arrival. LOL

Wow, Jen! I'm so happy for you, too! Awesome news! So, we can start comparing notes on grandparenting about the same time, huh? Actually, from what they've said, I think this baby will be born in July rather than August because they told me they found out a week after Thanksgiving which means that she had to be about a month along (at least) at the beginning of December. That would really be nice because my son was due on July 29th but arrived a month early on June 29th. Also, her son's birthday is in August. A July birthday would be ideal. I think I'll take your advice and start getting things on sale now. It won't hurt as bad spreading it out like that. I invented a diaper (cloth) that I used on my own kids so I'll be working on a few dozen new ones. They're made of cotton flannel, contoured, padded (where necessary) and have Velcro closures that adjust the diaper to different sizes. They sure came in handy when money was tight because disposable diapers aren't cheap. (One of these days, I'm going to sell these things!) I have the feeling that you had mixed feelings about this, at least initially. Am I right? I know I would have if my son had just moved out then told me this news. That's a lot for any mother to go through as fast as you have. As far as marriage goes, I've never thought of marriage as a piece of paper, it's in your heart and your head. So, I don't care if my son ever gets legally married to this girl, as long as they love and respect one another. They seem very happy together right now. And I'm so excited about the prospect of powdering a little bottom once again.

Hi PQ. Thank you! Yeah, I have to agree it was an awesome way to let me know, although they almost had to spell it out for me. LOL I tried to read the books that night but couldn't concentrate because my mind was still spinning with all kinds of thoughts and ideas.

Thank you so much, RitterSport! I agree, it's about time something good came my way. I was (and still am) taking care of my kitty who has been really sick with feline infectious anemia (brought on by a parasite in his blood). I almost lost him this past Tuesday when he was in the animal hospital getting a blood transfusion to save his life. It was too much for me and I cried my eyes out. I also cried when I heard this wonderful news about the new baby but, for a change, these tears were definitely tears of pure joy. It felt SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO GOOD!!! You'd think my son was a peacock because, when he told me the good news, his chest was stuck out as far as it could be. He couldn't have been prouder of anything. I'm so happy for him (as well as his girlfriend) because they're both extremely excited. It's funny, I've spent today (Sunday) cleaning, rearranging furniture, going through closets and drawers and organizing, etc. It's because of the baby. Naturally, I want to have a room for the little one for those times I babysit overnight and I hope there will be a lot of them. This year is definitely ending on a good note. No, a terrific note. It makes all the bad stuff that happened this year kind of disappear, you know?

hi dear mentalward first of all Merry Christmas to you. Hope your kitty is getting better. I didnt know they can get as seriously ill with anemia and I am glad he seems to be better now after the blood transfusion. Hope everything goes well with the pregnancy, I bet you will keep us informed here on mylot how things are. # same with the year over here ending fantastic. I guess I have made a giant step into the right direction now with keeping my family more than just an arms length away from me and taking time for the persons and things which really do matter in my life.