Is he loves her or not????
By siri26
@siri26 (331)
India
December 18, 2011 12:45am CST
Hey friends I wanna share one real stroy . There is a girl and after 12 years her crush came to meet her and tels that he came because his friends asked him to come there. But he is the one who is always back of her when she was in her graduation. They came like marriage praposal to her . First time he said his friends made her to meet her and then he came to meet her and reminded her all old days and finally asked her whether she likes him or not. Girl accepts that she likes him and reay to marry him. Even she convenced her parents to marry him. He listened all that and ask her to wait for few more days. Finally he comes and says that he is not ready to marry her and the reason is parelley he do had another crush with another girl. Now that another girl married before 10 years. Is that a reason now to not to marry this girl???? Is he really loves her or he just saying blunt reason???
3 responses
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
18 Dec 11
I would not marry a guy like that. If he really love the girl he would not even say that his friends are the reason why he went there to see her. Now that the girl is ready to marry him, he says that he likes another lady?!? I donot think also that he loves the girl, maybe because he was pressured by someone to get married and all he can think of to be marry is that girl. Probably because his parents like her for him and not the other girl he likes. But Finally he ended up choosing the other girl which maybe he loves more than the girl who had a crush on him.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
18 Dec 11
I think he might like her but love her is something else.
It's possible such a commitment as marriage is scaring him. Also because he does have or had a crush at someone else.
I don't think this marriage will be very happy if she will force him to marry her.
I also wonder in how much time this girl did met him again and said she would marry him and she did convince her parants too. To me it sounds as if this all was in a very short time and not really thought over. It doesn't matter if you know someone long before or it's a stranger but marriage is something you should not decide to from one day to an other. I would never marry this guy because I would never be number one, just someone to take care of him and fill up his empty days and feelings of loniness.
@siri26 (331)
• India
18 Dec 11
The girl not forced him to marry her. But the first approach by boy but he say he is not the one who really wants to meet her . Becaus his friends forced him and he came over there. But the second time he himself asked her to meet and spoke to her as if he was so interested.
@albto_568 (1268)
• Costa Rica
10 Jan 12
Actually, I do not think this guy really love her, in the first place, he has said himself that he has a crush on another woman, and besides, it were his friends those who get him to talk to her again. So, I think that the best this woman can do,is move on, and find someone who loves her.
