Dating older women/men

December 18, 2011 3:20am CST
Have you ever dated someone who's much older than you? I am beginning to like someone but I really dont know what to do since that person is 5 years older than me. hahaha Share your thoughts guys
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• United States
18 Dec 11
The day I enrolled in college at 18 I met an older woman who stole my heart at first sight. She was 30. From the moment we met, we were inseparable soul-mates. She was the very image and substance of all I ever dreamed of in a woman. In 90 days we were married. Parents were stunned. Friends were stunned. That was 45 years ago. I am 63. She is 75. We are inseparable soul-mates. This morning we went to church and held hands. We went out to eat and flirted and shared our thoughts and feelings. I took her shopping. Tonight in our bed we shall laugh and love together. Dating older women? I vote yes.
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
19 Dec 11
Aww, that's such a beautiful story.
• Philippines
18 Dec 11
I dated the guy who is a more than 5 yrs older than me before but it never go to far. Its nice also to date a guy who is older than you he is more mature and responsible, i have so many things that i learned for him, unfortunately it did not go too well...
• Philippines
18 Dec 11
yeah you'l get more advice from them, the disadvantages are they dominate the whole relationship and he tells you always what to do, he treat you like a baby, well.. some might like it.. i do sometimes..
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
18 Dec 11
yes..you can also have advice from them because of their life experience. They know how to adjust for their younger partner so they can make relationship much stronger...
18 Dec 11
I agree. Mature people are more open to many things. They are more sensible too.
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
19 Dec 11
No, I've never dated anyone that was older than me...I jumped right into the relationship! LOL Almost 20 years and 2 kids later we are still together. Happy mylotting!
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
18 Dec 11
like other says, in LOVE; age doesn't matter. as long as both of you are in the right age, there will be no problem. And, it is very exciting to date someone older than you because there are a lot things to talk about and to discover from both of you. And if your partner is older than you, it will lessen your worries about handling relationship because he is matured enough.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
18 Dec 11
i agree. actually sometimes i have childish attitude especially when i get jealous and I'm lucky that my husband is older than me and he is matured enough to handle a relationship. He know how to make me calm and he have long patience.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
18 Dec 11
Yes I dated someone 19 years older as me and had a bf years younger as I was. My ex husband was 5 years older btw. I don't really see 5 years older as an age difference. How big the differences are has to do with life experiences and count by years. There are people who never grow up.
18 Dec 11
19 years? Now that's really "age difference". I noticed myself lately that I am really into older women. They are seems to be more sensible in everything
• Philippines
18 Dec 11
hahahaha...I had experience to like someone who is older. I at first, didn't know what to do with her. But as fate introduced me to her, I just tried to act normal. I allowed that person to know me first rather judging me. I allowed her to know everything about me before telling her that I liked her...:)
18 Dec 11
So how did it go? How's your first date with her?? :D
@GemmaR (8517)
18 Dec 11
I think that age is irrelevant as a number itself, but you have to think about where each of you are in your own lives. If you are a teenager and still at school, but wanting to date somebody who is already at university for example, then this might make things a little bit difficult because you'll both be wanting different things from your relationship at that time. However, as long as you're both on the same page, you should find that you are able to make things work for the two of you despite your difference in age.
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
18 Dec 11
well I am also interested in Older Woman As they dont show attitude much like younger one. Just act natural with her.
@suds619 (100)
• India
18 Dec 11
I have dated with the married woman . to whoom i met in the train she was 6-7 year older than me and has a child of 2 years but still dated her . She was hot and her husbund not fulfiling her recuirnments like romance, keeping her happy etc. She was not expecting all these from me she was telling me her problems, i have also tried to solve those problems at my level. she also suggested me that to avoid this love marrige is best solution . She kissed me just as a friend .
@tessa9 (1085)
• Philippines
18 Dec 11
I am 21 so I have not dated someone that is a lot younger than me. I will go to jail if I will lol. I don't think there is something wrong with dating people that is younger or older than you. It also depends on your age. Like it is better to look at a 27 year old person dating a 35 year old person. A 17 year old person dating a 25 year old person just looks wrong to me. I think as long as the maturity level is the same and you truly love each other then I see nothing wrong with it.
• Bangladesh
18 Dec 11
I think age is not a problem at all.Its all about love and good understanding.As well respect for each other and trust each other. Cheers
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
18 Dec 11
i think there is no problem on dating older than you..age is just a number..actually my husband is 7 years older than me but we are still stick together. We are still happy dating together.
@davaome (1826)
• Philippines
18 Dec 11
Yes I have dated older women than me and it proved to be a good experience. She had an attitude that I like that you can't see for the women younger than me. The Older women usually know what they want :)