6 days before Christmas!!!!

Yes Its 6days before Christmas. That is a wonderful day for me because my family and friends are spending Christmas with me and I'm very excited about it. But ,I'm so sorry to hear that you spending your Christmas alone without your parents who passed away. Its really sad but I'm sure your parents feel the same way too that seeing you alone in Christmas.. How I wish we were near . I would love to invite you to spend your Christmas day with my family and friends. So, somehow you never feel alone. I saw you are from Philippines. What parts of Philippines you are located now?

I am sorry to hear that you are hoping to see your biological mother. But meantime that it's not yet being realized, perhaps you can divert your attention by enjoying the holidays with your friends and relatives. Don't let that sad feeling put you down my friend. Be happy and look forward to Christmas, where you can thank God for sending us his son Jesus many many years ago.

I completely understand how you feel. My father passed away just recently. I feel so sad and no matter how I try to keep it out of my mind, the memories of my loving father keep coming back. I do not feel the spirit of christmas right now. I am sorry if I too feel this way, but life goes on as what people say. I love my dad, I thought that I was ready for him to go since he was already old. But still, I feel so alone, feel depressed and there are just times when I am alone that tears fall from my eyes....

I am sorry that you feel bad. Is there any homeless shelters near you or a church who is offering free meals that you might be able to help serve food. I think if you are busy and keep busy it will help you.

oh this is really sad. I do not know what to say because obviously you weigh this much I know you just have to move on. I wish you good health and luck. Have a nice day!

I'm not even in the Christmas spirit. Frankly it does'nt make sense to me anymore.

Yeah since another tragic event happened in our fellow countrymen down south, I feel sorry for them as well. I know theirs is much worse than the one you will be feeling right now. Just pray for your loved ones and thank God for sparing us from the calamity which our brothers from Mindanao is feeling right now. With regards to your time, just wait and it will come as they say. No need to wish for it since we all will have our day with our departed love ones. Just stay as positive as you can since I know God has some purpose why they are there and you are here.

I am so sorry you are feeling so blue, igatiful_badass; the holidays will quite often exasperate feelings of sadness. During this time of year people are reflective of the things that bless their lives and the things that may be missing, therefore creating extreme joy or utter sadness. Expression is said to be a comforting factor if this time of year brings one down; I am glad you have chosen to share your sadness with your fellow Mylotters because we do care and we want to understand what you are going through. Best of luck reuniting with your birth mother.

Do you know who your biological mother is? Have you tried using the social network to look for your mother? Anyway don't be sad, try to look at the blessing you have this December and try not to entertain those sad thoughts. Hope you will be alright. Merry Christmas

I am glad that the joy and the excitement of this day still exist in many people. However, the real meaning behind this glorious holiday seems to have already been forgotten. Nowadays, it is more of earning money, and the thought of vacation, and the receiving of gifts dominating the excitement of this day, and not the real meaning of the birth of Jesus Christ that counts. I wish there would be more of thanksgiving and the appreciation of the coming of the Lord that would cause the excitement, and not the material things.

That's really exciting to see the christmas coming soon and i'm awaiting that big season to arrive. Hope we all can enjoy the season.

I can also relate in your feelings. Its already December and today is the exact date of my due date for my Daughter. But i gave birth last October that's why she is premature and she did not survive in the incubator,she only live one day.. I though she will be with us this Christmas and New Year but she left us. If God will grant me one wish, i wish that he give me my daughter back. But i know it will not happened and i know God is taking good care of her in heaven.

I am so sorry to hear that. Well, we aren't preparing so much for the Christmas. As long as me and my family are together, I feel my Christmas is complete already. Anyway, advance merry Christmas. We must dig deeper the true essence of Christmas and that is our savior, Lord Jesus Christ.

I'm so sorry for your parents :S It's the thing about these holidays, that you were used to all the family dinners and tradition and stuff and then it all goes away. But don't be sad, you still probably have your other members of the family and your friends, that's a good thing.. You should try and don't think so much about them. They are in a better place, so be happy for them, not sad, it will just make them sad for you. You don't want that, do you?

I am little busy now a days because the Christmas days are coming and I am managing my Christmas plans. I have little more works for this Christmas. Let me know what is your plans ?

Hi igatiful_badass, I feel sorry for you for losing your parents. But you must have strength, and not let yourself feel down like that. I'm sure your parents wouldn't want you to feel like that. People come and go, we don't live forever, just always keep that love for your parents in a safe place in your heart, it will be your treasure to keep, and if you have your own family you can show that love to your children :)

Cheer up! :) I am sure you will be reunited with your biological mother in time. As for now, you can enjoy yourself in the company of friends. :)