What would you do if your partner cheats on you?

I had this one situation where my girlfriend cheated on me, I don't know if it happened once or it happened for a while, it doesn't even matter, anyway she was at my place and left her facebook account logged in. And of course, devil just couldn't give peace to my soul and although I trusted her, my sixth sense just told me to check her inbox and to make my trust even stronger. Oh man I had a lot of stuff to see. Anyway, I printed the conversation between her and that guy with whom she cheated on me and gave it to her, laughed at her face and my heart was all set, because I know it burned her down that I wasn't neither angry nor stressed, I did it in a very fashionable and I believe, for cheaters, most hurtful way. :)

Aw, that's too bad. I feel the sorrow your friend must be experiencing now. If that happened to me, I would listen to my girlfriend's explanation just so that she has a chance to explain, but still I would break up with her either way. It will take time for your friend to get over it but, you as a friend should comfort her in everyway you can.

What is there to explain? Really? I have found from experience that cheaters are cheaters. Once they cheat they always will. Her bf has probably been doing that for awhile now. Even before she knows. To me just the fact that they were cheating is explaination enough. They must not want to be in the relationship. Or else they wouldnt be looking else where. Get rid of them.

There was this saying that " once a cheater will always be a cheater" I never believed on this saying before and had my partner forgiven when he cheated on me. But- I was wrong and the saying is right- he keep cheating on me for many times. So-I have to decide and let him go. I should have done it in the first place.

Oh dear! No one wants that to happen to them, your friend must be very shocked and angry, I would be very angry if I was in her situation. I just can't believe that it has been happening for a while too, that is so unfair to her! What was her partner thinking?! I don't get cheaters who know there is an issue in their relationship but prefer to just cheat in order to feel better rather than consult the other person in the relationship. The reason why most people cheat is that there is something wrong with their relationship. Was there something not right in your friend's relationship with her boyfriend? But that is simply cruel to do that behind your girlfriend's back, it's like backstabbing but ten times worst! I would just dump him straight away, I don't care about an explanation because really, it's been going on for a while now so what could possibly be the best explanation? The guy's a coward, he's immature and can't even confront your poor friend who is now heart broken. Now if it was just one time and recent, then I might just consider his explanation but in your friend's case he's totally walking out my door.

Cheating is cheating, there is no such degrees of cheating. But if I will be on that situation, it will depend, if I caught him on the act of his cheating, then there will be no explanation needed, I will break on him right away. But if I just knew it from others, I think I will really need to hear his explanation. And I think in a relationship, it is really hard to pursue it if you don't have trust in your partner, so second chance I think is a no, no for me because I cannot trust him anymore like I trust him before.

it is so bad. i could hardly imagine myself in that situation, being cheated. but things happen as they say. well, cheating is cheating. it should be clear that it is not allowed. if one's partner has done it once, then it is likely that s/he will do it twice. however, i like giving people chances. but if it happens again, it is his/her lose to choose to cheat on me.

I think that hurt and devastation would hit me first ifmy partner was cheating on me. I don't think that understanding would not come into play too quickly. I would probably see ways that the cheating was my fault even if it wasn't only because i would have to make some kind of sense out of such turmoil.

I have experienced that too. My case is different. I have a crush since high school. We have contacts of this crush of mine. On the other side, I have a best-friend in college. She knows about my crush because I always talk about him to her. What in the world happened that the two were cheating on me. They are having relationship. Of course I am so angry to my friend because she traitor me. To make the story short, I just accepted the fact that they are together and move on with my life since I am no girlfriend of my crush.

If my partner cheat me on serious matters, definitely I can't forgive him/her. I always want a true friend as I behave to others, so if anybody cheat me I don't talk to them thereafter.

There's no other reason to forgive her if she does it many times already after all honesty is the best policy here. If i were on that place I will finalized and decide for once.

If i was the girl i would confront the guy why he is doing such thing. I will let him choose who he wants to be with after learning that he is cheating. If he chooses the other girl i will set him free and let him do what he wants. If he chose me them he should learn how to be faithful. Giving a second chance would not hurt. But when he cheats again then I would be the first one to break the relationship.