Being Alone

I think that I do sometimes get afraid of being alone, but you have to remember that it is very unlikely that you're ever going to be completely on your own. Just because you live on your own doesn't mean that there is nobody there for you, or that they won't continue to be there for you if you should ever need them for some reason. I think that you should be nice to everybody in your life because you just never know when you're going to need their shoulder to cry on if something bad should happen to you.

I'm married and love being around my wife, but I have never had a problem with being alone. I am one of the few people that can watch a movie by myself and enjoy it just as much. I don't feel too self-conscious to laugh out loud. I think it's nice to be comfortable with yourself. It's good not to have to be with someone to feel good. I'm good by myself, but fine around loved ones too. There's a difference between being alone and being lonely. I think most people are more social than me though so sometimes I visit because I know they want me to.

I love being alone, I love my own company, no one to argue with, no one to share things with, no one to consider, no one to take your time up, no one to annoy you, no one to nag you, pester you and no one to give you any problems! To me that is bliss. I love living alone, I am not a people person. When I am sick I just want to be left alone and not fussed over. I am very independent, and hate having to rely on anyone! I love being single, I would't have it any other way, life is so much more relaxing, peaceful and bliss when you are alone. Relationships spell entrapment to me and the loss of freedom, I don't do compromise! Being alone is bliss, totally bliss.!

Oh good for you fsuma. At least, anything might happen unexpectedly, you're near to your family now to get help and assistance. When I'm single working far from my parents, I'd rather be alone in my rented apartment. Not until that my sister transfered too in my brand area (we're in the same company). Then, when she got married and leave me alone again. A friend of mine asked me if she can live with me knowing that my sister is out with me,... I gave her a chance. Then after a year, my housemate got married... then I followed! I got married too. Now, I don't want to be alone. I have my own raised family to look up to. Like you, I'm happy too the way thing are for me now! Cheers friend!

I totally understand the need to be alone. When I am alone there are less distractions and my thoughts are untampered with. When you are around other people they effect you either good or bad. Just last night I listened to music in my room at I was able to sleep soundly. I am married, but I believe you need your space sometimes. You being a hour away from family shouldn't be to far distance to reach out. When you get sick just make sure you have plenty of tea and hot soup stocked. You'll be fine!

Dear fsuma86...many think that only single people can feel and live lonely. But that is not true. Married people, although married can also feel and live lonely. This happens when the husbands or wives or grown up children don't have anything in common to talk about or they have to part because of work in a foreign country. Many also think that having many siblings will not make one live lonely. The same holds true here. I know of a family who have eight siblings but each sibling would rather be on his/her own place or rooms (and not bother with each other) because they just cannot work or get on together. I think the most important thing when you are living alone is to leave or pass your contact number to your family members and friends and pray that God will alert someone if something happens to you. Being quiet and lonely is not a problem. The REAL problem is ALWAYS living a 'noisy' and 'party-lifestyles'.