His Mom is a Pimp

I hear your concern but, I wouldn't be so quick to judge by calling the mom lazy. Maybe this is all she know to do because maybe, she was raised in this enviroment. I don't agree with this profession which is the oldest profession in the world and legal in some states. If it's legal and the ladies are over 21 years old adults, who am i to say what she can or cannot do. Let me hear your thoughts?

I am taking it that if the mom was a pimp, she was pimping out her son to make money. Well, I would find it hard to accept myself as I do not to ally understand the dynamics that wee going on there. It is a sad story.

People are driven to such business mostly out of compulsion of circumstances. If a woman is having no money to feed her children and no proper help from her husband--she will be left with only option to resort to such a trade. Putting myself in that boy's position -- have to accept because there is no other way for the lady to support the family. Other jobs like office work, cleaning work, sales work etc, are not available that easily. Even in this trade there are many women who cannot get adequate money while some in the top echelons of society mint money. I think it is due to fate. Msny things are beyond our comprehension and control.

I think if i was the son it will really hard for me to accept the real fact but if he really love her mom he must understand her mom and he must also think that his mom only doing that because her mom want to give all the things that can make him have a better life. I think all of mom want to give what is the best for his son and that is the way that her mom know how to earn money. But he must also talk to his mom so her can answer him the real reason. Talking to his mom is the best.

Oh yes I dont think I could accept my mom doing that for a living at all. I can understand that she did what she need to do for me and my family but still I don't think I could get my head around it at all.

I don't know what i do if i knew my mom is a pimp. Acceptance would be really hard for me. She do that for a living, and to give something to her family. Well, i think there are still other choices or job she could find. A reason that it is the easiest way to earn money is not reasonable at all. But i can't blame her, maybe she was not able to finish her study, that's why it's hard for her to find a real good job. And she found out that pimping is easy money. Well, I cannot do anything about that mother. Maybe her son can ask some social service in their place, and ask for other option to work.

This is the oldest trade in the world and it has existed since we don't know when... Not everyone do it for pleasure... In fact, almost everyone does it due to circumstances... Acceptance is most tough.. The innermost mind would always rebel n revolt against the idea... The further two steps are out of question, as the first one will never be true... I feel sorry for the kid who got to know this... It is better to keep some facts hidden...

it is a great blow to her child, but this is not only the work she can do,some good counseling will do any good to her, since we can"t imagine how deep she has gone ??

A single mom need to feed her child and herself, if she doens't have any works available to her, turning to flesh trade to make a living is out of desperation, after all, she is doing the pimping, not as a hooker. At the end of the day, she need money to live and survive, no matter what are the moral value of some pretentious high society folks may have, she is still a good mother as far as i am concerned that live up to her parental responsibility to her children, when ther eis no other recourse or opportunity around, turning to flesh trade may well provide a chance for her to survive in this cold cruel world where money run everything in our life.

Most of those people doing such acts of wickedness are trying to explain to the people behind them that their actions is right and good. Because that is the only way to make easy money...their reasons is clearly wrong because there are many ways to make money which is clean and not making anyone to be broken down because of them... They love that works because as others say it is easy and also they enjoy...I don't agree with what those people alibi to make money. It's a kind of wickedness and laziness I think

You have to be in that situation to understand the dilemma. It is criminal occupation - undoubtedly. But it is not as if the child knew all along. Therefore, he has developed affections and regard for the person. If he turns her in, he has to sort of amputate part of his life. If he is the only child - he has had it. He would be all alone in the world! Hard decision thrust on a 20 years old. Now, analysis of the situation..perhaps she is too aged to have been in that profession hersself. Perhaps she couldnt find the right work even when she tried. Perhaps she tried another profession, and couldnt manage home and work because of kid/s. Perhaps, it was at the profession that she was forced into this line and she couldnt escape it. I wouldnt be so fast in condemning a lady as lazy, unless I knew her to be lazy or simply somebody who is unwilling to do physically challenging work. Generally, people try to remain respectable, if not for themselves, at least for their children. Finally, my call on this is - put it all behind - move to another part of the world, and start working hard so that mother does not have to take up such thing again. By sending the mother to prison he would be doing himself no favors, as the world would tease him and his conscience would trouble him. An unhappy man he would be. And may be he would drink and make others unhappy too. His duty in this case is to be grateful first, more so because she is now aged. If he can, he should help the women whose lives have been spoiled because of whatever his mother did, duly apologising for the past. Forgiveness will come. Sending mother to prison will not repair their lives, will it?

This is really a very sad story to know. Somewhere I am sure that the mom did not want to do this. However, I guess that it was out of financial difficulties that she was forced to do this. However, the law is the law. Sooner or later, the law has to catch up on her. That is the sad reality of life. I wish things would go better.

Maybe if his mom is crippled it would be understandable that she finds that job much easier in order to support her family. But if she is really healthy then she have the options of looking for a proper job. Or as you say physical jobs that other moms have been doing to feed her family and send their kids to school. Maybe the mom tried other job too but still finds it very easy to earn and do this job rather than accepting laundry or working in a factory. Because alll she needs to do is pimp young ladies to men and she'll get her money right away. I think it will be hard to talk to mom coz they might end up arguing. But then again, if he'll be able to talk to her in a nice way I think he will be able to guide her back to goodness. Honestly, I don't know how I would deal with it if I am in his shoes. You know some moms thinks they're always right.

In this time and age nobody seems to care what kind of a job you have as long as you can feed your family. If the mom has no other means to be employed in a decent way maybe she has no other alternative but to do so. Irregardless of any situation she was into. The most important thing for her was how to support and feed her children to live.

To be honest - if it were me - I'd turn her in. Accepting it and "leading her to spirituality" is a pathetic response to a criminal occupation that takes advantage of people in difficulty (usually). I'd probably tell her to get a proper job first but, if she didn't, I'd definitely inform on her. That's not the kind of mother I'd want, thank you.

I think without knowing the whole situation it is difficult to tell. It may very well be that she is lazy as you said. But there is more likely much deeper stuff that caused her to embrace that lifestyle. There is no telling what she went through when she was younger that brought her to this point. She may not know how to get out - or she may have no desire to as she is making a "good living" in her own eyes. My students used to ask me why they needed an education when they could make my monthly salary in one night selling on the streets....very sad.

Hello bingskee, Its not easy for the boy to accept his mother the way she is but he must try to understand under what circumstances she did it.May be when he understands it he would be able to accept her comfortably.I know a woman can't do it for her own wish it she does it when all other options for earning money for her gets failed.

To me I would think she does this due to a desperate situation. I do not think people just wake up and decide to do something like this. At first it is probably because of bad situations and it continues due to addiction to making good money fast. I think most people would get out of it if there financial situation got better due to a better job. Right now in these economic times there are not many jobs out there so if her kids need anything this is probably all she knows to do...

it is one the most hardest questions to answer. if i were your friend, i dont what i have to do. but i have to talk personally to my mom. whtever she does, she is my mom. i have to know the reason why she picks up pimp as her job. and we have to get a final solution, long term, not one day solution. regard