make friends with girls

China
December 20, 2011 9:02am CST
it`s really hard for me to make friends with girls. imagine there is a girl who is a stranger to me, and i wanna make friend with her, i am really confused how to act in front of her when we first meet with each other, and how to keep this friendship on. i have to say that i have few female friends,and i`ve been single since i was born. That`s pathetic. could you give me some advice or share your experience?
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@SandeeE (346)
• United States
23 Dec 11
Girl I sooooo know the feeling. I have way more guy friends then I've had girl friends. As a grown woman I still get along better with males then females. I think girl, girl friendships are hard because girls tend to be very materialistic and caddy. They get jelouse and compete too much and it's very hard to trust most of them in my opinion. But trully if your comfertable w/who you are and love yourself just walk up to the girl and start a converstation about how like her shoes or her hair. Don't over do it and seem like your kissing her butt but just make her aquantance and see if the too of you have anything in common. If you do at the end of the converstaion maybe say hey do you like this club or this bar or coffee shop and say you too should hang out sometime and look for men or just talk. If the girl is un receptive and doesnt want to be friend or have a conversation w/you well she's not worth your friendship anyways hun.
@SandeeE (346)
• United States
23 Dec 11
PS _ just be natural just be you! If you don't love you enough you cannot expect anyone else to love you ; ] I'm sure you are a wonderful person.
@ksherrie (891)
• Singapore
29 Dec 11
hihi, I guess you can start by talking to girls like how you would with your guy friends. I mean, girls are human too. Unless you are talking about the girl you like. You can always start off being friends first. And being friends, you will slowly find out what she like or doesn't like. Or get your friends, who know her too, to introduce both of you? Especially at a common friend's birthday party? Or a friend's gathering? Otherwise, find out what does the girl interest in, or where she usually hang out. Find opportunities to meet her. Therefore, you have more things to talk about too. As long as you know roughly a few hobbies she does, or some things she loved or hated, you will have some topics you can talk about and work around there. Hope this is useful to you.
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
20 Dec 11
most of us have gone through this difficulty. it's really difficult at first. i remember when i was young. now, i do not mind if i speak with girls. what i do is that i just want to communicate something. try to imagine what you want to communicate. if you have nothing to communicate, then you will certainly feel shy. but once you figure out that you have something to say to her, something important, then it will come out naturally. with you the best.