Almost close to be a Father or maybe not yet

hi first of all don't need to panic wait for the result me too last year i became father too and i am still studying we do have dreams but in life sometimes we can't do anything that we want my son his 1 year old now is was hard in the beggining cause only my girlfriend and me did everything some of my friends helped me too, to feel bad or be sad, wait for the result if she is really pregnent u must afford it one day most of the men will be father beeing coward its not good cause you don't know who your son will be yes i know you don't have job me too and i am living in a foreigner country place that i can't have part time i only need to use my brain properly, everything will be fine don't give your girlfriend too much pressure Good luck any problem contact me we could help each others even though we are not living in the same country but we are sharing the same planet

thesilentsufferer ..It is normal for you to be worried at this time. First wait for the results and be sure before you worry too much. Life is full of surprises for all of us and we just have to remember we can handle anything that we have to handle. Best wishes and let us konw what happens..I think we are all holding good thoughts for you. Welcome to myLot...you will find many friends here to talk to. God Bless

Hi, I think that it would be too soon for you to start a family. More so as you aren't settled yet. I'm a 20 year old guy and I know for a reason that it can be scary. So consult with your girlfriend and a family planner if you can and avoid having a child. It is for the best for all of you guys. Good luck.

First, buy a pregnancy test to make it sure. If the pregnancy of your girlfriend is positive. Don't get nervous in that situation. Face it . Be a responsible man. Your already 21 years old and you know what is right and wrong. It just a challenge of your life. I know God will not give that challenge to you if you don't know how to deal with it. Always have faith in God and trust him. You can still continue in your dream . Just trust yourself. Having a baby its not a obstacle in our life to reach our dream.

If she is pregnant you'll just have to do what you need to do as a parent. I just had my second child last week, and though I'm older (30 years old) I've found myself in a strange situation too. During my pregnancy I packed up and left my husband of ten years. I took my four year old and moved out of state. The point is that there are many things in life that are not planned, but sometimes we just have to roll with the punches. You still have time to sit down and decide what you need to do in the next few months to get yourself straight so you can provide for your girl and unborn child.

Go to do the pregnancy test first. Dont scare yourself too much. If your gf really pregnant. Maybe it is the gift from god. It doesnt mean your whole life is finish. I have some friends in europe, they have kids, is a good parents,but still can work on their dream and take care their kid good.

hello, You just said that you are a nurse. So, dont be afraid of taking a pregnancy test. Don't be afraid to try if you know to yourself that you can survive this. If you really want to achieve dreams that you wanted in life try to be strong in this situation. Your girlfriend need you most, she need your support and care for this time.

you just a young guy , don't play with bad boys , because they may damage your life