People treat you differently when you are not looking good?

My friend, when they look at you, it's not to degrade you. Maybe , they are just curious of how a pretty girl could have that big pimples on her face. But when they stare at you nonstop, then it's time that you glare at them!

I remember you piya. You were the one who mentioned about spending excessively on clothes in one of my discussions. :) So ...do you want people to love you for you or for your clothes or looks? :) Anyway, take it easy sweetie. We have such times when god decides to enlighten us. Show us who truly care and who dont. Shed that flab of folks who are after looks and not for your nature. I dont mean dont move with them. But remember that they possibly are not going to be there for you while others will be. I suppose there were a few who were around for you even in such a situation?

Hi piya! I think if imperfection on your face was the cause of ill treating you, then whosoever did it to you were not decent and civilised persons. They should not have ignored or side-lined you, they way they did it to you. I feel that if basically we have nice attitude towards others then they should not treat us on the basis of our outer appearance. I have not come across such a situation like you. Keep you spirits and confidence high and consider yourself as one of the most beautiful and smartest person in your city. All the best.

You have noticed the attention because you are not used to it. But for people having disability or not so good looking or having any deformities, they're used to stares and glare. But in your case- it's a different thing that why you feel awkward and a bit annoyed.

Hi piya84, Yes and I think that is normal human reaction. I guess you can just let them look at you in wonder, laugh or smile and tease you - one day for sure you will go back to your normal look. I have been in a situation like that once or twice. First was when my hair was cut too short - suddenly people looked at me strange and made fun of me. Second was on my first job, right after I graduated I had chicken fox. There was no marks left but I have had pimples since then. Big pimples and it keeps coming back. One guy is always teasing me, but I am so happy that after more than a year, I was not working there anymore - all those pimples and marks were gone. No one will tease me for that anymore

I know how it feels. And it hurts. I learned that you shouldn't judge a person by how s/he looks.

If people give so much importance to pimples then it saddens me to say they aren't worthy of being taken seriously.Most younger lot go through this phase and people ought to understand it without lowering the esteem of the person so affected.Normally they ay oily foods lead to pimples and it is better to stay off them.Don't be perturbed by these reactions and lose your peace of mind with such shallow people.

Yes it is cruel how people treat others. I have fever blisters alot in school and now i get them every once in a while. You are right on people look and stare at ya and whispering to others. But they are forgeting one thing Thy shall not judge others.

Hello! This is the reality of the society, it is so inflexible, even ruthless. This situation, I also met. In our China, have a phrase, when people fall into life a low point, don't go looking for relatives to help. That is the way the meaning. Happy every day!

Yup, some people treat you differently when you are not good looking, lol. But for me, I am confident and comfortable with the way I look. I don't care what they think of because they're not the ones feeding or giving me what I need in life. What I just don't like is that, people really treat you differently when they see you don't have money - when you have money they are your friends, when you don't have money, they ignore you

hello, Ohh? yeah, right?! I hate it. I never treat other people like that, so why they are doing that to me? LOl. That is why i always take care of my face because I know people will always look at you differently if something happened to you. I also hate this side of the people. This kind of situation will lack your self confident.

That's reality, majority of people are prejudicial. On a job interview, alot of interviewers prefer the looks of the interviewee for them to be hired. Unless you're actually excepetionally skilled. If you aren't that goog looking, atleast you need to nbe smart to compensate the lack of beauty.

No, I never experienced this (o.k. maybe as a kid). Actually it doesn't matter to me how people react to me, whether I look well or bad. What I experience is that when I treat people, good or bad, beautiful or ugly, equally, they will return the favor. Always act as if you have something important to say, to do, to go to, and people will respect you.

Yes that is exactly what I experienced. When you are good looking people will look at you with awe and give you much respect. When they see you have a disability or you look ugly they will mistreat you and judge you wrongly. These are the common notion among people these days. I don't know what happened to people these days.

Well that is definitely true. There are a lot of people who looks at you and treat you by your appearance as well as by the way you dress or suit up. Most often those that are well looking and well dressed are the ones given more attention and attended to by other people. It is indeed a sad thing that people treat us in such way knowing that our physical appearance is not what is important but rather what is in our heart and our character is what matters much.

Have you ever noticed what criminals look like? So many of them are unattractive which makes me wonder if they were badly treated and unwanted when they were younger so got into crime because of having little or no self worth. Kind of a you hurt me, so I'm going to hurt you back, angry at the whole world attitude.

I don't look at any girl's face, rather I observe their behaviour. Good behaviour does not mean that girl has a cute looking face. Inner beuty comes out if your heart is as clear as a crystal.

This is actually the best time for you to see who are your real friends. It is true that during good times, there are many who will claim to be good friends of yours. However, when the time comes for challenges, these so called friends disappear. This is also the dilemna of those people who are blessed with so much beauty. They find it so hard to know who are the real friends. That is a sad part of the real world called life.

That surely is one of the realities of life. Others are quick to put judgement or conclude something in their heads against others because they just look at the superficial things. I for one may get curious if I see something that is out of the ordinary, but I will make sure that I don't treat that person in way that he/she will get hurt emotionally. You said you'll be fine in a week, that's good! Look at the brighter side of life :)

Your face, your clothes and your body are the first thing people see until they talk to you. Unfortunately before you even speak you've been judged based on that. I worked in the Las Vegas night club industry and there was always pressure to look, dress and act a certain way to bring people in and make them spend money at the club. Day to day I'm not very superficial and consider myself somewhat of a 'tomboy' and see a HUGE difference in the treatment I get. I also had a baby last week so my body is in recovery mode which also changes peoples perception of me. I'm a little self conscious, but at the same time I feel like other people can love it or leave it and I'm ok with it.