Isn't pranking a friend just mean?

@katie0 (5203)
Japan
December 23, 2011 4:16am CST
I see people pranking their friends, they live together, sometimes they don't, even boy/girlfriends and even family and everytime it doesn't matter how funny it could be isn't it just mean? Just to make a youtube video? Is that worthed? Sometimes it's so hurtful that I feel sorry. I watched once by accident cause I find these videos so stupid, the ret*rded girlfriend made 4 expired hamburguers to her boyfriend and not only recorded that but also she laughed her *ss off while he was trowing up. It doesn't matter how funny it could be, like a person falling for themselves, it is not when I think they are not lucky to know someone like that.
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@Queen_11 (307)
• Philippines
23 Dec 11
I would not totally say that doing a prank on someone is mean. However, I can only say this if the prank does not hurt the target person physically or emotionally and also if the said person is just cool with it and had a hearty laugh as well :)
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@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
30 Dec 11
Sure, not all of them are. But there are some that they hit a friend, even making some pass out, that's hudge.
@Queen_11 (307)
• Philippines
30 Dec 11
If that is the result, then any prank should definitely be not allowed. Fun at the expense of one's physical or mental well being is not acceptable.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
23 Dec 11
Most of thethings we laugh about that involve others are mean. Even the clean jokes, if they are about others it usually is a situation where the person spoken about is in a bad or even hurtful situation. Humor is rarely kind.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
31 Dec 11
Yes, I rather jokes when the person makes fun of them selves, and it's really kind as well
@denise002 (444)
• Australia
30 Dec 11
I don't see a problem with it if it is a mutual act of fun and they have a good sense of humour. Some people enjoy that type of thing and a bit of banter and if that adds an element of fun then so be it. its only a problem if the one who gets pranked doesn't find it funny and it is continuous, then it becomes more bullying and they would hardly be a friend at all
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
29 Dec 11
Well, there's good pranking, and there's awful pranks. And there's another aspect of pranks that is hard to define. This is going to sound insane, but some people actually think of pranks as a form of friendship. If you can take a prank, and laugh it off, then you are part of the group. Worse, if you don't laugh it off, and get upset, then you are a stuck up jerk. I happen to find pranks rather distasteful. Someone pranks me, I tend to stay away from them. And that girl in the video, that's sick. And she's rather stupid. A very tiny bit of food poisoning can make you sick for a day. Making an entire burger with rotting meat, could very easily kill a man. Should could have ended up on attempted manslaughter charges, to be honest.
• United States
23 Dec 11
A prank is not a prank unless all parties involved recognize it as a joke. If they don't,then it's just something harmful.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
30 Dec 11
Well said! Yes, I don't like to play with someone if they be sad, feel harmed because of that, it's just not funny. I was watching videos and saw pranks by accident, people are kicking, punching and burning each other, it's just so not funny.
@drow1212 (169)
• United States
24 Dec 11
I feel it depend on the prank if you know its going to cause harm intentionally then don't do it. At least pick a prank that if an accident happens it is not threatening, like hiding their napkins under their plates just before dinner or something.
@djbtol (5493)
• United States
24 Dec 11
Pranks can be fun for everyone, but whether that happens can be touchy. I would agree with you that using old meet to make someone sick is going too far. I would not want to laugh at someone in that situation.
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
23 Dec 11
That is more than just mean. It can be dangerous depending on how sick the person gets. I am glad I don't know anyone that would be that immature. I bet the poor guy was really upset.
• Mexico
24 Dec 11
Hi katie: I think these attitudes are cruel and they are just worst when you are trying to make a friend has a bad moment. It's immature and stupid. Call me too serious but I find these jokes just sick. ALVARO
• United States
24 Dec 11
My mom pranks me and it is not at all fun or funny. It may seem funny to the person doing it but to the person on the receiving end it is just not. I hate it.
@whatrow (792)
• United States
23 Dec 11
Pranks are a sign of disrespects and represent a strong desire, either consciously or unconsciously, to humiliate the person involved and usually, to disrupt a pleasant experience. What is so funny about throwing a pie in someone's face on their birthday? If anyone ever pulled that on me I would never be friends with them again.25
@Zskyla (39)
• United States
23 Dec 11
I'd say it depends on the person, because some pranks can be harmless while some can just be plain evil. Some of my friends play pranks on each other, but they never got out of hand like feeding each other expired food or causing someone to fall and get physically injured. I don't think anyone in their right mind should pull a prank on a friend that they know is extreme, or dangerous just to get a laugh out of it (that's psychotic and malicious). Playing pranks are meant for friendly fun, not sadistic jokes.