" hi Nelda oh you sound awful"Nelda croaks"You should talk.You croak"

@Hatley (163776)
Garden Grove, California
December 23, 2011 2:40pm CST
You should have heard us trying to talk to each other,. We both are down with some nasty virus and we both practically lost our voices from it. So our talk on the phone lasted about two minutes. And sob] its Christmas the day after tomorrow.Have you ever felt Oh God look please let me get over this before Christmas? NOw we need at least a little miracle, even if just to get our voices back.Your take fellow mylotters,
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
24 Dec 11
i have my voice ok, but i may come down with something from exhuastion. son went to spend a week at gf's in NY. my daughter is still here with her bf. and with son gone her bf got drunk last night and went crazy. yelling and carrying on so bad at her. we got no sleep. and she begged me not to call the cops. and here it is 2 days before cmas and i didnt shop for the little ones yet. and dont feel like i have the energy either. i told her next time hes going to jail. im to old for this crap!
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Dec 11
hi bunnybon oh thats just awfull, if I wereyou I would have called the cops as drunk like that he might have hurt your daughter. Why do young women put up with hoy friends who ger drunk and abusive as thats where a lot of the battering starts with the drinking.Yes I agree hes going to have the cops called on him the next time.I hope she gets the message and dumps the drinking boy friend.Merry Christmas Bunnybon and a much Happier New Year to you.
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@fwidman (11514)
• United States
23 Dec 11
This is a terrible time of year to be sick :( Hope you both get better qyuickly! Merry Christmas Hatley
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Dec 11
hi fwidman oh tell me about , wish I had the person here who gave us both the bug. lol Merry Christmas. it was funny my friend Nelda called me just to tell me she did not feel any better and I could barely understand her. And I told her she was sounding awful, I think she laughed but also told me I was croaking like a frog. lol lol Have a Merry Christmas fwidman
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@MaryLynn321 (2680)
• United States
24 Dec 11
Do they have lemon juice and honey there? I remember when we were in high school and had a talent, some of us had lost our voices and several of us had to sing. Needless to say we had a bottle of lemon juice we would drink some of before we sang and it really helped.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Dec 11
hi MaryLynn thats a good idea I will try that and see if it] will helpl. wow that would be something to get laryngitis and have to sing publicly.I am sending you a Merry Christmas] and a Happy new Year with my fingers good thing I do not have to talk lol lol.
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• United States
25 Dec 11
Thank you Hatley. Needless to say it was definitely interesting when a few of us had laryngitis. But, the lemon juice from the bottle really worked. I don't know how much of it you can have with your diabetes. I know the honey probably would not be a good thing. But some put it in tea with lemon too. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you too my friend. Hugs.
• Pamplona, Spain
24 Dec 11
Hiya Hatley, Extreme cold and extreme heat is what we are having here going from 15 degrees higher in the back part of the House to 15 degrees less in the front. Its really cold in that part and by three in the Afternoon it starts to get icy cold as we are right out in the Country so you can imagine. So I have lost my voice and got it back again but the second time around the cold is not so bad as the first and I am getting used to these sudden ups and downs even the Dog has grown more fur because he needs it too. We took him to a Hairdressers the other Day for Dogs and he came out looking like a fluffed up ball of cotton wool lol. Hope you get your voice back Hats and me too as I love to sing a bit he he he. Lots of hugs and the best Christmas you can have and to your Son as well.xxx
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Dec 11
hi lovinangelsinstead21 I am feeling so much better and I think the Comtrex my son bought me has done the trick. I am still coughing but my sore throat and sore eyes are done and I think I will live. lol lol Oh and I have my voice back too.Happy New year to you and yours.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Dec 11
hi lovinangelsiknstead21 oh yes I got a won derful new mouse thats so easy to use.,My friend Nelda called me yesterday and her voice is still awful . she has the same bronchitis that I had but is taking different cold medications., Her doctgor put her on antibiotics so I guess she got the bug worse than I did. I was going to see my doctor but the comtrex my son got me really did help a lot.So I will see him next week for my yearly half hour check up.Happy Newyear and hope it brings only good for you and yours.
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• Pamplona, Spain
28 Dec 11
Hiya Hatley, Now so good to hear that you are feeling much better after all that. A lot of People are coming down with second colds and quite bad ones. So now you have your voice back at least you will be able to chat to your Friends on the Phone again Nelda included. Oh yes the sore eyes mine were sore for a Day or two as well. Happy New Year Hats did you get your computer Mouse then the one you really wanted? Hope so.xxx
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
23 Dec 11
take extra care on your health especially when it's nearing a holiday or a special occasion cause these are times when we sometimes over stretch ourselves with regards to our physical limits so the general tendency is for our body resistance to go down.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Dec 11
hi louieville Yes I think I got careless and I went to TGrager shopping and the store was wall to wall people also shopping and among all those someone gave me a nice mean little virus As its been more wicked than a cold, I think its just a different strain of the flu. but it's viral so my doctor could not do me any good. I have been drinking more fluids and taking Ibuprofen 'and Benadryl. At least the sore throat is gone so maybe I will be better by Christmas. lol Merry Christmas
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Dec 11
hi louievill I was going to mylot but my eyes are bothering me so beack to bed for several hours. got the virus in myeyes. lol take care .see you later.Merry Christmas.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
24 Dec 11
nice to hear you are better now, Merry Christmas
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• China
24 Dec 11
I am sorry to learn of your being under the weather .Hope you'll soon be well again and get your voices back.I guess it is surely the intense cold there lately,it is just the time when people are prone to catch a cold.Take a good care of you and wish you a merry Christmas!
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Dec 11
hi chang I am now over it almost , just the cough. my son brought me some Comtrex on Christmas day and its really helped me.I had the old fashioned flu for sure. My son spent Christmas day with me which made me very happy and now I am looking forward to New Year's Eve. Have a wonderful New Year Chang.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Dec 11
hi chang thats interesting I have not known too much about Chinese medicine but a fellow coworker I once worked with used those medicines and she seldom ever had any trouble with viruses. Its great to have effective treatments without side effects. I had to be taken off one diabetes medication because of the side effects. they caused me to have a very bad fracture of the shoulder as the side effects had caused bone loss in my shoulder so that the bones were not just broken and could be set, but they were crushed making me to have to have an artificial shoulder joint.That surgery caused me to lose most of the use of my left arm. now I cannot raise my arm far enough to comb my hair or fasten my bra.
• China
28 Dec 11
Thanks a lot! happy New Year too!I am glad to hear you have been recovered from that and your son attended to you on Christmas day.You were likely to get upper respiratory tract infection.It seems that Comtrex did take effect.However I usually use Traditional Chinese Medicine for treating it,which barely has side effects.
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@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
27 Dec 11
I'm sorry to hear you are sick. I've been lucky enough to dodge the worst of the bugs so far. I did catch a cold from Maggiepie, but managed to kick it before it turned into bronchitis.
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@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
28 Dec 11
She's still on the trachea tube, so she isn't able to eat. They are getting her out of bed and sitting up, but she's not being the most co-operative... I keep telling her she has to work hard so she can go home.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Dec 11
hi ElicBxn poor Maggiepie wow shes really got it bad. She is one of a kind is she not? I used to love her discussions as she always'made me smile. she was so sassy.I can imagine for a person like her its really tough being ill but like you say she needs to work with them if she wants to go home.I know with very large people the more they can be up and off their backs the faster 'they can heal. I worked for years as a enures aide and learned so much not taught in schools from the nurses, doctors, and patients too. As a bigger person,I weigh too much 198 that our weight makes things more difficult.but my doctor was puzzled for so long over my having trouble losing weight and finally decided to have me checked for thyroid trouble.he was right. I have low thyroid so am now on medication.,so fare I have come from 208 down to 198 so am hoping 'to get to 150 and see myself without cringing at how I look.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Dec 11
hi ElicBxn I guess it was my turn as I got the whole thing, bronchitis and flu sore throat and finally sore eyes. my son brought me some comtrex and the stuff really worked. even my sore eyes are gone and the bronchitis is better, no more sore throat.I did enjoy Christmas anyway as my son spent the 'day with me.. I am feeling great again now.Happy New Year how is maggie pie?
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@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
23 Dec 11
Hi Hatley.... isn't it fun to be a part of the sick group? NOT! I've been really sick for 4 days now but am getting better though a little each day. It hit me like a ton of bricks the first day really early in the morning. It was coming out of both ends and at the same time. Horrible! I'm hoping I'll be well enough to visit my mom on Christmas day for I don't want her to spend it alone since dad isn't with us anymore. What a predictament to be in but it is what it is, I guess. It's all the more wishing dad was still here. I miss him so deg gone much! Hope you have a Merry Christmas.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Dec 11
hi CatzandDogs no wonder I have not seen you lately. Yous lost your dad. I can see how you hate having your mom be all alone. My c ondolanceds on your loss. this also hit me just all of a s udden withj a bab headache then next day my throat was awful ., its clearned up sinxe then but now I am coughing,its in my chest and my eyes are affected, they are red and I keep tearing like I am crying. But the tears burn an sting my eyelids. I am not sure I am going to be over this by Christams but we will just do the best we can.although I had a fl shot in October this seems like a bad case of the flu with aches and bronchitis and I lost my voice to boot. Also my voice is gone and my eyes are now sick too with tears coming out and making my eyelids sore. some flu. just hope I can feel a little better by Christmas. Merry Christmas and do get better quickly. I am hoping for some sort of miracle between now and Christmas day. lol lol Happy New Year to you all l. oooo
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@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
23 Dec 11
I hope you get your voice back and are in great health for Christmas!! In the meantime, think about this: Your son is healthy, you are not in a wheelchair or on a ventilator. You have a warm place to live and friends to talk to--or write notes to, in your case! God loves you and so do so many others, you are a wealthy woman in every way that counts. There, I've just used the hugs emoticon for the first time, just for you, and I truly mean it.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Dec 11
Hi dragno54u thands and you are so right. I have so much] to be thankful for, a loving son, my great mylot friends, friends here at Gold Crest. I am indeed a wealhty woman as I watch my friends here struggle with their wheelchairs, and remember those who just co uld not make it and am so grateful I am alive, not on a ventilator and looking forward to a new Christmas here and so m any hopes for the future.Merry Christmas to you.
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@celticeagle (166911)
• Boise, Idaho
24 Dec 11
It does seem another of our members is sick as well. I hope both of you are well for Christmas tomorrow. Miracles have been known to happen. I have had a sore throat the last few days. Not sure what is going on. My grandson has a cold. He goes out with a coat and drives us crazy.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Dec 11
hi celticeagle oh I got some comtress from my son and its ally helped me so much I had the old fashioned flu and I had had a flu shot in October too. so guess this is another strain yet but the sore throat and sore eyes are gone but the cough does linger. No more fever and no more aching. I had a lovely Christmas in spite of being ill and now I am feeling great again. happy New Year
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@celticeagle (166911)
• Boise, Idaho
29 Dec 11
I'm glad. Happy New Year to you too.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
24 Dec 11
Oh I hate the bug that makes me lose my voice. I hope you get better before Christmas. I can't remember a particular occasion when I thought that, but I am hoping for you now. Take care.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Dec 11
Hi JenInTn It is a right mean little bug and I am still hoarse and croaking instead of just talking. oh and my poor eyes have taken cold too. they are re and sore and I look Like I am crying but I am just tearing from some sort of irritation. well this will be a first for m e being ill on Christmas day.Merry Christmas Jen and a wonderful joyful New Year too.
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
24 Dec 11
Hatley aunty: Merry Christmas. I suggest you call over phone and talk if you have the number. I can follow your anxiety when your discussion gets cut.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Dec 11
hi ravisivan I am so much better its not even funny.sore throat is gone, sore eyes are gone, I still have the cough but I feel one hundred percent better and I can again talk instead of croaking.I am now looking forward to New Year's Ev e . Happy New Year ravisvan.
• United States
23 Dec 11
Hi Hately, I know what you mean… you poor woman suffering with a croaky voice.. I hope you get better so you can enjoy Christmas. I’m going through that with my family… my SIL is sick with the flu… and my daughter is getting it too.. it’s hitting them in their throats and lungs. It’s bad. We won’t even get to go to church tomorrow night, I don’t guess.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Dec 11
hi Pointless Questions so its a flu strain not like the flu shots'so that e xplaiuns why we feel so lousy. now its in m y voice and in my eyes. I look like I have been bawling but I haven't of course. And when I talk I have t o try to clear my throat and repeat all I have said then its still not really clear.lolYes in my chest too and I keep coughing. I thought whe I had the flu shot back in October I would as usuall not get sick. wrong this time. I just hope I have not given to my best friend.but we both have all the same symptoms'so we must have picked it from from the same person.At least the sore throat I have finally recovered from, but my eyes sting and burn and water like It.Merry Christmas and Happy New y ear.
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@telmesh (1793)
23 Dec 11
Oh hatley sorry to hear you are so poorly especially so close to Christmas. Please make sure you have all you need to make you feel as good as you can. I will be thinking of you and hoping that recover quickly. Have as happy a Christmas as you can.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Dec 11
hi telmesh thanks , I am driniing water like mad and taking Ibuprofin and Benadryl and also I have spent each morning in bed too. I think the extra rest at least helped my bed to get over the sore throat. Now I loss my voice and the cold is in my eyes'tool they are so red and sore. am hoping for a little miracle for Christmas. lol
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@telmesh (1793)
24 Dec 11
Hope the sore throat eases soon.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Dec 11
hi telmesh I cannot believe how many errors that last comment has drinjing instead of drinking and the sentence I think the extra rest at least helped my bed what on earth? I meant the extra rest in bed helped me to get over the sore throat. the sore throat is gone but so is my voice and my eyes are so sore and hurting. tomorrow is the big day.Well I will just do the b est I can as tomorrow is Christmas day. Mewrry Christmas telmesh.
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@savak03 (6684)
• United States
24 Dec 11
I have gotten sick for every holiday that has happened the last few years. I think it is because that is the time the grand kids are home from school, and since they are at my house I automatically get whatever they have picked up in the public school system.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Dec 11
hi savak oh my just remembered we had carolers here from a high school and I and another lady were seated up front. several of the kids close to us were coughing so thats where I could have got the flu. It was not over by Christmas but I still enjoyed the day as my son brought me some comtrex and that did help my virus a lot. Now I am feeling human again and ready for New Years' eve.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
28 Dec 11
Just before Christmas we went toboganning at a nearby mountain here which was covered in snow. It was fun until the last run I did when I twisted my knee. So, I have been limping since last week. I wanted it to go away before Christmas. No such luck as I still limp albeit not as bad as the day after I slipped. Now, I'm hoping that this knee gets better before the new year starts! I hope your croaking (and Nelda's) are done and over with!
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Dec 11
hi bounce when I fell and twisted my knee it took about 20 days of physical therapy and being off my knee for that time.The comtrex my son got for me has really helped me to get a lot better. I have my voice back but my friend Nelda is still really bad her voice made my throat hurt when I heard her. she called to tell me how she was doing and to find out how i was. I think I got the better medication of the two of us as my voice is back and I feel so much better now. even my eyes have cleared up too.She went to her doctor and he put her on antibiotics as she has bronchitis really bad. mine is almost gone except for the cou hing.Hope your knee gets a whole lot better before New Year's eve. lol
@RitterSport (2451)
• Lippstadt, Germany
31 Dec 11
oh dear Hatley I hope your voice is back by now and you dont have any cold symptoms any more when you read this. I just caught a cold on Christmas Day, dont know how I managed to do this, still was fine on Chrismas Eve but then it hit me. I worked inspite of it from Tue to Thu and had yesterday off. Its getting better slowly and I am also thankful for this.