In what age you get married?
By Devilova
@Devilova (5392)
Indonesia
December 24, 2011 9:14pm CST
This question was for those who already married.
And for those who didn't yet, in what age you have a plan to get married?
15 responses
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
25 Dec 11
Ho!
That is great thinking.
Why such a thinking ?
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@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
25 Dec 11
I got married at 22 years old which was a bit too young. Our marriage lasted six years and then we got divorced. I think that the best age to get married is 24 to 28 years old. Then there is time to have 2 or 3 children born before the lady is 35 years old. I have a friend that married at 38 years old. Her children were born when she was 39 and 40 years old. That seemed like a rush to fit all that in.
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@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
25 Dec 11
I guess it would depend on the person on when he can be ready to marry. Some of us are mature enough and even if they married young, they are already responsible. Others are childish and they are not yet ready to marry even if they are already much older. There are those who are already prepared and yet they are not yet married because they don't have girl or boy friend. For this, we'll just take into consideration the woman's age. She should marry during their child bearing years.
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@yahnee (1243)
• Philippines
25 Dec 11
I got married at 18 against my parent's wishes and have since then regretted that I did it. I should have waited for myself to mature and should have listened to my parents advice but if there is something that I should be thankful for are my beautiful kids. Even if I have made a mistake in my decisions, my children did make it worthwhile. I have been separated long ago that I hardly ever remember my ex-husband except when he is texting me for a reconciliation. He thought that it is as easy calling or texting and I would just accept him with open arms but no way. I now enjoy my freedom, something I haven't experienced due to the early marriage. I have found somebody to love who doesn't ask too much of me but only that I love him in return. Some marriages do fail because, the couple gets married thinking that they can survive on love alone. Some get lucky though, but others like me did not. Marriage is a commitment and it needs maturity and sacrifices on the part of both not on one alone.
@Devilova (5392)
• Indonesia
25 Dec 11
Well actually, the primary reason for getting marriage was a successor (child).
At the beginning, you not thinking about it.All you know is, you love that men.Thats it!
After you get a child, you will know which one you will choose if you have to choose.
A mothers feeling will lose a wife, but that only if we have to choose one of them.
Cause I believe you will choose as a wife and as a mother.
Hope she/he will become a moon for you and your families.Raise up yours and your families proud.
That was a real successors is.
@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
28 Dec 11
age does not a measure for someone to get married Devil
if you feel you are ready and had found the right man to stand beside you, i guess that is it.
but first to think about marriage is someone have to mature enough to solve the big and hard problems in the marriage.
@marguicha (223008)
• Chile
28 Dec 11
I got married very young and I woyuld not change my decision at all. Many people thought we were crazy when we got married, but we loved each other and had a good marriage for almost 40 years. I was not "planning" to get married: I had planned a wonderful academic career. Still I could do a lot of what I wanted and some of it thanks to my husband.
@marguicha (223008)
• Chile
2 Jan 12
What do you mean by "wild western"? I sound as if I had lived in cowboy movies. I have loved all my life in my country´s capital, a city with several millions of inhabitants. Western hemisphere, yes. Wild, no.
@Devilova (5392)
• Indonesia
1 Jan 12
40 years was a long-long time, specially on the wild western.lol
It would be great if we have a great husband and a great father for us and our childrens.
Thanks for share it with us.
And happy new year for you.Hope this year will bring more health, wealth and prosperous.
Cheers
@Luckygal777 (107)
• Malaysia
25 Dec 11
Well, i have still got some things planned for now or else i wouldnt mind getting married now. But since its not yet possible, im hoping by God's grace, by the age of 24, i will be able to get married.
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@sivaeinfo (220)
• India
7 Feb 12
Its better to get married after the age 22 or 20. If we get job. Next thing is to ready for marriage. In my view, we don't think about marriage without having a job.
@kin2cabrera (34)
• Philippines
7 Jan 12
i'm planning to get married when i will have a plenty of money and when i can walk on my on foot but my girlfriend's family wants us to get married because she got pregnant. i'm only 21 and i am just a student by now. :(
@prospectboy (754)
• United States
26 Dec 11
I'm 30 years old, and I've never been married. I'm honestly not in a big rush. I'd like to be married by at least 35, but I don't put an age limit on it. I'll know when the time is right.