As a girl,what do you believe is the most important...

keep your job but do things that interest you for example I like forums, so I joined many and it keeps me from boredom I am also looking to take on new courses

You're so lucky cos you've good job. Have you ever thought about those who can't get any job although they're also qualified. On your case, I know what you feel, dear. It is really a bored day to do the same things everyday and nothing fun there. Almost each people face the same problems as you but they survive to do it cos they have big reason to do their job, such as for their family, sharing/using their knowledge on the right place, their self esteem, and so on. Their basic reason makes them keep enjoying their work and trying to have fun in doing their work. The most important things to do is being happy anytime and anywhere.

I can't understand much what you are trying to say but as a fellow female I can tell you 3 things: 1st You have to know what you're missing. Know your wants and needs. Happiness is always a need especially in your career. 2nd Know the means to achieve what you want. Decide it for yourself so you won't have regrets later and you have no one to blame but yourself. You should be responsible for your every action. 3rd Enjoy your life and the choices you made.