Some Girls Are Trying To Catch Him....... :( :(

What you are feeling, as a sister, is normal. You wouldn't want to be separated from your brother, but it's inevitable I'm afraid. Someday he will be in the arms of another woman, the best you can do is support him, be happy for him and help him find a good partner in life.

Okay, I will help you. First off your brother is a individual and not your piece of material to obsorb. You do want him happy, right? It would be selfish to hold him for yourself. I also would not pick and choose for him. If he asks your opinion I would tell him your thoughts. I think you really love your brother and want to continue to have a good relationship with him so I wouldn't be selfish or try to choose for him. Let him be himself. Let him be free to govern his life as he sees fit. Be there for him and love him. You will both be happier.

Hi Dassodils, I'm not sure that I understand just what your problem is. It sounds as if these girls like your brother and are attracted to him. It's perfectly normal and rather than be upset, you should be happy for him. If they are not right for him then I'm sure he will figure it out. Not sure if I'm understanding your situation correctly but it sounds as if maybe you are being a bit too overly protective of him.

No matter what happens, no one can replace you as your brother's sister. As we mature we need to understand that all our family relationship under go chanages. Try putting your attention toward becoming the best, most supportive sister you can be. Life is full of ups and downs and all of us do better if we know that no matter what happens we have someone to fall back on. You need to be that someone and love him enough to let him live his life. This works no matter what your age. I lost my brother 3 years ago so I know what I am talking about. Blessings

I think you are a little bit jealous about your brother. He needs to breath and give him some space. Don't be over protective. You are his sister not his mother. Be caring but not to much.

dont make me laugh. you have a nut loose. what else i can say... daffodils...stay calm. everythings..is not going to be same always.. change is inevitable.

It is clear that you are a good sister. However, it is a part of growing up to realize that our siblings are not always going to hold the same place in our lives. Your brother is eventually going to end up with a woman that is not related to you and that is who he will eventually start his own family with. The best thing that you can do as a sister is to allow him to meet women that might be the one for him and you need to be supportive of the decisions that he will make in his life.

Dassodils : It is natural to get a feeling of jealousy -- this happens due to possessiveness also. This may appear a little harsh. In Indian conditions girls should be brought up in such a way that they develop confidence to own their would-be's family and distance themselves from parent's family. My daughter will also not agree with me and fight frequently on this, All said and done after marriage you will have to move to another house and after marriage of your brother another girl has to come to your house and take care of your parents and your brother. Learn to his going slightly away from you for obvious reasons.