Still in Love or Just a Thought

i think that is just a thought in your head... you are not sure of what you would want to have, perhaps there is a confusion as to what you could possible have with this person who is not your husband...

Hi mmgonzales, I think it's just a thought. It's normal for us to think about our former BF/GF. Even the past suitors we have. Sometimes we also wonder what if we end up with the person, what kind of life we will have with them. But then we'll realized we are married or we already happy with our BF/GF. So you shouldn't worry about it - if you're married and you love your husband it just means you're only curious about that person.

I think if you can't stop thinking about this person it might be 2 things... 1: you're still in love 2: you just had a great time with that person and now when your life changed you might want to go back to other time, but if this is the case with time it will pass, when you'll get costumb to new circumstances.

If the person who you're thinking about is your first love...then it will be a little difficult to forget about him. Cause the first love is always hard to forget. People say that you are a very lucky person if you get to marry your first love. In other words be with your first love forever. If you're married to someone else its best that you forge about the past as you will be putting you marriage in jeopardy. Don't try to spoil your marriage and try o concentrate on making you marriage a successful one. You don't even know if that person about whom you are thinking about is thinking about you and even knows that you are thinking about him. Try concentrating on some hobby or do some house hold chores so that your mind gets diverted...

Hi MM tell your friend to forget about her fast and work on her present relationship. She already married and still on one roof there is no reason for her to think about her fast, and besides just the thought of it is already a sin, you could advice her to stop her feelings for others

Well, thinking back the past doesn't mean that you are still in love with that person. I loved four girls so far although this is the only time that the girl responded my love. Sometimes I will still recall the other three girls before this one but I'm sure that it is just a memory of our feeling. It does not mean more than that if you don't want it to. You are total control of feeling and belief. Try not to convince yourself to wrong thing because you can change how you feel.

I saw this horse the other day when I was taking my daughter to her dad's. It was leaning against the barbed wire fence so strongly that it looked like the fence would cut him. He was trying to get the grass over there when there was the same grass right there at his feet. It made me think of the old saying "The grass always seems greener on the other side." I think that the biggest thing that has us hold on to things like that is the fact that we glamorize what it could have been like in our minds. The truth is that it probably wouldn't be anything what we thought once we were there. I try to appreciate the here and now. The things that I have in my hand..the things I could lose in an instant. it helps to push the "what ifs" away if I focus on the life I have and the things I want to accomplish.

Our mind plays strange games. It tells us we are worth everything and we believe it to be so. We find it hard to accept that others dont like us or want us. Especially if they wanted us at one time. One sided matter is essentially mind play. So the sooner we return to reality the better off we are. Because we might end up doing or saying something that is completely irrelevant and can lead to unnecessary misunderstanding. Hope your lady girlfrind realizes that.

I think it can be hard to get over a love that has ment a lot to us. Even if we may be married. The good thing though is to keep on growing in love to your husband. Strengthening your relationship. And that can reaffirm to you that you made the right decision.

Well,that is only on your mind just your mind keep thinking about the good experiences in your life.. Just happy moment for you so you do not have negative thoughts..well,you are married already so you just inlove to the partner of your now..

Hi, mmgonzales and I'm not a lady girlfriend . I don't think you are in love or anything, it is just nostalgia. When you have a family, you tend to think about the past.

Hello there! I feel for you! I also felt that before but the song Stitches and Burns helped me a lot. Listen to that song and try to feel the difference. Thanks!