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I don't think all men do that. There are others who grew old with their wife but never even had another woman. The problem is always with the guys. Some are really good but when a woman comes to them they can't control themselves. If these men truly loves their wife and kids they won't ever try cheating.

my perception about relationship is when two people in a relationship even in marriage. they must feel contented, satisfied, being loved and secured, i think either one of them will find someone new who can fulfill of those qualities. For me, i wont find somebody else if my future hubby will secured and assured me that i am his only one. and in return, i will give him security and assurance. Furthermore, i think for those women who are in marriage, even you are stressed out doing household chores or taking care of the family. you MUST not forget yourself; be beautiful always. So, your hubby wont get attracted with another woman. learn to love and give importance to your self too. it's not bad to treat yourself to buy pretty dresses or visit beauty salon once in a while. And sometimes when a woman become a mother, they less prioritize her husband. i'm not saying it's bad being a responsible and loving mother with your children. but you are also a wife and your husband needs you too. so, don't forget to give his affection that he needed.

I have to admit this phenomemon. But there are still many men who love only one woman for his all life. As for other men, maybe they just cannot feel any fresh feeling when they get married. So they have to find other women.

This is an interesting question. but you know. sometimes the woman finds another man. it is very difficult to explain. I think it just depends on how men and women communicate whether they are satisfied in any way from its mate. In most cases you're right man finds a woman just because she does not act up, so do not fret nataak least I think so. It is important to put in place of others and to understand why this happens not only to why the other and in ourselves. nice day!

that happens when they forget their wife..some men do that and forget how valuable their wife is..my man doesn't..so I haven't experienced it..nether I want to.. But I have experienced another guy and it was awesome..I never thought I would but I did and when it started I was looking for more..the main thing was he was different from my husband and so the feeling I was getting was different and the circumstance was that..my husband knows about it and it was his idea at the first place.. now its no more and back to same old life with some sexy crazy ideas some times..

Not all the man do this,if you can always hold his heart

This is the golden question I think. I have had both of my ex's cheat on me several times. And now I am married and I am questioning this. He has lied to me many times about where he is. And when I confronted him on it, he told me that he is a grown man and doesnt need to tell me every place I go. While I agree with this, he doesnt need to lie. He has specifically told me he was somewhere else and wasnt. It makes me hard to believe that its not a big deal because he is lying. I am not certain that hes cheating though. We have a really good relationship besides him not being honest with me on this. He just lied tonight too and I dont want to ask him about it because I dont want a fight. I will ask about it on another day.

not all men like that my stbx is not. we are separated for other reasons, there was never trust/cheating issue. but yes most men I knew, thank goodness never married to them, never find it enough with one woman either they go all out cheating, or just cheat emotionally to me there is no difference, but I will leave that to the woman they are with

Wondering why a man always finds another woman after his marriage? Sounds like all women are faithful to their spouses?..lol Hey come on..you already know both men and women cheat.Men cheat on their wives for exactly the same reasons as their spouses.Not all men are the same.Neither are all women.I think people,man/women will cheat if and when there is no friendship in a marriage.Ones other half has to be the others best friend and that makes your marriage happier,stronger and better than ever,in short,a successful one.

I wouldn't say all men are like that. Firsly, those men who cheat on their wives are either not finding what they expect from their wives anymore because their wives are too busy with their children or household chores. It's true there are more responsibility for the woman but that doesn't mean she can't find time for her husband. Once in a while, they both need to have some quality time alone w/o the kids...this helps alot. Secondly, there must be a TRUST in marriage which means there's no need to ask the husband where he's been or who he's been associating with because you have to give him your full confidence in him. The more you lack your trust in him the more the relationship will wreck and find someone who can trust him.