Stress of Holidays
By motherof3alh
@motherof3alh (42)
United States
November 20, 2006 7:05pm CST
Hello. I have three girls and a husband and every Christmas. I get stressed out over everything. The main thing is "Am I going to have enough money to get their Christmas Presents". I always spend too much and then the first of the year I'm late on my regular payments. It seems like we forget what the real meaning of Christmas is. Does anybody else feel the way I do?
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6 responses
@411fromMe (789)
• United States
21 Nov 06
I get stressed over the holidays too but mostly because of lack of time to get everything done. All the decorating, baking, xmas shopping, christmas cards, wrapping presents, visiting with friends and family. It is alot to do in a short amount of time.
Christmas isn't about the presents we buy as you mentioned. So maybe you could do some more homemade things. Maybe bake some nice Christmas cookies for friends and family, or cook some food and freeze it and give it as gifts. My SIL does that for her grandmother and her grandmother really really appreciates it. Just some thoughts...
@Keyser0Soze (95)
• Australia
21 Nov 06
Yep - I understand
I stress too.
What to buy everyone.
This year I have done a couple of different things.
I have lay-byed the gifts, so have to pay before xmas.
I have brought a money box that can't be opened, and each week put my extra change and budget a little extra to go in the tin.
This will hopefully pay for some treat on our xmas holiday.
Paid for holiday accomodation already.
So far soo good.
@chefpatty (390)
• United States
21 Nov 06
well it is, it is very tiring to go shopping for hours. and most of the time you get crappy presents, or cheap presents back. I know it' is the thought that counts, but sometimes there is no thought put into the gifts you get. I say we just celebrate without gifts things would be a lot easier.
@naziashajid (847)
• Canada
21 Nov 06
I don't celebrate X-mas but I feel the same thing when we celebrate our Ramadan. So good luck with you friend.