My Girlfriend makes me Crazy...

hi, russel, sadly you don't tell your fully problem and when it start?? may I know how long you've been together?? if you both are newly dating I can understand that misunderstanding will easily occuree between you both, but if this relation has go along and this always been your main problem, so you should face it seriously, both of you may not match each other. you can find the way out if only both of you want to open each other and speak deeply

As usual woman is always make a lot of trouble to us.

Hi russell_21! Most girls really tend to overreact. Sometimes we also tend to complicate things. Have a heart to heart talk with each other as early as possible before things get ugly. Both of you should stay calm. If ever your talk ends again with a fight then both of you need some time off to think things over. Relationship is also a commitment and needs a lot of work. If at the end of the day both of you are determined to work out your differences then you can give it another go. Goodluck to you!

Well, you said she has been a little strange, and you often quarrel with each other. Have you tried to find the reason. You know, girls are more sensitive than boys, sometimes they can remember a small unhappiness or small mistake you made many days before. The resolution is to solve it, or else she will remember it all the time and be angry with you without any reason(in the eyes of yours). I think, first, you can think carefully about the content of quarrel, has she mentioned anythings? can you remember what you have done let her unhappy? If you can't find out what is wrong with your deed, then ask her for the reason, but remember the attitude is very important. You should do that in a sincere attitude. Tell her that you need her, and don't know what caused her unhappy, if there is anything wrong, please point out, and you can correct your mistakes. etc. Well, in relationship, i think, understanding is very important, as you have said, you are also a short-tempered person. Well, maybe she has been also in pain recently because of the quarrel between you. Sometimes misunderstanding can make two person in pain. And at this time, it needs one person stand out to break the ice, i think, it should be you.

It sounds to me like you need a little break from each other to figure out if you are really meant to be with each other. Sometimes when you are with someone it is very hard to tell the difference between love and habit. Everyone has arguments but if the arguments are more frequent than the good times, well, that's not good. What causes the arguments? Is it something that you could work out? If not, maybe it is time to move on.

Hi russell, fights are normal. even I and my boyfriend kept fighting on the phone since we're far from each other. I also came to the point that I feel so irritated whenever I hear his voice. I guess you both need to take a break for a little while. I mean just don't call each other for the meantime. One of you will miss each other and decides it's better not to argue anymore but just keep understanding each other.

i think it`s normal russel.. how old are you now?? what about your girlfriend?? what the conversation always make you and your girlfriend fight each other?? and who is the first said "Iam sorry"?

Hi Russell, well what i think the fight between you both is the issue not getting solved and it seems very serious about it. Because you are trying to make her understand from your side and so is she doing job, but ain't working because there might be barriers right? So think if the matter is too much serious is better you guys don't talk about that issue, talk about something else the moments you guys spent with each other and so on. When topics like these approach you should be the key person in handling the situation and making things normal. As a friend said in your discussion girls are very sensitive and things get stucked in their head very fast. All i can suggest in the end is that if there is a time horizon for the issue than wait for the ultimate result and then discuss rather than fighting everyday. All the best take care. Hope you guys have a happy loved life.

hi russel, try to talk about the root problem, ask her what might have caused her to act like this, maybe because you're being busy all the time or she's busy most of the time. Whatever the reasons are i know there must be something bothering her or something she sees in your relationship that makes her very irritable. God bless, hope you fix the problem (",)

I think the two of you should not interact in any way for a certain period of time, call it a 'cool off period' It doesn't mean you have to break up. Or it could be that she's experiencing some hormonal changes that mostly affect her moods.

Hi russel, I think you need to have space first. Let it pass. Then have a thought of what causes the problem and work on it. Try to also have a talk with each other and LISTEN to what she will tell you that make her irritated quickly. Acknowledge YOUR mistake - this is one way of making her also acknowledge her mistake. Then tell her what do you think will be best for both of your bad temper and settle what both of you will do in case bad temper strikes again. Try to make good of what you promise. If I may advice, if one of you was in a rage try not to clash with each other by LISTENING and give time to settle and get cooled. If she's done talking, then it's her turn to LISTEN while you air your side. That way both of you can listen and understand each others' wishes and come to an agreement in the end. Remember don't clash.

quarrels are unavoidable in love .but if you both are always in a fight ,you must find out the reason.maybe you just misunderstand each other,maybe you don't stand the same angle.once you find the tendency of fighting ,you can choose not to get her phone ,and make efforts to let her alone till you both are calm .girls usually are unreasonable troublesome,you have to make every endeavor to ingratiate her and make her happy .is girl terrible ? no , she just hope you love her with heart and soul forever.this is my opinion ,and i hope you two will get on well with each other afterwards.good luck to you

You know the issue "Short Temper". Both of you sit together and address it. Both of you must be willing to take your relationship beyond this roadblocks. If you both agree to get a solution for your problem, then think and analyses the possible reasons.Simply both of you try to stay calm for someday s and then work on this.

it's hard to solve this problem.God bless you!

Well i think you do make her feel crazy too.... I feel that you are in a very stressful situation but i do hope both of you can and will be more patient with each other.

It's difficult to be fighting over the phone. It could go endless, because you only know that the other one is already so angry. You don't know how to take the chance of pacifying her, because you cannot see her body language. Maybe next time, when you see that a fight is coming, you should try to warn her that the conversation is going nowhere, so it's better to cool it off. If one is angry, then the other one should try to pacify her. That should be vice versa.