I Hate It!

hello, It is alright as long as they dont violate any rules in myLot.. Just ignore it. alright?..

they fully understand. to many is how to tell a bad answer because you and I hope you can answer you but here there are many discussions in which their creators simply do not respond do not know why. simply should not have to answer to realize that it still is not pleasant. nice day!

I was just telling the same issue to my hubby when I browsed your discussion.. I hate it too.. People are just posting new discussion and won't even bother replying to them.. Well I guess that how they want to manage their account in mylot..:)

Hi Rusale, If it is a really good discussion and it appears that the starter of the discussion has abandoned it, I will go through and respond to some of the responders and get the discussion going. There was one discussion a while back that got really interesting and the starter didn't appear at all.

Same here..I've been talking about this in some of my discussions that we should atleast reply to some of the response in our own discussions so that the topic will be discussed more further and it also earn us more if we comment back to many responses but unfortunately there is always some members who don't understand that and just keep starting many discussions but don't go back to check the responses those kind of members come and go in mylot, most of the time after a few days they will eventually disappear in mylot.

I think everyone who start any discussion should be able to respond as much as possible, otherwise, the discussion loses its meaning if you just post and don't bother to check what others are commenting. I always try to respond to my discussions as much as I can.

This is not a real discussion then so what is the point if starting it! I think it is rude to not respond back to people. That is one thing I dipole about mylot sometimes. It is so annoying when that happens to me!

I think it is a bit disrespectful! I think that since a responder took the time to read the discussion, and made the effort to respond to it, they should at leas make the effort too to comment on the response. I definitely see some users here that don't bother making the effort!

Hello rusale, Yes it sucks when they don't comment back to the responses.They should do it not just to earn money for commenting but for the courtesy and to acknowledge the respondents that he/she has read their responses.Recently i too have started discussions but not getting enough time to comment back to the responses but whenever i will have the time i surely do comment back and don't leave any of the response unattended.

You will not find that in my discussions. Only a few I have let someone have the "last word" but the majority of discussions I've started have comments attached. I read everything, sometimes more than once. I agree, I always feel if I put a lot into a discussion someone else started I'm intruding. One person actually suggested I make my own discussion but I think it is a good idea to see who in a discussion actually wants to have one?

You made me look at the discussions i made, lolz Actually,i have discussions which i did not made responses after our mylotters gave their effort to respond.But i know they understand because i was so busy then.But because of this i will try to make a comment out of the comments. :-)

Hmmm, i don't hate it at all. In fact, it doesn't matter to me if those people i responded to won't respond to my discussion. You might think it's unfair for them to do that. Then again, no one has to force anybody to respond to a discussion they don't want to respond to. Just enjoy discussing and participating in others, don't mind what others are doing or not doing.

I also hate such ones! So i never used to respond for their discussions.

hey don't worry about it.ya surely we want more response for our discussion but we receive some response only.so dont hate them.some times they have a more work because don't hate them.from your discussions i think about you,good girl,i like you more and more,your photo shows me about something.what i say i feel something about you.what i feel in my mind say me,pls take care her.oh sorry i will take diversion from our topic.ok fine.

I can understand your feelings because I had an experience where I have some discussions with zero responses. It disappointed me but it didn't stop me from making more that might encourage public interest. In my point of view, "all you can ever do is make a better discussion that would take up common interest" is the best thing you can do. In this way, also, you will learn what most people have in common and what topics do most people answer to. If you are a business minded person, you may want to know this and use the information you got to your advantage such as "How many people are depressed?" you might suggest they read Funny articles that can be found in your blog and use that to promote traffic into your site. All in all, life is an experience to learn more and find opportunities to improve it depending on how you want it. Good discussion, by the way. ^^ Happy MyLotting!

Well, I'm wond'ring too why they are not replying. But I don't hate them. I just ignore the "wond'ring feeling" towards them. It's complimenting if the discussion owner takes time to reply. It's like, you're talking to a real person *LOL. Anyway, it's no big deal! As long as, there's more real people here like us... than "unreal"! *LOL... Happy MyLotting real people!

Some might think that if they start a discussion then I'll just be getting paid automatically when some others ans. their discussion. Its not true. We get more and more money, if we start a discussion and reply back to all received comments. Even I hate such a habit. Because res ponders are just like taliking with them self...!

Hi rusale, I also hate people making so many discussions in a day especially if they won't even response. But it is their choice, they might think that making a lot of discussions will earn them big cents here but they are mistaken. They should at least reply. Or if they are not thinking much about earnings then, it will be a bit boring to respond on their discussion. I usually don't jump in to someone's discussion if I know that they're the one who don't give reply to our comments, especially if the discussion they made is not of my interest.

Your point is very much right. When we opined something we have the right to know from the other person, what he is thinking about our response. A discussion will be complete or meaningful when there is a lot of responses and comments to it . Otherwise it will be a boring and you said we will start to hate it. As a new entrant to this forum, still I have to start a lot of discussions and to respond it.

Well I get pissed of when the same happens too. I really dont understand why people should start a discussion if they are not willing to respond. A discussion should be an exchange of ideas and not a monologue. SO I make sure I start discussions sparingly so that I have time to comment and on topics I know so that I can respond well whenever people leave a comment.