Why people take trouble into people's problems?

Hi ChoiYee, That happen to me as well, there are few people who like to talk bad about others people in my company, whenever they meet A, they will talk something about B, and C, and they meet B, they will talk about A and C, and they did the same when they meet C. I know they also talk bad about me behind my back, but I just don't bother as long as they never talk in front of me or the bad news come to me, or else, I will definitely fight back. At least we have to protect our right!

Have deaf ear towards them. Do not even try ton confront them. They will pretend in front of you but will act funny at your back. You have to be always cautious with these kind of people. They will mess up even if you talk to them or even if you don't talk to them.

If you listen you will always find people talking behind your back, so the very best thing you can do is stop listening. What ever you need to do leave those people behind, if they are friend, relatives or just people you know. If you give your self new focus, you can make a whole new life for yourself. Or you can spend your energy trying to fight them, but if you do they will just go someplace else to talk about you. You can chose.

Hi choi yee! Because they have so much free time yet do not want to spend some to mirror and look at their ownselves. It is better not to know what the things they said to us at the back. Its up to them, just ignore them. If you can't take it and need to deal it face to face then it is okay as well. You deserve to know what is wrong it you that make them feel they can say anything about you. I don't know why people like to talking bad about others. It is much better if they just gossiping something good but it usually about watching them to fall apart. If you want to confront with them make sure you are prepared for anything that might happen.

This is how we learn what people are like maybe. Why do people hurt others? Maybe they are bored in their own life. Some people need to be ignored because there are also others that deserve our attention.

Ignore them. fighting will now result into anything positive or constructive. It will just give them more reason to talk about you. Your personal affairs should remain private and in order to protect your privacy resist talking about it except with friends that you can trust. Gossip mongers will always go to all ends just to have something to talk about. They all have the free time in the world to spend gossiping. Let them be because they amount to nothing and don't put yourself to their level.

I know how you feel People always want to get in your business. It's like you should write a book about your life and say here my life or something. I hate it too when people talk behind my back thats childish

Just ignore them. People that talk about you behind your back are just jealous. They obviously have no life or they would be talking about themselves. Be thankful that you have a life worth talking about and go about your business.