do you believe internet love?
By jakeyangchao
@jakeyangchao (124)
China
December 31, 2011 8:21pm CST
internet is now becoming more and more powerful, you can get almost every thing with internet and i cannot imaging a world without internet
before i didnot believe internet, because i thought that internet was unreal and people alway use to do crime.
i donot believe it until met my present girlfriend. it was four years ago, i first met my girlfriend online then we began to talk and chat online. i remember the first time we met we chated for a whole night. after that day we alway chat online and talk whatever we want. as time going on we fall in love with each other. now she becomes my girlfriend and then will be my wife.
internet brings a girl to me, do you believer internet love?
11 responses
@jakeyangchao (124)
• China
1 Jan 12
yes of course we are in the same country, and we also are in the same province.
to be frankly, i really want to marry a foreign girl but i know this is difficult because it not convinient to meet each other, i am also not sure will she willing to live in china with me, beside my family is poor and now my earning is also not too much. so i now find a chinese girl.
@Kalebtheman (530)
• India
2 Jan 12
if the intention of finding a girl friend is genuine and not for flirting, then its acceptable and i believe it could be a success.
@megamatt (14291)
• United States
2 Jan 12
There is anything that is possible in the world. There is really nothing that I will avoid entertaining the absolute possibility. Love can be found on the Internet but on the other hand heart ache will be found. Hopefully it does really turn out for the best in the end, that does really give many other people hope that there is something to be done.
Of course, you never truly know what may happen in the end. Things can start out wonderful but they can really end up going rather south in a hurry. Let us hope that this is going to be a time where things are going to really turn out for the better. Internet relationships can really be a tricky one, as there tend to be many people presenting different masks upon the Internet and that is just the case.
@Sum1PassingBy (419)
• Jordan
2 Jan 12
Why not?
I'm not sure, but I think chatting on the internet can get people much more comfortable in a discussion, a bit more than in real life, at least for some people.
Ofcourse no relationship should be limited to the internet. Think of it as the door to the relationship. After a maximum of a couple of months I think the couple should meet in person, otherwise the relationship would go nowhere.
Have a good time here and happy new year!
@br3ndy (468)
• Indonesia
2 Jan 12
I'm glad you could find your girlfriend from internet. Actually i believe in internet love too eventhough i've never experience it before because i have a friend who got his girlfriend from internet. It started with online game. They are an active player to the online game and used to plays together. After that they started to chat much and decided to meet eventhough they are from different cities. They fell in love with each other and decided to start their relationship. Now they are still continue their relationship and sometimes each of them will visit each other's city to met. Even his girldfriend now become our friend too.
Happy mylotting..
@FluxNL (503)
• Netherlands
2 Jan 12
I had a girlfriend which I had met online, we were keeo chatting to eachother and after a while we were in love. exactly one week after we first met eachother. The relationship was hard, but it managed to hold on for 4 months. It was a nice time for me and for her, and now we are good friends who help eachtoher in hard times.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
1 Jan 12
I met my husband in an online chatroom 8 years ago. We were states and states apart but he came to the state I lived in to be with me. He sacrificed his life in his state to come to mine for me and true love. We have been married for 7 years and we have 3 children!
For all who doubt, it is very possible. It happened for me! We are in love and going strong. =)
It might not happen for everyone but I found my soulmate through the internet...
@squallming (1775)
• Malaysia
1 Jan 12
I'm glad that you are able to find true love in the internet. I don't deny that it is possible to find your spouse on the internet. I'm a gamer and I've heard several online gamers got married even when they are from two different countries. However, such chance is really low. Some people you meet online may not be sincere and truthful to you, you may not know if they will scam or anything else that may harm you and your family members. This is very common nowadays and my mom almost got cheated once by internet lover. Just be careful out there people. 
@jobfindonline (1744)
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1 Jan 12
I know some people who became successful in internet dating and are happily married now. If the motives of both parties are pure and is really all about love, yes that is possible.
If you will notice manny are dating online to get a foreign wife or husband only to become a citizen in a specific country. Often younger women prefer to be married to an older guy just because of the financial security.
It's hard to know who is real in the internet world unless you meet in person and take more time to know each other. And yeah, two persons who became in love and got married despite of differences in culture or race is undoubtedly a great indication of love. But only few succeeded in this kind of love. Congrats for having a girlfriend online, may you have a succesful marriage someday.
@kathybrown (33)
• Philippines
1 Jan 12
I don't believe in internet love. Mostly are using the internet just for the sake of money and not LOVE and the worst is for lust
@erijcole (1)
• United States
1 Jan 12
I believe it is very possible to find internet love because these dating sites thrive on matching you with people with similar interests and hobbies. Also, millions of people are joining everyday which gives people better chances to beat the odds of finding a mate!
