is it good for students to fall in love in school or not?

Not all relationships have bad effects on students. I have a friend who studied a lot harder so he can impress his girlfriend. If that isn't good effect then i don't know what is. My girlfriend would always want me to never skip school and since then i tried so hard not to be late or absent in class. The effects of a relationship vary from person to person. If a student doesn't take his studies seriously because he keeps all his attention to beau then it isn't a healthy relationship.

Yes it's very common but I'm not too sure about the idea of kids becoming more mature. I guess you could say that kids are growing up much faster but their maturity isn't any better, still immature I reckon. I'm still in high school and I know a lot of girls who switch boyfriends like going through clothes. Every time they break up, I think they feel insecure being single and feel the need to have a partner so they hook up with someone else and the cycle starts all over again. Some relationships go very well, my friend has been with her boyfriend for 6 years or more since elementary school. I say they will get married in the future. But commonly, relationships in school aren't very serious and some kids don't take it seriously. Once high school is over, students have to move on and might not stick with their current partners. I've seen little kids as young as 8 getting boyfriends and girlfriends. They're just too young. Now if you're talking about college then that's okay. I'm pretty sure that's when most students meet their partners and fall in love.

Im not against love and I never was... Love can happen to anyone anytime. You cannot stop someone form falling in love. If a person falls in love while in school is not a bad thing or a big issue. Its just puppy love. It is a fact that they dont know what they are doing. If you try to stop them...they wont listen... Infact they will act more wild. School love will come and go. A vvery few school love relations last forever because when in school...the children are not mature enough to understand what they are doing. I feel its just a waste of time. We cannot do anything about it.

Falling in love is human nature. There is nothing wrong but in your statement the first priority must be school, on how youths escape from poverty not necessarily but indeed a must do. I agree today and yesterday is really different. In such cases, all i can think right now is for the parents to grab the responsibility to discipline their kids, give more advices and perhaps try to spend more family time together that will also help the kids to disregard things that could destroy their future. In addition why not say..make someone your inspiration in your study first but take the limitation. ^_^

blessing of love at any age of love would definately be favourable as soon as they know about it they will then surely be aware of the other aspects of the love. infact by every one

we can not easily say that is good or not ,there is both advantages and disadvatages depend on how we look at it. First of all, what i want to say is love is the most magic things of the world, you can not deny or escape if you find your Mr/Ms right. its not easy to find the one you really love. if you find it, just to catch it. I always insist that ture love can inspire someone to do the right thing,rahter than the bad effect on it. On the other hand, i do not agree with some sutdents play with love just because they think that is interesting or just be fed up wiht study, which is really terrible...

Hello jakeyangchao, Advantages?What are these? I think to fall in love in school is not good and it effects studies.I have seen teenagers doing it and just think of the partner all the time and thus wasting their precious time in it when they are supposed to study they just keep them busy in all love things and ultimately it reflects in the annual results of the exams too.

When I was in school, I used to think that it was not the right time to interact with girls, let alone be in love. I didn't even know about all this till I got out of school. Maybe that explains my single relationship status. As you said, it completely depends on the person with whom you decide to have a relationship with.

Oh i think it is pretty okay to have a relationship when you are in school...If you are good enough,you can manage both your love life and school life without affecting your marks... I personally know people who have actually achieved better marks during their school life even though they had a lover.... So it is how you choose the relationship to be..IF you put in more time in on one side, the other part is gonna suffer..It is just like anything else in your life... You gotta know how to manage it...