It is so hard listening to love songs . . .
By boyuancy
@boyuancy (1708)
India
10 responses
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
2 Jan 12
I would suggest not listening to songs that make you feel depressed. I know that it is hard to do but it will make you feel better. I use to feel that way when I was single and heard love songs. Try to listen up beat and positive music. That made me feel better. Love songs are great and nice but they are very hard to listen to when we are alone and feel sad about it.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
5 Jan 12
I agree music is all around us. It really adds to movies. So many people play music and often times there is even music playing when we shop. So it can be very difficult to avoid it and it does sound so good. I hope that you are able to hang in there through these tough patches especially when a love song makes you feel sad.
@atish19 (180)
• Mauritius
1 Jan 12
Even i have this feeling sometimes. But do not take it like that. Instead when you listen to love songs think of the beautiful life you have ahead. You will see the change and do not think about something in the past which have hurt you. Think about the future you will see the change and you will love listening to love songs.
@Tibor1450 (207)
• Hungary
1 Jan 12
The type of song has an effect on my mood. Whenever I'm listening to a sad song I become sad myself, whenever I listen to a happy song I forget all my problems and I'm happy for some minutes, so it's not just you. Get to love someone or if it's really affecting you then listen to other types of songs, at least that's what I do. Morning to get up - Metal. Before work - something fast etc.
@Tibor1450 (207)
• Hungary
1 Jan 12
Do you mean that the mood you are experiencing when listening to love songs is feeling you're alone and kinda get depressed? For me love is something that can be either good or bad. When you really love someone but for some reason they'll always be a dream and they'll never return the feeling then love is like hell and like being locked into a prison of pain being tortured for eternity. But, when you love someone as much as they love you, then it can be defined as heaven and neverlasting happiness.
@prospectboy (754)
• United States
2 Jan 12
I can definitely relate to what you mean. I like listening to love songs most of the time, but sometimes I find they change my mood and bring a feeling of loneliness like you mentioned. If they make you feel really bad, I would suggest you stop listening to them for awhile. That's what I do sometimes, and when I do I'll mostly listen to hip-hop. Just know there is someone out there waiting for you. Just gotta be patient. Peace.
@Bluestream (235)
• China
2 Jan 12
Me too. I also love to listen to love songs, especially some traditional ones. For example, yesterday once more, love is blue, I love you more than I can say,etc.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
1 Jan 12
I stopped believing in love long time ago,until someone showed me the way.
I never searched love, but love found me I guess.
I still listen to love songs ,it's relaxing indeed.
Keep love in your heart, I know that one day you will find the right one too!
@jordq7 (576)
• Philippines
6 Jan 12
Hi there boyuancy!!
I think this feeling of loneliness will pass in time.You just have to think of the good things that are currently happening in your life and you must not drown yourself into sadness it will only make you look dull and lifeless.You just have to see the good things around you and you'll realize that the love that you don't have yet can be achieve in some ways.You just have to wait and be patient.
@vishalssgk (269)
• Malaysia
1 Jan 12
We all face such type of feelings at some point of the time in pour lives.
I will advice you to hang out with friends, go watch movies with your friends, go on picnic with your family. don't stay aloof.
see out that there in your vicinity the things going on. friend the world is going on very fast if you keep yourself aloof you are going to miss the happenings.
