A mother's heart

Philippines
January 1, 2012 1:30pm CST
Since my baby started to say words i seldom heard her calling me mama nor mommy but i always heard her say papa and daddy every day.. funny part is, her father was never with us not even during my pregnancy so i asked my mother how come she always papa or daddy than calling me instead, my mother said that she might just looking for her father thinking why she haven't seen him even before, she also grab my cp and pretending like shes talking to someone she walk through the door like i normally do if im talking to someone over the phone and my mother and i laugh when she said papa while on phone, looks like shes talking to his father though theres no one on the other line... because of it, i decided to make a final decision once and for all, before new year's eve our time here i left a message to her father through chat greeting him happy new year and that his daughter want to hug and kiss him, i was thinking that if theres still no words fom him then that will be final i will tell my baby that her father already die so she will not going to look for him. then after few hours he did reply and were talking like nothing happened and become so interested to our baby. when my baby saw him on cam she kissed the cam and say papa, i couldnt cry but i felt that something lifted out from me, i felt like all anger and pain he did to me was gone when i saw my baby so happy.
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5 responses
@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
1 Jan 12
I've heard that children usually say daddy before they will say mommy. I've heard that it's easier for them to say. Perhaps that's one reason why you daughter is saying daddy first. Perhaps she's also looking for him.
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• Philippines
2 Jan 12
yes they say that, i guess now i know why she rather say papa than mama, maybe somehow she will call me too..
• Philippines
2 Jan 12
yes they say that, i guess now i know why she rather say papa than mama, maybe somehow she will call me too..
• Philippines
2 Jan 12
Wow what a sweet kid you have I'm a single mom too, my son never knew who his father was. I don't have any idea where he is right now. But my son understand me why he has no father. He is big and curious already but i am so thankful that God give me a very lovign, sweet and understanding son. HOpe you two will reconcile for the love of your child.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
2 Jan 12
hi h omeshoppers that can be hard to swallow taken he is not even'bn her life. but if he can make the effort I guess your baby will be'happier but I would notexpec too much of him,any man who will walk out on his child I do not think much of.She will get over this 'and she will be mamaing you soon. I hope he does not come on srong for a short while then forget all about her as that will hurt her. God bless and best wishes.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
1 Jan 12
This is very touchy. You give my tears reason to fall on this new year :( I wish you and your daughter all the best and happiness in this life. May you find joy and peace and your daughter as well. Happy New Year
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@huqh123 (182)
• China
2 Jan 12
it is very touchy and i am moved by your lovely baby. it is happy to hear this. i think your baby is a bond for you and your husband. baby can bring your all happiness for you and your family. Forget the past and try to live a happy life with you husband. you can do it better. Family is much more for all o fus. Baby need you and baby need father beside her......... good luck for you
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