A moment worth commemorating for!
By sheenmadness
@sheenmadness (1286)
Philippines
January 2, 2012 1:36am CST
My husband and I had been married for nine years exactly tomorrow (Jan. 3, 2012.) And I am glad to say that I still got the same feeling I had for him nine years ago( i am hoping he feels the same way too ^_^) and I believe he is too because he make sure I can feel it. And I do feel it. I am a product of a broken family that's why it has been my greatest dream to spend my lifetime to the man I really loved. I am very thankful for this very wonderful gift I had. What have I done right to deserve such wonderful blessing :)). I feel great that I wanted to share this thing here at mylot. Though I know not all can relate to me. But I'm glad i find the venue to express my feelings.
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13 responses
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
4 Jan 12
I want to appreciate you for that things in your life, my friend. Even do your a product of broken family you did not follow what happen to you. My partner follows what happen to their family and now we ended because of her materialistic behavior and never consider family is important but being selfish...even do I do everything to save the relationship. My partner still do anything to cheat me and always looking back the pass...
I want to share with you this
http://expertscolumn.com/content/remember-god-hate-divorce
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@sheenmadness (1286)
• Philippines
9 Jan 12
Im so sorry to hear that aerous, in life sometimes things are inevitable to happen. No matter how much effort we put into, how hard we try to work things out but it seems like it's still not enough. It's really hard for a marriage to work out when one of the partners doesn't give value and appreciate the partners contribution for the relationship. And it's sad when it ended up on divorce or separation. That's why in a relationship it is really important to put God as the center of everything for that way we will never lose our way. We are always on the right track. Thanks for sharing the article with me aerous, I appreciate it so much. ^_^
@sheenmadness (1286)
• Philippines
2 Jan 12
HEehehehhe... thanks boyuancy. "You saying that you have the same feeling as you did 9 years ago, was the best part". you really think so? What makes you think that it was the best part? But really, thank you for the greetings I really appreciate it a lot!
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
2 Jan 12
nine years is a great number, a lot of couples don't last that long these days so keep doing what you are doing, obviously you are doing something right..
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@sheenmadness (1286)
• Philippines
2 Jan 12
Thank you dear. :)) I really wish I can keep it up. Even if it means I needed to put extra effort, a lot more patience, love and understanding to keep the ball rolling I'm willing to do it. I know it is not hard to do so because I am doing it for the love of my life. The obvious reason why my life feels so great right now. There's nothing more to ask for. I have more than enough.
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
2 Jan 12
Hello... Congratulations on your anniversary tomorrow... It is really amazing that the strength of the bonds of love between you and your husband has not lessened... You both very lucky to have found each other... Life full of such love is wonderful....
Have a great time!
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@sheenmadness (1286)
• Philippines
2 Jan 12
Thank you mr_pearl. I feel very lucky indeed to have found someone like him. I used to even describe him as my heavensent. I don't know, but I had that feeling of completeness before. I feel secure everytime he is around. The feeling that you are untouchable. LOL! (i know it sounded corny) but that was my feeling though. Even during our wedding day as I walked down the aisle I felt the serenity like it was only the two of us in the church and nobody's there and I saw him at the altar waiting for me. Ready to exchanged vows! Everytime I remember those days it never fails to amuse me.
@hgwyneth (120)
• Philippines
2 Jan 12
Congratulations for a wonderful marriage life. It only means both of you know the "give and take" relationship. I am pretty sure yours is just one of the few couples who are able to maintain that ignite. I am looking forward for more years of your successful relationship. I hope I and my husband will have the same. That wonderful relationship will produce wonderful kids too! Again Congratulations!
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@sheenmadness (1286)
• Philippines
2 Jan 12
Thanks hgwyneth. In a relationship they say, it takes two to tango. That's why an open communication line plays an important role in a relationship. "Give and Take Relationship" between couples really helps a lot to maintain a harmonious relationship between the two of you. LOL! you guessed it right actually we are expecting another addition to the family by next mo. ^_^
I am wishing you the same with your husband. Goodluck to both of you!
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
5 Jan 12
You have been with your husband for nine years?? Wow, congratulations to both of you! You might feel strange with the wow! but it is truly hard to see marriage which can last for more than 5 years now. Every young people who get married later they will live separate just in a few years. This will make me as a single person feel a bit paranoid to get married as well. But to see that there are some relationship work out I think marriage is not bad at all. The bad one is when we are involve in a relationship but refused to take the responsibility and can't give commitment to it.(^^)
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
2 Jan 12
Wow! i am happy for you and your family... you are lucky to be feeling the same thing with your husband as you have years before. =) I know that I too was in the same love (or so i thought) but then it was tested... I believe i am able to overcome it though now and i still feel the same love for my partner.. i hope our love is the same as what you and your husband have... That it would be like what it was... never to be borken by anyone... :D best of luck and happiness to you!
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@churchill1980 (764)
• Philippines
13 Jan 12
i am so happy for you! it is so inspiring to hear stories that talks about the goodness and happiness of life. nine years is really something to celebrate. i got married two years ago, and i am so happy that like you, i feel the love that i am looking for in a relationship. it's so fulfilling and really worth celebrating. we are far from nine years, but i continue to pray that when we reach the 9th, we will still be as happy and in love as you are
. cheers for that!
. cheers for that!
@incredibleDNA (1742)
• Philippines
2 Jan 12
wow, that's so sweet! congrats to both of you. i hope can feel that as well.... tho i have been with the same guy for 12 years, sad to say but we are not yet married. there are some issues still
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@sabado_dc (1001)
• Philippines
2 Jan 12
Well, God is great. Congratulations!
My parents has reached their 30 years of wedding anniversary already and I have never witnessed them fight because of the same reason.
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@DayTimeDreamer (36)
• United States
2 Jan 12
Congratulations, you are in the minority of those who have happy fulfilling marriages. I wish you the best and hope you two can grow old together. Few people take marriage serious nowaday and I'm glad to see a couple that have made it to the nineth year mark.
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