Do you agree if Girl don't need flower anymore?

it's really sweet for a man to think about giving flowers. But I still would rather have chocolates or being taken somewhere to eat or have an adventure. We never needed flowers from the beginning.

i always believe this proverb had ambigous.. in one side, the meaning flower is real flower.. but in one side, the meaning flower can be defined as something that similar function with the flower.. for the second opinion, the term "something" can be defined as something that can make happy the girl..and the something for every girl of course is different..and it`s okay

I think the people that say;'say it with flowers' is the people who are selling flowers. Personally i dont like getting flowers. The are like a waste of money. All they do is die ina couple of days. A plant would be more appropate. They would live longer. I would rather recieve something that last a long time. Anyway thats just my opinion.

I don't like flowers because it's sad that they are picked just so they can die in my house. I would rather get a live plant. As far as a dinner and shopping. That's not really my style either. I don't really like eating in restaurants. I would rather be cooked for or get to cook together. And I can shop for myself. I don't want food or things. I would rather have fun. I would like a date going hiking, playing laser tag, going to a concert, etc. My value is on experience. If I can't have fun with a guy, then I don't want to spend my time with him. I get bored rather easily. I mean, I like staying home too, but I like to switch it up. If someone is not creative with their dates, then I will quickly lose interest.

My response was, probably like crap, but I feel, and experience all of this. If I was still unmarried, and establishing relationships with men. I do not want him to give anything. What I want to ask of a man, is proof that he really loved me, and will not change after getting married later. Roses, or any other things, just something to be discarded. Man's love after marriage, it could change at any time.

When i was still single, i like receiving flowers, specially when my office mates can see them being delivered to me. Their eyes are filled with envy! When my husband and i are in our earlier years as married couples, he would usually give me flowers for Valentine's Day in addition to us going out for dinner. . But as the years passed by, i told me not to send me flowers anymore so he can save it for a more fabulous dinner for us. My boss also used to give me a bouquet of roses on my birthday, but lately i told her not to anymore. Instead , i just want her to treat us (4 other staff) to a dinner. And that's what she did on my last birthday. I guess, as we grow older , we become practical.

There has always been girls that only date better of men.If they had a nice car and plenty of money to spend on them.I feel sorry for men like that as they are being used some don't mind.If you are seriously looking for love then money does not matter .I know this is an old post but I was looking through and liked the look of it.I always say love comes from the heart not the wallet.xx

Every girl is attracted to beautiful stuffs, material things, wonderful environment, as long as it look sweet. In my part, I am simply living with my boyfriend, we shared lots of memories together and doing more until eternity. I like presents, but what I appreciate more are flowers. It is pure and I feel good with it, the blossoms, the color, the scent, it's everything to me. ^_^

THere is nothing sweeter when you receive a flower from a guy you love. But I do think if you love someone, there is nothing if you receive something or not. As you said, we shouldn't be so materialistic. We can just understand whether the guy can afford to buy a flower or treat you out for dinner. It won't depend on what a man can give to ladies... it's what they feel for each other, i think.

I agree with your word that girl don't need flower anymore. They need the real not just dream. In my opinion, if a girl also consider about the money had by those man, it is only directly mean that they are materialistic but they are realistic. Life is not need love but also need money to fulfill the daily need. But I don't agree that love is the only thing needed in life, or money is the only needed in live. Life is so complex, so it can't be fulfilled with single thing

My opinion is that flowers, dolls, and any other thing have different meanings depending on which person gives you that item. For example if a boy gifts a doll to his girlfriend it will have a really big importance to her, not for the doll itself but because it's something related to "him", that means you could instead gift her a hand written letter and it will have the same value as a doll to her for the simple reason it's still something related to "him", perhaps more than a bought doll. I think materialism doesn't really exist in love, you can be materialist, I am a bit after all, but if you really love a girl, anything related to her has the exact "huge" importance no matter what the item is. Of course if you have many items from the same girl (or boy) you love, the favorite one will be the one which holds the most beautiful memory you have with her/him, so if you have both a doll and a hand-written letter both could be worth more than the other because of its "memorial value", while for an external person the doll would be worth more because it has a "monetarial value" or because he likes dolls without considering the hand written letter which has ONLY memorial value which doesn't belong to him/her. The example above answers to pretty much why most girls "fall in love" (fake love I'd add) with boys which buy them dinner/dolls or rely only on "how much money you spend for them", they use them.

Yeah well ... love is not only expressed in flowers, she is also entitled to more than flowers. For example, although the dolls or other small gift each day is different but if it is the most beautiful thing that is owned by a woman.

Well, I'm not a materialistic girl too, but of course woman appreciate if a man buy something for their woman. Even just a simple thing. But of course if he can't afford to buy those things I guess it doesn't matter. The important things is "LOVE". :)

well, it isn't materialistic one . Being materialistic is different from being a money oriented. Money oriented means we are be able to pay , but it is a real man's role to be able the one who could release a woman from financial things . So the woman could feel more secure and could love & serve him totally without worrying anything that isn't her role duty. And remember, women always love being surprised by their men. A real man knows how to treat a real woman, not just dought but a show. :) And that woman will give him the world :)

I Never want Any flowers from my guy. Why? I have seen too many movies / t.v. shows where a guy does a bad thing anf instead of confessing what he did, he brings flowers to his lady love. I see flowers as a coverup. I wouldn't be happy , I would be suspicious! So I told my guy No Flowers!

when i was still courting my wife she was very clear she is not for flowers... she has asthma and the smell or scent of flowers triggers the attack. but because i wanted to give her flowers so i bought something in a box and she loved it. my wife is a very independent woman so she buys what she wants and sometimes she is the one who asked for a date and insisted to pay for the tab. i guess different people different traits.

Well it actually varies. Some would prefer something more than flowers while others would be happy with just flowers. Now those who don't prefer flowers are not necessarily materialistic, although there may be those who could really be. I believe some of them are just more practical. In the first place flowers wither and when they do they just have to be thrown away (although there are creative and romantic ones who would keep and preserve even the dried petals). Well if you love doll or anything long-lasting more than flower I believe you are a practical woman. Now those who love flowers are more sentimental I believe. As for me I love flowers that is the reason why I have garden at home and I also do get thrilled if I receive flowers from my husband but as the flower withers I throw them away and don't preserve then anymore. Nevertheless even if the flowers that my hubby gave me withered already, the sweet thought remains in my heart. It is not actually the flowers but the sweet thought that goes with it that I value more. Now if my husband would give me something else like a dress or a shoe instead of flowers then it is still alright with me. What really matters to me is the thought not the gift. For as long as he is giving me either a flower or another thing out of love and not because he is only obliged then I am happy. As I said, to me it is thought that matters most.

hey Its roses all the way for girls, they just love to be among flowers and they are their best friend. If you could say with rose then its all over there, girls and roses, they want some love some care and thats it, you could get all you need.

Small small things make a girl happy. Now this is the case when the girl is truly in love with you and not after your money. She doesn't want pricey gifts or big surprises... all she wants is that she gets small small things from her loved one that will make her happy. Flowers are one such thing that no girl will reject and each and every girl loves flowers. There might be some exceptions but in the end girls love small things that will make them happy.. Unless she doesn't love you and is with you for your money...

With the modernization of the dating scene nowadays women rarely receive romance from a man anymore and that's what they're looking for. Nothing is much sweeter than a man giving a bouquet of flowers or even a single rose to a woman. It's the best opener for a date in my honest opinion so the my answer is a definite "No, I don't agree that girl's doesn't need flowers anymore."