Parents as real friends...

Philippines
January 3, 2012 9:04am CST
I think I'm a little anti-social. I am not fond talking to many people and I usually prefer to stay at do writing jobs. My real friends are my family. To be more exact, I believe it is my mom who understands me more than anyone else. How about you? Do you consider your parents as your friends?
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@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
3 Jan 12
I consider my parents as my parents. I have never really seen them as friends, I have my friends for that. I guess I just couldn't see myself doing the things I do with my friends, with my parents.
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• Philippines
4 Jan 12
Hi Choybel. You seem to have a lot of respect towards your parents. Do you talk openly to them? I do with my mother. She knows it when I have problems. Maybe you spend more time with your friends rather that with your parents home. Just an assumption. Thanks for commenting here.
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@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
4 Jan 12
In our country this kind of relationship is more common. true I was not that open to my parents and I spent more time with my friends as an adolescent than with my parents. I was, after all sent to an all-boys boarding school. I do however like the idea of being friends with my children, if I ever get to have them.
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• Philippines
5 Jan 12
That's a good change. And I think it would be more fulfilling if you would be friends with your children in the future. Good luck choybel!
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4 Jan 12
my parents are too friendly with me and i thank god that they have given me such a good parents in my life. when i was child my school teacher gave me lot of home work and i came crying to the home my mom asked, "y are u crying"? then i told that "teacher gave me lot of home work". my mom told "there is nothing to worry about i will help you in completing your home work" and there was a sudden smile in my face and i stopped crying. now i am 20 if i have a stress then talk with my mom or dad. My dad has been always friendly with me. They both are gods gift to me..:)
• Philippines
4 Jan 12
You are lucky to have good parents. Show your love and appreciation to them every time you have the opportunity to do so. For me, I show my appreciation towards my parents by helping them with the households or cooking for them.
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8 Jan 12
thanx snowhybiscuis.....yup i help mom in household activity and dad in their office work when there is loads of work... happy mylotting...!!!!!!
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
3 Jan 12
Yes I also think such parents are real friend we should not hide anything from our parents. Your parents can understand your feelings.
• Philippines
4 Jan 12
Hi surekharathi. You are right. My mother seems to have a radar when I feel low and she has a way of telling me when I need to know something that other members of our family cannot tell me. Thanks for commenting.
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
3 Jan 12
to you are very right. I think it all depends on ourselves and our parents as they educate us. Yet it is very nice when you can count on your family in any situation you can have them as friends rather than parents. What good it it. I am friends with my mother and we both quite often share their problems and to give advice. because as you say one parent in the first place we is the best friend and he will never mislead us and will never lie to us. interesting discussion. nice day!
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• Philippines
4 Jan 12
Thanks for the compliment nezavisima. I owe my mother a lot. She is a friend and she's very caring towards me. That's why I never worry that I would not find someone to understand me. Because she's always present to listen to me. My father is also a friend in a different way. He seems to be the protective type. He doesn't want me to fail and be hurt. Best regards to you.
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@mohkanari (1957)
• India
3 Jan 12
Don't think you are antisocial. It is your nature of approach to others. Admiration and respect to mother is a great matter. Happenings in life would bring a few friends to you, outside from your family, whom you would give considerations as family members.
• Philippines
4 Jan 12
Hi mohkanari. You've said nice words. I hope that I'll be more sociable than what I am like now. But I would not be comfortable forcing myself to become one. Thanks for the good remarks. Have a great day!!!
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• Philippines
6 Jan 12
Yes dear.. I really agree with that. My mom also tells me about certain things that really make me enjoy and more comfortable. Our family is the most important part of our lives. We should thank them and appreciate them in everything. The world maybe so deceitful but our family will remain true to us till the end.
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• Philippines
6 Jan 12
I agree with what you said myjesza. I have the same feelings and sentiments concerning my family. I hope I can express it well and let them feel how much I appreciate them. Thanks for commenting.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
11 Jan 12
I was fortunately enough to have parents who loved me. I always had an open relationship with them, but when I grew up we were more like friends because they didn't have to "train" me anymore. My mom, especially, felt free to ask my advice on things, too, especially in her last years. She was about the only one I found time to go to lunch with. Now that we have neither parent left, my brother and I work on keeping our own bond strong -- even if we can't physically see each other more than about once a year. I realize some people weren't fortunate enough to have good parents. Some had abusive parents or selfish parents and so the friendship bond I had with my parents never developed for them. I feel sad for them, and thank God for the parents he gave me.
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
Hi bagarad. Now I know why you're such an industrious and kind person. Thanks God they've succeeded in bringing a good person to this world. Have a nice day!!!
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
12 Jan 12
My parent were wonderful and loving people with great family values.
@areskya (398)
• Indonesia
3 Jan 12
I do the same thing as you,my mother is my best friend too. I feel free and comfort to share whatever I feel to her without any feeling to be cheated or used. She know how to give me wise advise and broad knowledge about anything in this world that I know nothing about them. This friendship is so great
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• Philippines
4 Jan 12
Hi areskya. I'm glad that you too are close with your mother. There are a lot of parents nowadays who realized that being friends with their children can be the best way to guide them. The problem would be if there are generation gap between the parents and the children. Have a great day!!!
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