Your my Best friend ..

@emdjay23 (1575)
Philippines
January 3, 2012 2:20pm CST
Hi guys.. Do you ever experience falling in love with your best friend. If so, does it make any difference when you were still just friends? Do you think it would be better to fall in love with someone who turned out to be your best friend.. or you will just stick with someone other than them?
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befrindwithme26
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
3 Jan 12
Well, i think there is a change and shyness if you are in love to the best friends.Something will make you change and also to the girl.. i do not know i think this is hard for me to do.
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Emdjay
@emdjay23 (1575)
• Philippines
4 Jan 12
I understand.. maybe friendship and love doesn't go along well for you.. maybe if you'll experience falling in love with your best friend things will change..:)
celticeagle
@celticeagle (166911)
• Boise, Idaho
4 Jan 12
I think that it is very important to be best friends with the one you love. Feeling comfortable and loving toward that special someone. Very important in the sceme of a perfect relationship.
Emdjay
@emdjay23 (1575)
• Philippines
5 Jan 12
That's true me and my hubby are best friends from the start and until now that relationship became more stronger..:)
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celticeagle
@celticeagle (166911)
• Boise, Idaho
7 Jan 12
That is a good basis.
enelym001
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
13 Jan 12
Hi emdjay, Nope I have never fall in love with my bestfriend or any friend. I treat them as friends only whom I care for and love but not romantically. Personally, I see nothing wrong if I fell in love with a best friend. Our hearts cannot choose which ones to fall in love with. If it chooses to love our best friend or other people, we just have to let our heart decide who to love.
Emdjay
@emdjay23 (1575)
• Philippines
13 Jan 12
That is true.. I have chosen to love my best friend more.. that's why now, were happy because were partners and were best friend.. I think there is also a down side in every relationship
HONEYPALS
@HONEYPALS (270)
• Nairobi, Kenya
4 Jan 12
That's how life is...first acquintancies...then friends...then dating....then proposals...then....then...better halveeesssss
Emdjay
@emdjay23 (1575)
• Philippines
4 Jan 12
absolutely true.. I believe that if a certain couple knows each other and they are friends before marriage.. Life would not be that hard..
yongwyu
@yongwyu (42)
• China
4 Jan 12
I also got married by my best friend. Something changed. Before that, she always told me her little secret and what she was thinking. But after marriage, we are talking about daily stuff, except for several quarrels.
Emdjay
@emdjay23 (1575)
• Philippines
4 Jan 12
Wow.. that's a different story.. aren't you two became that close because after all the friendship before the marriage? Maybe, its juts miscommunication..
vinothnypd
@vinothnypd (53)
•
5 Jan 12
Its nothing wrong to fall in love with your best friend, coz he/she is the one who completely knows abt yu than yu know... Yes I have a experience of having the love with my best friend and now she is is my love.....
Emdjay
@emdjay23 (1575)
• Philippines
5 Jan 12
that's nice to hear.. at least you have the love of your life and at the same time a best friend..
lilaclady
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
3 Jan 12
It can happen but it can ruin a good friendship, once the line has been crossed it changes things so I think sometimes it is better to just keep a good friend.
Emdjay
@emdjay23 (1575)
• Philippines
3 Jan 12
Oh i see.. I respect that you prefer to be just friends.. Well as for me.. Its okay but it depends upon your best friend, maybe s/he won't allow it to happen.
seemared
@seemared (771)
•
4 Jan 12
It can ruin the friendship..I guess.. I have one of my husbands close friends who loves me on bed..he quite likes me a lot and admitted to mu husband about it and quite comes in and visits me..At times I am left alone at home while my husband goes out for business trips, he allows me to stay along with this friend of his..he quite a good hot shot and love his company on bed..quite good and feel happy for having him in the mean time.. this relationship never ruined their friend ship..they are still friends..
Emdjay
@emdjay23 (1575)
• Philippines
5 Jan 12
Wow, very brave for you to say that.. well I guess everything has its own perks and benefits it only depends on how..:)