Seeking Company in Lonliness

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Some people by nature are social. Some are scared to be alone. They get terrified when they are alone. That too when one loses a partner either for death or for the separation, it is a terrible heart aching. Very hard to bear. That too if a thought such as he has to face his entire life alone, then it is very much shocking. It is good at least to pour out here in MyLot. Then one can discover how many feel and share the tears. A word comprehension or understanding is so much soothing. One thing we have to consider that the fresh wound is very much painful. It that has to get infection and form the puss, worse still. It needs medication. The process of medication is not easy. So too those who are afflicted shall be comforted. Some say that the One who created you, will not save you without you. Man cannot lose himselp for the tragedy he meets. The tragedy can be a stepping stone to success. Therefore one has to prepare his mind and psyche to rise above all the afflictions. One has to make up his mind. The very important thing is we must be open and seek for some genuine friends. It is not easy to find friendship that is genuine and sincere. One can pray for this gift to God. Some times just expose yourself to the Mother Nature. Sitting alone and enjoying the cool breeze is so much consoling. Sometimes feel your heart and feel your mind with serenity and concentrate on bright and soothing light. Visualize the light shining on your forehead without hurting you. Sometimes you can expose your face to the bright sun without opening and hurting your eyes. Just breathe slowly and rhythmically. If your emotions come to the surface, let them flow. If you want to cry, cry and continue to cry. God watches over you. Yes even imagine vividly those moments hurt you deeply. Tell and narrate it to God who is the Father of all. Speak completely and pour out all your feelings. Invite God to be with you. Be serene. Do not dramatize your actions even though you may cry and pour out your feelings. You may feel so much heavy in your heart. Listen to the gentle breeze. Listen to the echo of the traffic sound. You may feel the triggering experience in your heart and brain. Look at your God with peace and deep insistence.Do not be in a hurry. Let the time passby. A prolonged meditation will do only good to you. As the time passes, as the sun shines upon you, you may feel a soothing calm. Take refuge in the Lord. Repeat often peace joy security. As the time passes by you beging to feel that peace which no one can give you by thewir effort. Let us remember that after the storm comes the calm. Eventually you may feel consoled and feel your heart light. God may surely indicate a faithful company to you. You too by your goodwill try to meet people and God may grant you the grace to find a nice friend and lasting friendship.