Love, No more!
By Annrose21
@Annrose21 (161)
January 3, 2012 11:35pm CST
My boyfriend and I were together since we were in high school. I was so in love with him back then. Now that we finished our studies, we were still together, but I knew something has changed. I was never excited to see him everyday. I ignore the surprises he made and the efforts no longer have value for me. I don't understand why am I acting likes this. I never have feeling for another person, no other 3rd parties or whatsoever. He had not committed any mistake for me to felt this way. I even considered breaking up with him to set him free and give time to weigh the situation. All these years, I can see that he was still giving his full potential to please me. That was the reason why I was still holding this relationship for him. Can you give me some advice? I am so confused.
1 response
@zaaaan (26)
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4 Jan 12
mmm...think you have done right.coz i think you had got bored with that relation..so better you opted to quit,thats good ,for you and him both.
now you should make the guy understand that you dont have intrest in these things now.and i think that was not your love ,twaz just attraction..
@Annrose21 (161)
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5 Jan 12
Is it possible to only have attraction or infatuation rather than love even you have been together for a long time? You know, I've been thinking about that breakup for a long time, but when I attempted, he shows more effort just to make me stay. Well, thank you for that advice like making him understand, I'll have to talk to him and make sure he gets my point.