Kiss before you say Goodbye (ouch)

We are humans and we love to have love with each other. Sharing love or giving love is a symbol of Kiss. I think that Kisses make our relations true and quite long We people used to kiss the ones who are very close and who are more attached to us. Kisses decreases the distant between each other, which makes relations stronger. So keep love all the ones you love

I remember one goodbye kiss I had with my ex.... just a flash back. He broke with me because he's asking me to marry him secretly and I don't go his way. He said, he had a judge godfather and he will help us... I said no! We're just 3 months being on and he wanted us to get married that fast... the nerve! I think he just want a permit to go all the way hahaha! Of course I won't allow it. He's a co-employee then. That night, after my shift at 10pm he drove me nowhere in Tagaytay. We worked then half hour from Tagaytay. The broke-up happened just inside the car. Then, he make me home safe in my parents homeplace in Makati. It's 3am I remember, before I went off in his car, we kiss lightly as goodbye! I'm not that in-loved to him yet but I like him very much and I have my values to think of. And I think he will not be a good husband to me just in case because he's so much a night guy. We always had a late night date in a bar which I don't like much. I hate the smoke hanging around the bar. And he drive though he's drunk... I don't like that! I still remember the kiss untill now, it's full of heartaches! I like him very much but I don't want to give myself to him because I'm not sure that he will be a good husband to me knowing his some attitudes loving the bar. hahaha... I still remember the guy... Joel Z.

hi jai, uuuhmmm....I don't kiss goodbye but I can kiss someone for a long time I hate goodbye but I love kissing missyah

Hi jai I never kiss someone goodbye, it will only add up to the hurt I will feel. If I need to say goodbye to special someone, I would just leave. I won't ever have the guts to kiss him goodbye as it will only make me want to stay and not let him go.

....ouch! this will get to be the saddest part of someone else's life, ever!

Yeah, it's hard, especially you know that kiss will be the last kiss to him/her . When my girlfriend broke up with me, I kissed her for the very last time, just to make her feel that even though she ended up our relationship, I'll be always here to love her. :(

Dear sister, My kids do it when they go to school and the elder one is very particular, if he forgets (when getting late) then he may comes back for sure. For your question, 'Does a kiss is enough to make someone stay?' I am really confused... and it may be depends on the situation only. Have a great time to you my sister.

Seems a weird thing to say goodbye with a kiss?

Hi di A belated Healthy and Happy New Year Wish from me. no one ever says goodbye to me. so no kissing. and when I say Goodbye... I dont feel like kissing.

Goodbye kiss? A kiss for someone before he/she leaving you and then he/she will never come back?? HUh, I think I won't leave a kiss for him. It will only make him to stay and not leaving. But when it is time to go just go. A kiss does not important anymore~ Giving a kiss to someone you love but then he will going to leave you, I think I will feel more hurt. So just walk away~(^^)

I don't think that a kiss would make a difference if someone wanted to leave permanently. I also think a kiss could sometimes complicate things. But if you love someone, you would not want to leave, you would always want to kiss them. Now if you ere kissing your partner when going to work, that's different, because you will be able to kiss your partner when you get home.

I'm not familiar with goodbye kiss, but surely, when I have to go far in long time and get one from my mothers, it feels so deep and make me want to cry, especially with the fact that I and my mother never had good communication and rarely speak each other....

I always don't kiss my husband when he is leaving for abroad. I just always drop him by the airport and go out as fast as i can and so as he. We both know that he will go back after a year but still it hurts.How much more if you know that the person is not coming back.Ouch. That really hurts and i am not so brave to do that.

a kiss is like a "eloquent silence" we make so that in that silence we pray with our full fledge of heart, for our loved ones

I used to kiss my parents good bye still do, as well as my grandparents. I kiss my boyfriend good bye when we leave each other. But when it comes to breaking up with someone. I don't think I kissed a guy goodbye after a break up it would be too hard for me.

Good day jaiho2009, Giving a kiss goodbye is a way that people show their love. It isn't a goodbye forever, just a goodbye for now, when we kiss our kids or spouse. What you are talking about when saying you kiss your spouse goodbye, you are talking about forever, correct? Of course when you are saying goodbye to your spouse forever it isn't going to be a good thing so you wouldn't kiss them goodbye. Usually when there is a break up it is in anger and who wishes the other luck when you are angry or hurt by the other by their wanting to leave you. I think that would be a pretty hard thing to do for anyone. I was married for 8 years and my husband was unfaithful many times so when we split there was no way I would kiss him goodbye and wish him luck. Then recently I broke up with my second husband after 13 years of marriage and I left because he bankrupted us with his gambling and so I was angry and no way would I kiss him goodbye and wish him luck either. So this, to me, is weird that a person would kiss their ex goodbye. Cheers and happy mylotting my friend Talk to you soon, Chris

Hi jaiho: I think that you can say too many things with just a look or a kiss so I think that kissing someone is a lovely way to say goodbye and expressing this person how much you are going to miss him/ her. So even if it could hurt I would kiss a person as a way to express my love and appreciation when we won't see each other for a while. ALVARO

Thank you so much for sharing about your tradition of kissing, in my family, it is either 'touching feet' if older than you, or 'namastey' with folded hands.. No handshake, no kisses!! Kiss might be enough for some one to stay, though i am not sure.. Hugs from Papa

I don't even remember when I did the last. Yes, yesterday nigh also. My daughter, she got this funny nature to say that 'keep safe distnce' to her brother (my eldor son) and my wife and myself (her mom & papa) are welcome for it. However, when she goes to school I never get it because, I would be sleeping. But getting a kiss from my daughter is all depend on her mood. If she want get done some work/job from me (mostly signing the progress report, getting some sweets etc) she is so lovable and will give as much of kisses but her work should get done. So, this is what I get regularly and the rest all are in dreams. Thank-s

I think it's fine to kiss a loved one goodbye (kids, relatives, etc.) - but it's so sad when you kiss a significant other goodbye...forever :(