angry and happy in the same time

@areskya (398)
Indonesia
January 4, 2012 10:18am CST
I feel something wrong with my heart, especially it is related with a guy. Sometimes feel so fun and enjoy my time to be with him, either talk or just eat. But I'm more often feel so angry or uncomfort if he talks with a girl or he ignore me. I could angry and happy in the same time cos of him. I can't control my heart and mind to respond this condition. What happen with me? What should I do?
4 responses
• Philippines
5 Jan 12
You fell in love with the guy my friend or having mutual feelings towards him. That is normal. But keeping yourself inside that you are angry and happy at the same time, not healthy anymore. You need to control yourself, if you are angry then you have to go to your workout place and let go the anger within you. If you want to know how to make your mind clear then don't think of him all the time. Focus on what will be your tasks for today and tomorrow. But if you want to take away that condition of yours, then tell him honestly what you feel.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
6 Jan 12
areskya, so do you like the man, but the man did not know that you like him??
@areskya (398)
• Indonesia
6 Jan 12
I don't know whether he know it or not. I just can't understand yet about why man like to make new friend with a girl, like to chat with her although there are other man over there, like to laugh or even hang out with girl. Is a man don't enjoy spending time with man too? I really don't understand it since I like to do it with a girl.
@areskya (398)
• Indonesia
5 Jan 12
Thanks Flashpointer you are so wise. I think I'll choose the first option. I can't tell him anything, this feeling makes me so stressed and my inability to talk to him is worse.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
4 Jan 12
love is something (based on the movies that i ever watched) sometimes can make you happy and sometimes can make you cry with love , your life become colourful but with love, you know the meaning of jealous, the meaning of hurt wow..are you married person??
@areskya (398)
• Indonesia
5 Jan 12
Yes, I think I'm playing my movie life now. hahahaha. Yeah love is something that could make me loosing my logic. I single, adhyz. Do you think that this feeling is only happened for those married person? Is it?
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
6 Jan 12
oh so iam wrong again..i think you had been married..so ??
@areskya (398)
• Indonesia
6 Jan 12
Why do you think so? Is there any characteristics of married woman on me? What's that? I never say I'm a wife.
@edsss17 (4394)
• Philippines
4 Jan 12
I guess that always happens to many girls (including me) who has a crush or falling in love. Just relax, be yourself and if you both really are destined to each other then you'll both end up with each other in some ways! :)
@areskya (398)
• Indonesia
5 Jan 12
Thanks, girls. that what I did now, keep staying beside him and see what happen next. I'm trying to enjoy my life with another activity although I can't stop thinking of it.
• Philippines
4 Jan 12
I totally agree with you . :) Just listen what to edsss17 said, and you will be just fine :)
• Philippines
4 Jan 12
to get rid of that agony my friend, why don't you tell directly to the guy that "I hate when you talk to some girls , cuz I'm really jealous about it" Just be honest with him and feel free to be open, let him know what you truly feel, and I bet in the end of the day, if that guy loves you, he will understand you and make some adjustments :)
@areskya (398)
• Indonesia
5 Jan 12
Thanks,charlotay. It sounds great solution to do but I really intend that he'll know it by himself without my saying cos he's so silent and don't think that what did he do is big thing to talk.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
5 Jan 12
So if your guy is a silent one, it's most likely that he will never ever notice your liking for him. This is already the modern times my friend. Maybe you can send him a text message that you like him and you feel jealous if he talks with other girls. Just like what carlotay say, if that guy also loves you , he will reciprocate upon knowing that you like him.
@areskya (398)
• Indonesia
5 Jan 12
Yeah, it would be great to do but I feel so sad and angry till I can't say anything to him. I just want to go far away from him. I hate this feeling so much. It hurt me.