when your lover left you and without strong reason

There is always a deep reason for someone to leave you especially when dealing with long time relationships! It is not just because you have change or maybe he or she is otherwise! Some factors might be involve that you both need to know and clarify because it is easier for you both to move on if you will apprehend and understand the situation!Some couples reconcile after discussing and debating their relationship problems. And if it does not work out right then...set him/her free, and if he/she comes back, he/she was meant to be!

first it's really good if you can clarify things before you part ways. that way you will have a clear ending. don't be afraid about confrontations or conversations, IN A RELATIONSHIP you need to have an open communication, you have to express what you feel and be honest with each other, let him/her talk, don't interrupt, listen to what she says, try to understand her, after that say your piece, remember that the relationship is more important than pride. if you still love her/him try to everything to win him/her back. if she/he doesnt want you back be ready to move on, find someone who knows what you are worth.

I'll send him a letter, which contains my feelings, after he left me. Whatever happens after that, I would not care. If it should end, I will not hold. Being like that, would be better for me. Rather than have to ask for an explanation, and argument.

My friend , it's better to clarify the issue than just leave it as it is and follow what he /she wants - not to meet each other anymore. Even if it takes the both of you to fight for it, it has to be clarified and it's what's best. At least, through confrontation, you will know where you fail and probably work to correct it so you can get back together.

I only wish my wife would have said something before she left. It did not work out that way for me. Was I confused? Yes I was and I still am. There was never a final end to anything.

Its always hard when someone you love just randomly up and leaves you, but sometimes its for the best. Maybe they left because you no longer had common goals, they may have seen you don't have anything in common anymore, they have different desires and the list can go on. All you can really do is analyze yourself and make yourself a better person out of the experience. Many times you find someome ten times better than your former flame.

I think that when someone wants to leave that it is best to just let them go. They don't always have a strong reason and they don't have to. If they are no longer in love for whatever reason then that alone is a good enough reason. Sometimes people just drift apart. It doesn't mean that the other person is bad or did anything wrong. It only means that the two of them just don't feel the same as they once did.

hi, of course if there will be no enough reason i will surely feel great anger to that person because he will leave me for no valid reason.and i will never wanted to see him again if he still leave me.

Left us without any strong reason is the thing that i don't think so, there are always a reason to everything. We sometimes know the reason behind it after months of analyzing the whole situation, approximately 6 months. What i did before is to remain calm (although its very hard) but to stay at a calm place for a while, a place without any disturbance, without people around, no distractions, you may drink cola if necessary, and start analyze the whole situation, it preferable to lay down in bed, and the more you do it, the more pain you'll only remembers but the effect of it until you are not aware soon that you are now fully recovered. once you are in the situation that you are starting to recovery, you now starting to know the initial reasons why that separation happens. and for a speedy recovery, i do make myself as busy as i can, and internet online money making is one of the time consuming that i do to recover more fast, but it depends upon every individual as per every person is unique. They have different forms of recovery or to make themselves busy.

My friend experience just like you and in his case, his girlfriend is actually found someone else, so she tried to find a reason to leave my friend. It's sad really but i think it's better for him because at least she leave him first before she was dating the other guy. So if you don't know what your fault, maybe because it's not your fault. Maybe your gf meet other guy and like him better than you.

It is complicated situation. For the first, it is better to calm down your feeling so you can think clearer. then, trying to look for any information about her activity in these several last days to see what thing had influenced her to do so. if you have find the reason, you can see her in the right time and try to talk with her in calmest way heart to heart.

Well one of them ( the one that leaving ) is a looser ( in my case ). It must be something that he/she is hiding ( in this case it could be the third person, bored or something like that ). If I were she/him, I would not make it more cruel, just leave. Relationships are like glass, sometime it is better to let them broke than hurting your hands putting them together. Right ? My sky is still the same without my ex-, live life easily :DDD

If he/she does not like to listen to you then ask him/her to talk and tell everything that he/she was bearing inside. Maybe the problem was not really about you and maybe he/she was into confusion or difficult situation. Just be ready to embrace some statements that might hurt your ego! In a relationship you must have to lower down your pride sometimes to keep each other holding on! If he/she insist to go without saying anything, then you must have to let him/her go! Give him/her a place to comprehend and a time ease! The important thing is that you have shown him/her how much you love and care about him/her before he/she leaves. IF he/she comes back, then he/she was really meant for you, But if he/she does not, just go on with your life, you are especial and there are so many fishes in the ocean!

no i will make another girl friend.....and make her jealous....

When someone that we love turn back and leave us.I believe there is a third person in otherside and or we have changes according to he/her sight. Whether our act, cares or anything that could be a triggers.We who need to found those triggers and fixed it.When we meet him/her, make sure in a cool down.Throw away the egoism and perfections if and only if we still love him/her.

Hi adhyz: This must be a terrible, devastating situation. I mean, when you don't even know what's the reason behind the termination of a relationship. If I were in this situation I think I should front this person even if we fight because I should know what happen and if it's possible to fix it. I would feel really sad if she just left me without explaining why. ALVARO

Respect what they have told and said. If that's what they want, so be it. Once they lost those love feelings, there's no point in saying more because they have already made up their mind, before they had the courage to tell us. It's alright that don't appreciate us, and it's their loss for the temptation by something they think it's better for them, when they had just lost the best right in front of them. Move on in life and time will tell if there are regrets.

Hi there adhyz82!! I think that both of you should calm down and wait for the right time to confront and face your misunderstandings.Maybe you both need time to think and realize what you have done wrong and how to straighten things up.

I would want to call her, and clear things up. I don't want to regret anything by not taking any chances. Having no closure in a relationship is something that eats me up fast and it gets annoying at time. but before I do anything I would make sure that I have calm down first because a fight is very eminent if neither one of you will give way. I'll be man enough about it to give her the chance to say everything that she wants, but if I think her reason is really not really good enough, I would have a verbal fight with her and try to change her mind

I remembered the last time my boyfriend did the same thing. It was exactly last year when we broke up. One morning when he just sent me an SMS and said that we should call off, without any reasons. I was so confused that I drove to his place when he was not returning my calls. His place were 1 and a half hour away from mine. But distance was not an issue. After I arrived he approached me and we talked about some things. I knew that he lied about several things. the last thing that I know about him was that he updated in his facebook, that he was committed to somebody. That hurts!