What do you think about Marriage?

I think to marry is a long term commitment unless you are sure you love someone for whatever bad side he/she has.. you will always embrace it and you are all set to go through every one single problem together hand in hand.. that is the paradigm of marriage of mine

I have never been married. Yet I have studied it thru the people around me and it takes a lot of work to make a marriage last. I think a lot of people think it's going to be easy. Nothing worthwhile is easy! I am now 41 years old and most of my buddies who are married say they wouldn't do it again. They all tell me if they were me they would never consider it. As of right now, there is no danger of myself getting married. But in the future, who knows???? I have learned to never say never, so I won't. It still looks a bit scary to me though.

I think most people don't understand the difference between love & lust. They perceive lust as love & rush into marriage. I did that once & we are now divorced. When I met my last hubby, I knew the second I met him that I loved him & wanted to marry him!!! Not wanting to follow in the same path as my first marriage, I didn't try & rush things. Yes, we got married within a short time frame, but it was a truly deep love!!! So, yes I think you can get married within 3-4 months & truly love each other & share a bond in marriage. It also seems to me that over the last 50 years or so that we have been taught that we are nothing if we aren't married; so many get married in order to feel worthy!!! That is poppycock!!! It doesn't take a spouse to give us worth!!! Of course, it is GREAT to have someone to share life with; but it does NOT define us as a person!!! I have a dear friend who lived with her guy for 20 years. They got married almost a year ago & they don't yet live in the same house. She seems to feel validated that he wanted to marry her & he feels secure in the fact that she actually married him. I don't say anything to them, but I really don't understand why they bothered to get married. They are together less than they were when they were dating!!!

i got maried after 2 month knwoing she, my beloved wife now. and we have no problem with it. now she is 2 months pregnant, we are waiting our first baby

For me, Marriage is a sacred union of a man and a woman, recognized by law & God..... it should have a long term relationship between partners before deciding to get married..... s they sy, when you develop the ability to listen to anything unconditionally without losing your temper or self-confidence, it means you're MARRIED.... hehehee

i think marriage is a nice relationship made in man kind. it is also a social practice that describes a couple as husband and wife.