easy to talk to strangers than to familiar ones
By Polang
@tkonlinevn (6438)
Vietnam
January 5, 2012 2:37am CST
I have 2 fb account. An account is my real name and I just added the friend. An account is my nickname and almost no one knows who I really was.
I can talk about any issues with you in my friend list with ease, including the problems silently issues to get their advice.
I was afraid to talk to my close friends on fb.
In this case, talking to strangers is easier than reasonable?
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5 responses
@kg_gurl (220)
• United States
5 Jan 12
I think talking to strangers are easier because they listen to your problems and then try to come up with a positive comment to cheer you up and help out. Which is mostly what we needed when we're in trouble - to boost our spirits up when we're down. Sometimes it's very difficult to talk to close friends because you are afraid they would judge you. But if you have a best friend or a brother/sister you can talk to it would also be good because they are able to tell you not only the good things but the bad too if there would be like a bad consequence to what you are thinking of doing or not doing. They are your close friend/s so they are not afraid to speak out. But if your friends are like constantly putting you down or judging you then better not talk to them and I guess they really are not your true friends.
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@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
6 Jan 12
I like your idea "Sometimes it's very difficult to talk to close friends because you are afraid they would judge you.". That's true!
@sswallace21 (1824)
• United States
5 Jan 12
I'm just curious how you requests friends on an account with your nick name. If I don't know who someone is I wouldn't accept them as a friend. I assume a lot of people are that way. Could you explain your process? Best Wishes!
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
6 Jan 12
Nickname is a special name which express one of my characters. With my nickname, I can share to you that I and my husband have just had an argument without my sister or my friends will know this. I don't want they know. etc....:)
@sswallace21 (1824)
• United States
6 Jan 12
I understand that. What I was wondering is does your true friends know you nickname? How do you acquire your friends list? I'm assuming it's people who already know you. Is this correct?
@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
5 Jan 12
Sometimes I get depressed over my phisical issues. I don't like to talk to my friends, because I don't want them to feel bad. In that case talking to a stranger was much easier. I was seeing a therapist for awhile, and it was easier to tell her some things because she didn't really know me.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
6 Jan 12
Your response is my ideas :) You said exactly what I mean. Thanks.
@girl_thinking (1959)
• Philippines
5 Jan 12
I have the same case. I think it is a lot easier to express your opinion when you talk to strangers. I have not yet thought about the reason to this. All I know is that strangers seem to be more receptive compared to someone you already know. I also think that familiarity kills the mystery. It is nice to talk to someone you don't know because somehow there is a mystery there. You just want to open up and slowly advance to the line called "familiarity"
That is my take on this. Good day ^^
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
6 Jan 12
That's one reason. I think you're right. One more reason is can express me with many character: joke, smile, cry etc... But with the familiarity persons, they know only one of my characters. So, they'll feel strange if I become a different person.
@Victoria222 (675)
• Russian Federation
5 Jan 12
Yeah, i was thinking of doing the same that you did. Because i have an account on facebook with my real name and i hate all people that i know in real life.people became unnormal. so i think i'll create a new account. strangers are always kind to me and polite. i was communicating with them on twitter. it's very great. try it.
also there's a web sites that were named "talk to stranger". I used to visit them but now i don't have much time. as for me, strangers are better. :)
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
6 Jan 12
Maybe strangers are for Internet life. And familiar persons are for true life. I think both of them are necessary for us.