give me a solution
By smadanmts
@smadanmts (50)
January 5, 2012 3:27am CST
One of the my friend fall in love.3 years going on life smoothly.but now both are get problems started by parents.in my friend side no problem.but him lover parents start the problems.him lover parents telling to her do not marry him,if you marry him, you are not my baby and don't come our home.both are get confused,how to solve this problem.
4 responses
@savypat (20216)
• United States
5 Jan 12
They have to decied if their relationship is strong enough to withstand the pressure put on it by her family? English is very difficult to learn, hang in there. PM me and I will give you correct English on this discussion if you want.
@yaso4u (502)
• India
5 Jan 12
Hi Madan,
If your friend is in a job and can able to live with that girl happily then ask your friend to meet that girls parents directly and convey that he is in such position and convince her parents to belive that your friend is best partner to their daughter.
As per me, by sitting and talking every problem can be solved and we can reduce the hurt of parents too. Atlast we need our parents to be part of our life.
@sumatix (257)
• United Arab Emirates
5 Jan 12
it sounds so typical of parents saying similar words for generations : if you marry this girl you wont be my son anymore"
Ask your friend to firstof all ask his lover to talk to his parents what and where is the problem? Try to resolve it.and also that he will be happy with that girl but no one else.
he then just introspect in himself that what he wants the girl with whom he wants to live his life and has spend 3 long yrs and if she is ready to face all this if they get married.if she is also ready they shud get married after some times parents will themselves cool down and accept the reality.