it's really hard to see the person you like who love someone else. :(

Philippines
January 5, 2012 7:48am CST
it's really frustrating and devastating, if you found out that the person you like loves someone else . :'( Just recently, my heart got closer to her, as if our hearts are in harmony, I thought I got her heart, because where treating each other special, but when I saw her profile in facebook, her ex boyfriend said, "I love you too, Yes, where in peace and we're on again" , and I know, that comment hits me, he surely post it to her profile, so that I could see it . :( I really felt bad cuz, I started to hope, but that's my biggest mistake.
11 responses
boyuancy
@boyuancy (1708)
• India
5 Jan 12
Oh that's really sad Carlo, but look on the brighter side, you said that the ex was the one who posted on your girl's wall. Who knows, if the girl still feels for him or not. If she doesn't, isn't it good for you?
boyuancy
@boyuancy (1708)
• India
6 Jan 12
carlotay123
@carlotay123 (213)
• Philippines
6 Jan 12
Well, I just recently found out that, the girl I like was the 1st one said and post to the guy's wall, "I really do still love you" . :( I just really have to move on . :(
vinothnypd
@vinothnypd (53)
•
6 Jan 12
thumbs up..!!
aleic27
@aleic27 (161)
• Philippines
5 Jan 12
The big question is if this girl and her ex are back together. If they are not together, I think the ex is bitter about his 'big lost' and knows she's into you so he posted that comment for you to see. But if in case they are on, then let go. You deserve so much better and don't lose hope...
carlotay123
@carlotay123 (213)
• Philippines
5 Jan 12
yeah, I better let her go :( thanks for that my friend ..
thatgirl13
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
5 Jan 12
That was exactly what I thought too! There are chances that the ex is still an ex. From my earlier experience, I have learned that if you love someone, confess it. The chances are he/she might be feeling the same. It would suck to know later that the person liked you back too but both were just waiting for the other to tell :((
carlotay123
@carlotay123 (213)
• Philippines
5 Jan 12
I agree.. I'll confront her and tell her what I really feel . :)
cearn25
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
5 Jan 12
Her ex boyfriend is really wise enough to let you see the post. I know you are hurt because of that. Don't worry. Let it pass. I am sure you will get over it.
carlotay123
@carlotay123 (213)
• Philippines
5 Jan 12
thanks for that my friend. :(
enelym001
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
5 Jan 12
Lovin' hurts Sad fact! But would she intentionally make you see it? Maybe it was posted there just for the sake of her friends knowing it. You just feel bad because you care for her and love her. Well, that is life. You need to move on. Enjoy life. And maybe you'll find someone special again. All the best!
enelym001
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
5 Jan 12
Oh sorry, he is the one who posted it and not she. So that means he know that you are courting her or that you like her. Well, maybe this isn't the time for you and her. Who knows they break up again
carlotay123
@carlotay123 (213)
• Philippines
5 Jan 12
yeah ur right, thanks for that advice my friend . :(
Bamboee
@Bamboee (645)
• United Arab Emirates
6 Jan 12
:).. Carlotay123, I even have a more painful story.. After dating my husband for years and marrying him. I knew that he had a girlfriend in his past but that was past. I do not care about past, present is what is most important to me. Second day of my marriage, my husband was all lost. I asked him what is wrong, are you not happy? U know what his reply was? He said that "I wish I had given her a chance to marry me, i'll always keep wondering how it would have been, I dont think so anybody can ever love me the way she did" .. I dumped my education, my high profile career, my friends, my family just for him.. And this is what I got in return.. That my husband holds feelings for his ex, who is God knows where! my love, my sacrifices all were useless, because I could not take her place!! This is the biggest Mistake ever!
carlotay123
@carlotay123 (213)
• Philippines
6 Jan 12
that's really sad Bamboee :( I hope your husband will realize how lucky he is to have you . :( Wish you all the best my friend, and thanks for the respond . :)
vinothnypd
@vinothnypd (53)
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6 Jan 12
Hey carlotay, Just ask your self "Do I love her", "Can I live without her?" If the answer for both the question is Yes, then you can go any extinct for her... All the best..!! Cheers, Vinoth
adhyz82
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
6 Jan 12
wow..it`s really deeply heart question vino
adhyz82
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
6 Jan 12
yes of course..something it`s not good when we see the people that we like doesn`t like us and love somebody else.. c`mon..life must goes on...you must wake up and survive
edsss17
@edsss17 (4394)
• Philippines
18 Jan 12
Aww. Devastating! I know how that feels. Have you asked her if she really still love him? If not, then you still have chance. But if she said it, then I can only tell you to move on.
igatiful_badass
@igatiful_badass (1222)
• Philippines
6 Jan 12
Ya that is so hurting But i guess better find it first, ask the girl if its true, and if its yes then let go. I'm sure you will find a much better than her :)
neonmay25
@neonmay25 (208)
• Philippines
6 Jan 12
Definitely! I could relate to this one. It's so hard when you expect so much and then you assume you're both in love. It's hurtful, don't hope. Things like that do happen and it happen to me most often and I just get on and then forget. That is how life should be.:) Trial and error.hehe.
kaeirole
@kaeirole (668)
• Philippines
8 Jan 12
you can still continue to like her even though she doesn't feel the same way as you do..maybe you both are better as friends..just accept that she love's someone else and she's happy with him..but hope you will still continue to be her friend..because i'm sure she'll be upset also if you'll avoid her because of that..