This Messy Thing Called "LOVE"

Not even the platonic kind of love?

@flapiz what do you mean by platonic love?

@flapiz Oooh you mean like the love you can have for your family members.

Well, you could start by dressing as the heroin in the drama, and let's see if it will make you giddy... I know it always works for me...

Hahaha. You are so hilarious! But well I'd definitely try that. I think it's time for me to do some shopping. Hahah. Anyway valentines is still 3 weeks away. Maybe I can attract some giddy spirit. lol.

Well you're right nobody knows the heart. It's really a strange, weird, and mysterious organ. Hahaha.. I wish I could experience those GIDDY feelings sometimes. I think I need a little spark in my life. It's so monotonous these days. In short I feel so uninspired.

Well I like the comparison you've made about love being like God and Demon. It is an ambivalent feeling. We can't really tell if love will make us or break us. And yes it's very true that since love has no definite meaning we tend to play around with it and like every plays we don't know what the end is. We may end up victorious and happy, we may end up as a loser-sad and broke. LoL. Sometimes we end up cheating or cheated. Well somehow I think I'm one of those helpless ones. But I hope someday I'll discover the secret behind love.

Hi, You said it! A little bit of compramise, between each other make love more stronger and firm. It is my experience. Now, we are in the middle of aboundance and having a lot of choices. I still feel that it is the time to redefine the meaning of most of the words and its feeling behind it. You said, the words cheating and cheated. I really got the meaning. When we are chating, at the same time we are gaining also, when we feel that we are cheated, we get inspiratiion to cheat as well. So, all are inter linked and I feel that enjoy the life how it is, regardless of what is being already said about. I feel life is good only when I think in such a way that feel the life how it is. If you want to love someone, love the way you like. All want to enjoy life, while doing it, it will hurt someone elese differently. So, no commitments to anyone, and keep living by loving and we got few fraction of seconds as life, and it is to be enjoyed and not to cry and weep. Good day & cheers, Thank-s

Well I was struck by what you said that when we feel cheated we get the inspiration to cheat and that everything is interlinked. It's like Newton's Law of Motion, the Law of Action and Reaction. For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction. Thanks for the very long and inspiring insight.

Well the way you describe it is very BEAUTIFUL. All I can say is that you're one lucky guy to have found that special love. I hope someday I will get to experience such feeling too.

Well I think love is as you say it supposed to be beautiful. It is indeed beautiful, but what makes it painful sometimes is because people tend to MISUSE it or sometimes it's painful because we don't get back what we thought we deserve.Love being unbalance therefore causes pains. I feel sad about you and your husband. I'm really sorry to hear that. I hope you could patch it up though. Maybe your love and patience will eventually change him.

Thank you my friend.. Your right that painful part is when people take advantage of it, misuse it, mistreat it and most of all misunderstand it. They think that they will get away by doing whatever they wish.. but its not true, God is watching and what you seed is what you grow.. Its a saying at my house... If you seed in good you will receive a beautiful fruit out of it.. But if you seed in bad then you will pay for it, because you will not get anything out of it! :).. That is why I keep seeding in good... no matter what! Because I know, that one day I will get the good fruit!

Well yes love is subjective and how we define it varies one how we experience it. But I don't think love is blind.... It just doesn't mind. In other words,If you love someone you see all his or her flaws and negatives but you still accept him or her anyway.

Yes you're right. I think I've heard a phrase somewhere which says: Loving the idea of being in love. I think that is exactly what you are saying? I can't help but question: Am I really in love or as what you were saying, I just love the idea of being in love. LOL. Thank you for your view.

WOW! That is very nicely said. Well I've always believed that there's someone out there for me. The thing is I get so impatient sometimes and end up grabbing just anyone. Or like someone had said I am in love of the idea of being in love that I end up confusing crushes, infatuation, and admiration with love. Now I have decided to wait a little more patiently. Thank you Ivonne. Your reply is very inspiring.