how is it guys don't care?

As people before have commented not all guys are like that. I think it is just the guys you happen to have gone for if your going from experience. Most guys as girls are aware are after one thing and say what they think girls want to hear in order to get this, they will swear on anything etc and sleep around. Its these guys who give guys as a whole a bad name. I would say im not a normal guy, i tell people what guys are after and try and help them to avoid getting hurt. I am 25 in a 3 year relationship and would do anything for my partner. Some guys are emotional I think it depends on their past experiences I can be emotional at times talking about certain things due to my past. Guys who go from one girl to another have no respect for girls as if they did they would not treat girls like that, most guys think that they can get away with it and see it as fun and thats wrong cos your playig with peoples feelings. I think that when guys get to a certain age they start to learn from their past and realise they cant keep messing around, saying that some realise this and then settle down with the first girl who is interested in them, so look out for leaches like this.

Hi Miss... You seem to have generalised things done by a few.. Ask me about devotion.. I devoted my life to a girl.. I gave her all she wanted and what did I get. She ditched me after draining out every penny of my hard work.. I fell in love again and I still love her... I am so devoted to her... But we were oceans apart and she could not wait for me... I lost her tooo.... I have been true and am proud of it... You can't blame every guy miss... There are some good guys too... Take care...

Not all guys are like that. It is necessary to differentiate. Some may be trying for a stop gap arrangement. Others may be looking for serious commitment. You got to look at the whole picture. You would know. :)

Some guys try to forget the last relationship to avoid continued conflict which could overflow into the new relationship. Some men "real men" have the balls to try to repair the relationship before it goes to far astray and if they cannot they at least try to remain friends. At least this is how I feel about it. If you feel like you love some one and it all goes south it is a big hit to the emotional psyche of a person and most men can't take it. But I am not trying to justify this act in the slightest. Men should be monogamous, faithful, loyal, and devoted to the one they love. If they truly love them then this shall prevail. I found someone and I won't let anything stop me from showing here that there are still some good men out there. We do exist....I am living proof of that. :D